Your Ni Dom

In this reflection, I close out Season 12 (Year 6) with several discoveries about my internal operating system as an INTJ8. Supporting themes: Candace Owens; Teaching; Leadership; Political trauma of being low income and racialized; Motivation; Immediate feedback vs indirect feedback; Conflict. Special note: I'm taking the rest of July to go silent and regroup. Will see you in August (2026). Thank...

In this reflection I zoom from my most recent (and persistent) point of friction to discover some critical, macro Lessons to be respected. Supporting themes: Recognizing and accepting patterns; INTJ blind spots (concerning the social world); Critical Race Feminism; Friendship conflict across space and time. This reflection was inspired in part by Suryia Nayak (" Race, Gender and the Activism of Bl...

In this reflection I try to locate when/ how enmeshment started with a sibling. Supporting themes: Dating; Polyamory; Possession; Expected loyalty/ solidarity; Friendships; Communication; Abuse; Emotional dysregulation: The advanced skill of teaching. Topology: Ni domness; Enneagram Type 8; INTJ

In this reflection I talk about the danger of familial enmeshment as relating to selfhood. Topology: INTJ8

In this reflection I process friction around historical- mass jurisdiction and locally-confined jurisdiction. Supporting themes: Masterminding; Systems Theory; Relational trust; Historical oppression; Miseducation of low income Black children; Behavior as communication. Special Note: This reflection is "Type" heavy. Topology: INTJ: Enneagram Type 8; Dominant Ni vs Inferior Ni; Fe; Fi; ESFP; ESFJ;...

In this reflection I explore two friction points related to confidence: with the self and with others. Supporting themes: Communication and group dynamics; Highly sensitive people and sensitivity; Tonality and subtle energy shifts as data points; Being a mastermind; Strategizing and problem solving; Giftedness and polymathy; Production equity (or not); Silence as a weaponized vacuum; Writing and t...

In this reflection I explore the interrelatedness of three isolated (and random) events. Supporting themes: Spirituality; Birdlife; Phobias; Spacial sovereignty; Sexual sovereignty; Friendship; Direction of care. Topology: INTJ8

In this reflection I consider my gut needs (Type 8) compared to my current mastermind strategies (INTJ). I end the reflection considering the way I project the boulder onto my boss when I simply need her to sit inside the pebble.    Special note: A significant part of this reflection was dedicated on typing my boss... is she an ESFJ or an ESTP?  [Do know that six weeks after I recorded this episod...

in this reflection I deal with repressed and complicated grief regarding Mother's Day. Supporting themes: Inhibited/ masked grief; hypo- arousal; Alexithymia; Analytical safety. Trigger warning: There is a lot of sadness and a noticeable state of crying. Listen with care. Typology: INTJ; Enneagram 8; ESFJ; Enneagram 1

In this reflection I start and conclude with two questions that relate to a phenomenon called "Cognitive Omnipresence." Supporting themes: Land people and land suites; Weight loss management; Walking; Residential neighborhoods; Multiplicity; Location, work and love; Sex; Childhood reading; Being petty. Topology: Ni, Si and INTJ8.

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In this reflection I talk about disputing social norms. Supporting themes: Coach Dawn Staley, March Madness and the perception of aggression; Negotiating the social constructs of race and gender with other Black folks; Navigating asynchronous social spaces through words, conflict and humor; Solo-ism; Fight, flight, freeze or fawn. Topology: INTJ8,; Sensor norms; Ni-domness

In this reflection I explore what it means to know in community... as an automatic experience or a manual one. Topology: INTJ8; INTJ5; Te; Ti; Ni; Se

In this reflection I use a car metaphor (using the front and back windows) to explore a current struggle I have with moving forward.   Supporting themes:  Automation (automated love and automated belonging); Friendships; Family; Loss; Romatic love vs familial/platonic love; The Purge; Attachment styles/disorders; Trauma; Book writing; Business acquisiton.    Typology: INTJ8; Enneagram 8 vs Enneagr...

In this reflection I explore my recent sickness as an act of purging toxic elelements from my psychological/spiritial life.   Supporting themes:  Sleep cycles; Narcolepsy; Paranormal Phenomenon; Limits of science and Western culture; Identity barriers; DIKW (Data, Information, Knowledge, Wisdom); Low frequency vs high frequency living; Dying process; Sensation fixes (food, etc.); Empathy and empat...

In this reflection I contend with INTJ blues around labor and giftedness. 

In this reflection I unpack the different ways inferior-SE impact my life. Supporting themes: Belonging; Identity; Fear, anger and shame; Egypt, the Promise Land and the Egyptians; Business; Teaching;  Acquisition, contracts and websites.   Typology: Identity Stack; Shadow Stack; INTJ8.

In this reflection, I explore deep psychological truths that impact lifestyle by design.   Typology: INTJ8; INTJ; Enneagram 8

In this reflection I consider my perceptions and pursuits through specific paradigms.    Supporting themes; Ground Zero;" "Design Living;" Individual accountability; Security vs dignity; Rights and tensions of a boss; Business; The strategy of employment.    Typology: INTJ5 vs INTJ8; Enneagram Tri-type of 853 vs 854.

In this reflection I explore the deployment of my talents. Special note:This is the start of Season 12. Topology: INTJ8