Your Life, Your Rules!

Jerrica Lewis! THAT GIRL!! Jerrica is sharing HER Truth and OUR Truth. Chiiiile, this is for my Christian girlies who are struggling to be Christ-like and their authentic self. Sis, if you were raised like Jerrica or me, sometimes we struggled with finding our way in Christ and being in this world. Let’s just say Jerrica is ripping off all of the bandaids and showing us how to be THAT GIRL. Her st...

Hey Sis Hey! Are you ready to own your job interviews this year? Giiiirl, it is your year to secure a job you will enjoy while making more money. HELLO. This episode is sharing the best 5 interview questions to ask! I have tested these questions with over 30 women and received great feedback. Respond and let me know which question you liked best. Are we connected: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@n...

Giiiirl, 2024 is close. Like days away! And I don’t know about you, but I am thrilled for the new year. How are you feeling? Are you wondering how you are going to accomplish your goals? Yay!! This episode was created with you in mind. I am sharing 5 tools to help us plan for 2024. These tools helped me have the best 2023. I accomplished all of my goals. This will be you and me in 2024. After list...

Tis the season to be jolly. Fa-la-la-la-la, la-la-la-la. RIGHT? Maybe not though. Are you dreading going home for the holidays? Are you dreading spending the holidays with your family? Are you concerned about what your family members will say? This episode was created with you in mind. I am sharing some boundaries you can take into the holidays to end the season screaming CHECKMATE!!! This season...

The only flex you need in your life is vulnerability. We live in a world of highlight reels, surface-level relationships, and feeling alone. That’s not life! That’s not helpful! God calls us to be in community with people we love! It starts with you. Do you love you? Are you showing up unapologetically? Giiiirl, listen to this episode and watch how your life changes. It’s good, impactful, and shor...

Are you worth it?! You say you are worthy and what does that look like? As you feel stuck in your career, finances, relationships, and health, what steps are you taking to feel worthy? How are you investing in yourself? This episode shares how I felt stuck and eventually, was sick and tired of being stuck. I decided to choose me. Through my story and stuck experience, I am sharing 5 reasons why yo...

You’ve been told a lie! Whose voice are you listening to? Words hurt! That’s the truth even though we were raised with “sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never hurt me.” Somebody told a fib. It’s time to acknowledge the unkind words people said to you and own your truth! You get to define who you are, what you want, and the people you want around you. Your Life, Your Rules! My Yo...

Sis, sometimes the best way to deal with a toxic boss is to WALK OUT! God did not create you to suffer on the clock. Chiiiiile bye. In this episode, I share three tips to help you get unstuck and choose you. Don’t spend another day choosing your boss, the company, or your fears of being a job hopper. Your well-being is more important. Choose you, Sis! 🎉PSA🎊 I am hosting a masterclass soon! It’s...

Podcast summary Chiiiile, you are focusing on the wrong thing. Being a job hopper ain’t bad AS LONG AS you have a story to tell. Do you know what’s a trip, technically, I was a job hopper. However, that never crossed my mind until yesterday, and it has never stopped me from getting a job. As a job hopper, I have increased my salary by about $37,000. Because I focus on what I am good at and am conf...

Are you at a crossroads and wondering where God is? Our good Sis Nedra Nelson Wright has the answer. Nedra is a powerhouse. She has a gut-wrenching story - molested, attempted suicide, and a failed marriage. This could've taken her out and SHE DECLARED WAR! While on the floor and screaming, “God, I need you” Nedra’s life forever changed. She birthed “She Declared War,” which is helping women heal...

Are you dreading how early it gets dark? Are you thinking about winter and which shows you are going to binge-watch? Season depression is real! The latest episode of my podcast Your Life, Your Rules gives you 7 tools to help you fight seasonal depression. Are we connected: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@njaninegates?_t=8g19VMbjmf9&_r=1 Instagram: https://instagram.com/njaninegates?igshid=MzMyNGUy...

Talk yo ish!!! Now! I am so excited for the latest Your Life, Your Rules podcast episode. You have been conditioned to play small and not speak your truth. Not sharing the goodness that you are is hurting you. It doesn’t allow people to really know you, it’s hard for you to market yourself, and negotiate. I need you to talk yo ish! I need you to ask for what you want! I need you to go after what y...

Recently, I shared a goal of mine and the person laughed in my face. Giiiirl, I don’t know if the knuck if you buck Janine should’ve come out or not. She didn’t. Who are you surrounded by? Can you share your goals with them? Are they laughing in your face, projecting their fears, or stopping you in your tracks? This episode will help you find like-minded people who are excited to see you win! Are...

I am sooo excited for you to hear this conversation between Sam and me. We go deep!! I love Sam’s vulnerability: straying away from God, healing her father's issues, connecting with God, and so much more. She’s ready to step out and be all God calls her to be. She is so kind, sweet, and THAT GIRL! Make sure you give Sam some love by listening to this episode and following her. 💜🙏🏿🥰 Ways to con...

Giiiirl, have you ever tried to stay in the present moment? I know you’ve been struggling with staying present and not getting the bag or that next position. Sis, you chasing success is causing more stress than happiness in your life. I want to let you know that there are benefits to staying present. Listen to this episode to learn 5 ways to stay present and have a work-life balance. Are we connec...

When you walk through, are heads turning? A confident woman has an inner glow. And I am excited for you to get to know and embrace your inner glow. I am sharing 7 Habits Of A Confident Woman. Sometimes showing up and showing out can be scary. You are concerned about what people will say or think. And I am here to tell you that some people will shrink because of your confidence and others will cele...

Hey Sis! Are you ready to walk into every room and be you? Girrrrrl, it is time for you to live A Free Girl Summer. This episode shares 7 ways to connect with yourself and have A Free Girl Summer. No more shrinking, people pleasing, or showing up as someone else. Are we connected on Instagram: www.instagram.com/njaninegates or Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/531813955255829/?ref=share_gr...

Hey Sis! Last week, I asked if you were ready for your next level? Of course, you are. You are THAT GIRL! Do you have the keys to do so? Do you know what it takes for you to level up? This episode will help you level up with peace, ease, happiness, and thanksgiving. You can find me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/njaninegates or Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/531813955255829/?ref=share_...

Are you ready for your next level? Let’s be honest, you are excited and want to live the life of your dreams. You want the house, car, vacation, money, friends, partner, and… Your dream life has been delayed because life gets complicated and you lose focus. This is simply because of a lack of awareness and tools to stay the course. Stay the course, Sis. You are close to your next level. Listen to...

What Are You Asking For? This episode is going to have you shaking in your boots. If you like things your way and only your way, it is time to reconsider your needs. If you are unwilling to accept help and let people serve you, it’s time to think again. Whew. I am telling you, this episode will stop you in your tracks. Are you ready to slow down and receive your blessings? You can find me on Insta...

It's Going To Happen FOR YOU! Sis, I know you want what you want. You think about your goals and dreams often. You give them your all. Are you getting lost in accomplishing your goals and living your dream life? Are you remembering to rest and receive? It is going to happen. God tells us to "not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up" ~ Galat...

Whew. This episode was hard! And it was on my mind to talk about the importance of you standing in your beauty and knowing you were created in God’s image (Genesis 1:27). Sis, you are beautiful and God made you fearfully and wonderfully. Step into your power. I am sooooooooo excited for The Freedom Retreat, which is taking place this weekend. Girl, have you gotten your ticket yet? It’s goooo time....

One more! Are you willing to do one more? Sis, are you thinking about giving up? Do you feel like your good deeds are not paying off? Do you feel like God has left you in the wilderness to fend for yourself? Sis, God is with you. It is time to do one more. I am sooooo excited and counting down the days until The Freedom Retreat. I am hosting a virtual Spiritual Retreat to teach you how to restore...

Girrrrrl, where have you been? Hey Sis. I know. I know. Long time no talk! Girl, I need to apologize. In this episode, I share where I’ve been, what’s happening, and a special announcement. Let’s just say life was lifey, I needed to reset, and I am back better than ever. Take a listen and let me know what you think. You can find me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/njaninegates or Facebook: https://...

Hey Sis! How are you? I am so excited for you to meet our guest, Alexis McKinney. Alexis is proudly from Milwaukee, WI and resides in Portland, OR. She is a proud dog and plant mom and a creative. Co-founding the Black Girls brunch club, Alexis is a community organizer who enjoys creating safe spaces exclusively for Black women. In her spare time, she enjoys music festivals, painting, skating, and...