Your Extraordinary Life & Dating After Divorce

In this fascinating episode, I had the pleasure of chatting with Dr. Stephanie Byerly, a Trauma-informed Professional Coach, Obstetrical Anesthesiologist, and Certified Life Professional Coach. Stephanie bravely shared her personal journey through marriage, divorce, and finding love again, as well as the psychological struggles that come with being a successful, high achieving woman in leadership....

Have you ever felt like the supporting actress in your own life, putting everyone else's needs before your own? In this episode with Elizabeth Sherman, a master certified health and life coach, we discussed the all-too-common experience of women sacrificing their needs for those around them to avoid feeling guilt, but creating resentment instead. Together, we explored the importance of reconn...

Discover the path to financial liberation for women physicians with our incredible guest, Dr. Latifat Akintade, Money Coach for Badass Women Physicians, host of the Money Fit MD podcast, and bestselling author of Done With Broke.  We discuss the vital role money can play in navigating life after divorce. Many women have deferred to their partners in financial matters, leading to feelings of shame...

Are you tired of feeling stuck in your dating journey and ready to take charge of your love life? Join me as I share the importance of taking responsibility for your dating journey and how crafting a strategic approach can lead to better experiences and bring you closer to finding the person you're meant to be with.  I'll walk you through an example of a client who made a single shift in...

In this fascinating episode, we're joined by Dr. Krystal Sodaitis, a board-certified pediatrician and expert in coaching physicians with neurodiversity. Dr. Sodaitis shares her own story of being a gifted child and how she came to the work of coaching physicians with neurodiversity. We explore the concept of neurodiversity, which embraces the idea that all differences in the brain fall into t...

In this captivating episode, I had the pleasure of welcoming the amazing Hailey Thomas to share her unique journey through divorce, co-parenting, and dating after divorce. Hailey opens up about her journey towards taking full responsibility for her life and happiness, which ultimately led her to the decision to end her marriage amicably.  Hailey met her new partner after a couple of months of dati...

“There's no formulas for recovering from divorce” “ I long ago stopped caring what other people thought about me. It wasn't easy, because I used to really care but now it's like, I just care about me, what I think about myself, and what's best for my kids.” “But I learned how to just love people for who they are. And the power of doing that starting with myself, instead of thin...

Are you tired of attracting low-effort men in dating and relationships, especially after divorce? It’s important that both partners in a relationship are truly invested in the success of the relationship.  In this episode I share my personal experience with high and low effort men when dating. You will discover the factors that may increase the likelihood of tolerating low effort relationships, su...

TRAINING: The 7 Texts that get you 1 - 2 in-person dates every week so you can meet your forever partner in less than 6 months without chasing, settling, or wasting time with non-committal men Discover Your "Core Values Dating Blueprint" And How You Can Use It On:  Dating Apps Text Messages  and Social Events To Meet & Attract Eligible Men Who Match You Dating with your Core Values h...

"I just want everyone listening to know that money is for you and money loves you and money wants to move to you and flow/work through you...money loves you and you're worthy of love, dignity, and respect." -Serena Hicks My guest today is Serena Hicks, a money mindset mentor for love-led humans. We explored the relationship between love and money, discussing how “Holy Wow Money&quot...

“I made the critical decision that day that I was going to change. There was no more trying. There was no more anything. I was just going to figure out how to change.” “If we intellectually know what we need to do, we just need to go out there and do it while we’re learning how to make taking that action less painful.”  - Corinne Crabtree This week, my special guest on the Dating After Divorce pod...

"I think the biggest thing is yes, I got a boyfriend for Christmas and it was so exciting." "In the past I've stayed in relationships before that weren't for me and that was something I wanted to not repeat." "Having that support, I think it was essential because I don't think I could have done this on my own. I needed the guidance...we don't know it al...

My guest on today’s episode is Laurie Israel. Many of my clients have had questions about how to handle finances when remarrying on partnering again after divorce, so I was excited to bring her on the podcast to talk about prenups and how they could be useful. Laurie pulled back the curtain on prenups and laws around money, contribution and shared her views about generosity and its role in relatio...

It's important to take your time to go exclusive and know when and exactly how to make it happen. Too many women say no too early because they feel guilty that taking their time means stringing a man along. Or they get pressured into saying yes too early because they don't want to be the bad person and disappoint anyone This is the stage where you must evaluate whether "your type&qu...

Today’s Podcast is about Dating App Texting Anxiety Texting is the playground of the worst dating games and it's why many dating journeys end before they even begin The myth is that you have to trick a good man into liking you So you do things in a weird way and overthink what to write This stage causes so many people to give up because it's exhausting My overall philosophy is to treat e...

Today's episode is special! This episode is one of the live videos for the 10 DATES IN 30 DAYS CHALLENGE currently going on in the Dating After Divorce Academy. Here are some of my best tips on troubleshooting your dating profile. This episode will help you to better understand how to improve your dating profile. These tips will help you to get better results in your dating journey.   Discove...

“I had changed my mind about children…I was trying to fill a hole… And so I thought, you know, that maybe they would help to fill that. And nothing was going to fill that, right? I didn't even know what the hole was.” “It was messy. It was awful. It was so off script for me. But I think it was the catalyst I needed to understand so many of the processes and thoughts and ways that I had been t...

Today’s episode is all about how much pressure you experience when you’re dating. If you feel pressure it’s probably coming from fear that something will go wrong and trying to do all you can to prevent that outcome. This takes energy away from enjoying dating and staying unattached. It creates exhaustion.  I explain some of the thoughts that lead to feelings of pressure in the dating process and...

We are kicking off the 10 DATES IN 30 DAYS CHALLENGE on the Dating After Divorce Academy! If you are actively dating now, you should definitely try this out in the next 30 days. Challenge yourself and meet men - free from pressure. Discover Your "Core Values Dating Blueprint" And How You Can Use It On:  Dating Apps Text Messages  and Social Events To Meet & Attract Eligible Men Who M...

On this episode, I talk about a tool I occasionally use in my coaching practice, and that's the relationship inventory. A relationship inventory is a walk through I do with my clients on all their past romantic relationships . It is really helpful in navigating thoughts that are keeping you stuck in your dating journey. It's something that you should give a shot. Make a list and walk thr...

“And if we don't feel like we have a voice with each other, to be able to express these insecurities, and to be able to, like, get curious and love ourselves and love each other through it through these types of conversations. It keeps us caged.” “So I want to talk about everything, everything that we struggle with, and let's love with compassion ourselves through it.” “And you feel that...

If you haven't gotten the result you want from your dating journey, there's something missing in the actions you're taking. Not getting the result does not mean the result is not available It just means you haven't gotten the result YET. It means you need to take more of the RIGHT KIND OF ACTION. This episode breaks down what massive action really is, the quantity, quality and...

“And the way that experience expanded me, emotionally, psychologically. I like to say…you're looking at a woman where the worst happened, and I made it.” “For some people, divorce is the worst. And I want you to know, there's hope after that, that as long as you have a pulse…you have possibilities.” “And this is what I will say, you can only scare the people who are not for you away.” “...

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“So I became really obsessed with professional or personal development. And that's when I started digging in deep, like, who am I? Who do I want to be with?”  “I believed that marriage was the problem. I wasn't looking for it because I was pushing that away. So it wasn't even on my radar. I didn't want it to be on my radar because my experience of marriage was so painful…and th...