#AskAMan

Ask A Man 30 Oct '26: 'We have different fighting styles' 30.10.2026 29:40 ↓

Anonymous has been with her partner for 5 years now, they have a 15 year age gap, he’s in his mid-forties and she’s in her early thirties.  She says communication and conflict resolution is the biggest problem they have in their relationship as they struggle to agree on fighting styles and she feels like he doesn’t give her space to voice her concerns.  She’s worr...

Ask A Man 19 Oct '26: 'Should I Stay with Him Despite His Married Status' 19.10.2026 24:29 ↓

Anonymous has been with her partner for about 5 years now and they are currently in a long distance relationship because she lost her job and moved back home.  She then found out earlier this year that he’s actually married to someone else, who he paid lobola for a while back.  She wants to leave him but he’s been begging her to stay in their relationship. He’s been dia...

Ask A Man 29 Sep '26: 'I don't want to be a side, but I'm falling for him.' 29.09.2026 29:18 ↓

Anonymous met a guy who she immediately hit things off with and started having a relationship with him from the onset, and they’ve been together for about 6 months. However, a few months into the relationship she realised that he’s actually in a serious relationship with someone who he has children with.  She wants to exit this situation but she finds herself falling “deeply...

Ask A Man 28 Sep '26: 'Did my infidelity ruin us for good?' 28.09.2026 31:52 ↓

Anonymous met his current partner about 8 years ago, when he was still in varsity, and they’ve been together ever since.  He still had flings with other ladies at the beginning of their relationship but stopped that behaviour after they had their first child.  He eventually went back to his old ways of having affairs with other women, and this time his partner found out after seein...