Teach Me to Father

Just stop. Barry challenges you to stop limiting God to human thinking, expectations, logic, past experiences, and tradition rather than what Scripture says. Join the FatherSeekers community! https://www.skool.com/fatherseekers FS Facebook FS Instagram FS YouTube Ask Barry a question: barry@fatherseekers.org CHAPTERS 00:00 Stop Boxing God 01:43 What It Means 05:54 Why We Do It...

The greatest spiritual danger in the last days is not persecution. It's deception. Barry shares how you can spot deception in the media you consume and the world around you. Join the FatherSeekers community! https://www.skool.com/fatherseekers FS Facebook FS Instagram FS YouTube Ask Barry a question: barry@fatherseekers.org CHAPTERS 00:00 Freedom From Fawning 00:59 Definitions...

Barry confronts “sucking up” as disingenuous flattery used to gain favor with authority, calling it manipulative, rooted in insecurity and the fear of man, and harmful to families and culture. He links this behavior to a modern obsession with being “spectacular,” where showy displays in social media, workplaces, and churches can overshadow truth and substance. Don't let that happen! Join the&...

Aaron Archer continues the conversation with Barry, on the “wound that cripples” many dads. Aaron brings his expertise as a emergency room nurse for a wound-assessment framework of your mental wounds. Join the FatherSeekers community! https://www.skool.com/fatherseekers FS Facebook FS Instagram FS YouTube Ask Barry a question: barry@fatherseekers.org CHAPTERS 00:00 Know What No...

Aaron Archer, a new dad and nurse practitioner in Knoxville, shares with Barry how he learned to be a father after growing up without a present father. Aaron shares meeting his wife Abby through hospital orientation, building a nursing career, and welcoming their daughter Ava. He defines fatherlessness primarily as lack of presence, describes his parents’ divorce amid abuse and addiction, and expl...

Are you testing what you're listening to? Barry brings over a year and a half of studying to help you discern the voices that fill your ears. Podcasts, YouTube, TV, which voices are Christ honoring? Join the FatherSeekers community! https://www.skool.com/fatherseekers FS Facebook FS Instagram FS YouTube Ask Barry a question: barry@fatherseekers.org CHAPTERS 00:00 A Startling Co...

Get years ahead in your fatherhood! Barry shares how lacking a fatherhood blueprint led to years of mistakes, then teaches five essentials for building that blueprint. Join the FatherSeekers community! https://www.skool.com/fatherseekers FS Facebook FS Instagram FS YouTube Ask Barry a question: barry@fatherseekers.org CHAPTERS 00:00 Why Every Dad Needs a Fatherhood Blueprint 00...

Barry shares five signs men are quietly collapsing: isolation is the first sign. Listen to hear the rest and see if you need to seek further support from impending collapse. Join the FatherSeekers community! https://www.skool.com/fatherseekers FS Facebook FS Instagram FS YouTube Ask Barry a question: barry@fatherseekers.org CHAPTERS 00:00 High-Functioning and Broken 01:47 Sign...

Barry delves into seven research-backed habits that strengthen marriages. Discover strategies to deepen your marital bond and build a resilient relationship to last! Join the FatherSeekers community! https://www.skool.com/fatherseekers FS Facebook FS Instagram FS YouTube Ask Barry a question: barry@fatherseekers.org TIMELINE 00:00 The Work of Marriage 00:48 7 Habits for a Stron...

Barry and Heather discuss the challenges and insights of choosing a lifelong, Godly spouse. They share personal stories and practical advice on marriage, parenting, and the importance of emotional health and spiritual guidance. Join the FatherSeekers community! https://www.skool.com/fatherseekers FS Facebook FS Instagram FS YouTube Ask Barry a question: barry@fatherseekers.org...

Jeff Goelz returns to delve into his journey from various religious backgrounds to studying in a Messianic synagogue. They discuss Torah study, the Jewish roots of Christianity, and the challenges facing the Western Church. Tune in for deep insights for your own faith journey! Join the FatherSeekers community! https://www.skool.com/fatherseekers FS Facebook FS Instagram FS YouT...

Barry explores why men stop talking. Discover the impacts of silence, the importance of using your voice, and the crucial role of brotherhood in overcoming isolation. Speak up, your voice matters! Join the FatherSeekers community! https://www.skool.com/fatherseekers FS Facebook FS Instagram FS YouTube Ask Barry a question: barry@fatherseekers.org TIMELINE 00:00 The Cost of Sile...

Why don't most Men don’t share everything with their wife? —and what does that actually mean? Today Barry talks to the ladies on why men withhold emotional and mental stress from their partners. He discusses the inherent differences between men and women and offers strategies for fostering better communication and understanding in relationships. Join the FatherSeekers community!&nbs...

Explore the inefficacy of inauthentic apologies and learn five essential steps to create a culture of true repentance and emotional regulation. Barry offers how to foster healthier relationships and effective conflict resolution within your family, shifting from shame to transformation. Get the FREE Blueprint for Never Saying I'm Sorry Again Here: https://www.fatherseekers.org/resources Join ...

Barry interviews his friend Jeff, who shares his remarkable journey from building nightclubs to becoming a successful real estate mogul. The conversation delves into Jeff's experiences in martial arts, his venture into politics, and his spiritual transformation. Jeff offers valuable insights on achieving financial success, serving others, and the importance of seeking God's guidance in life. Join&...

Barry explores the legacies of Jonathan Edwards and Max Jukes, two men who's lives drastically affected their future generations in opposite ways. Discover how the decisions you make today can shape the future for generations to come. Are you ready to build a legacy worth leaving? Join the FatherSeekers community! https://www.skool.com/fatherseekers FS Facebook FS Instagram FS...

The most requested guest so far is... Barry's wife, Heather! Join Barry and Heather as they dive into their powerful journey from brokenness to healing. They discuss the challenges of rebuilding trust after divorce, overcoming depression with community, and what legacy for them looks like for empty nesters. Join the FatherSeekers community! https://www.skool.com/fatherseekers F...

Everyone faces their own battles. But with God, a greater story awaits. Steve Burkes exemplifies that. Barry talks to his former college classmate, Pastor Steve Burkes today. Steve is a pastor and politician from Floyd County, Indiana. From overcoming a challenging childhood, being raised by a single mother in poverty to rising as a key influencer and a devoted father, Pastor Burkes' journey is a...

Who taught you how to drive a car? Barry shares heartfelt memories of learning to drive with his grandfather and reflects on the parallels between driving and fatherhood. He emphasizes three key characteristics that make the biggest difference. Join the FatherSeekers community! https://www.skool.com/fatherseekers FS Facebook FS Instagram FS YouTube Ask Barry a question: barry@f...

In a world often dominated by misleading ideas about masculinity, we tackle the misconceptions of toxic masculinity. Barry and guest Mark Oleck delve into the attributes of biblical manhood, emphasizing servant leadership, emotional honesty, and strength under control. They address the cultural distortions and forgotten virtues that define true masculinity, encouraging men to reclaim their roles a...

The seasons of life never stop. Today Barry reflects on recent season of depression and identifies practical steps to persist through whatever season you may be in. Barry emphasizes the importance of recognizing that no season—whether good or bad—lasts forever. He offers practical advice on assessing and analyzing our experiences during different seasons, and how to utilize those lessons for perso...

The young guns are teaching the old dogs new tricks. Barry sits down with Sam Cornelissen, a young entrepreneur who has had a profound impact on Barry himself. They discuss the importance of listening to the younger generation, preparing yourself to be a good husband and father while you're single, and what it takes to build a business in your 20s. Join the FatherSeekers community!&...

"If you knew what that man did to me..." Barry addresses the emotionally challenging (yet liberating) journey of forgiving your father. Tune in to discover what forgiveness truly is, what it is not, and why it is crucial for your personal and generational healing. Join the FatherSeekers community! https://www.skool.com/fatherseekers FS Facebook FS Instagram FS YouTube Ask Barry...

Do you find yourself grappling with unanswered questions and insecurities about fatherhood? Barry addresses the most pressing questions about fatherhood, offering insights and strategies to overcome the void left by an absent father. Learn how to become a good father, process pain and anger, avoid repeating past mistakes, and find positive role models and support. Join the FatherSeekers&...

In an age flooded with information, are you seeking the right knowledge for true transformation? Barry breaks down the Great Trifecta: wisdom, knowledge, and understanding, to help you filter, process, and apply life-changing information with precision and purpose. Join the FatherSeekers community! https://www.skool.com/fatherseekers FS Facebook FS Instagram FS YouTube Ask Barr...