Grace Koelma & Tara Breuso

Your ADHD Besties

Health EN ↓ 61 episodes

Your ADHD Besties is a podcast for people who are underwhelmed, overwhelmed and very attractive all at the same time... people who put the BDE in ADHD. ❤️‍🔥 Your hosts are besties Grace Koelma (founder of Future ADHD) and Tara Breuso (The ADHD Dietitian). Join us for episodes every Thursday where we unmask together and discuss your juuuuicy ADHD dilemmas.  Submit your divergent dilemma via our website 😎 adhdbesties.com     🫠 IG @adhdbestiespodcast     🫠 TikTok @adhdbestiespodcast

Author

Grace Koelma & Tara Breuso

Category

Health

Podcast website

www.adhdbesties.com

Latest episode

Aug 28, 2025

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Episodes

👀 SNEAK PEEK: Subscriber-only episode ft. Grace's journey with AuDHD 20.11.2024

🥳 OMG IT’S HERE! 🥳 You guys have been asking for more of us in your ears every week 🙈 so we’ve finally launched our Patreon community!  (Yes, it’s very cool and yes you DEFINITELY want to be part of it 😎) JOIN THE ADHD BESTIES PATREON HERE! If you love this show, and want to support us in doing the podcast long-term, consider joining our Patreon community! 💜💜💜 Thank you to everyone who has...

31. Rapid fire ADHD dilemmas!! ❤️‍🔥 Alarm fatigue, meds, demand avoidance & diagnosis doubt 13.11.2024

Hellooooo dopamine-deprived babeeeees In today’s episode:  We're recording from our new studio and we're very excited and so are the drunk rascals below us on the street! Tara admits to reading the end of books before she finishes them (only sometimes!) and hating hairdresser scalp massages - forward your hate mail to @adhdbestiespodcast on instagram, she is expecting it. Today we'r...

30. ADHD & ANXIETY: Tara's story of motherhood, postpartum anxiety & depression 💜 06.11.2024

Hi besties, we have something a little bit different for you this week! First up, we're struggggling to do admin tasks, but on the plus side we were so bored at the bank that we used the hand sanitiser 200 times so our hands are super dry 🫠 In this raw and honest episode of Your ADHD Besties , Tara opens up about her personal journey with anxiety and how it intersects with her ADHD. She dive...

29. "What part of my PERSONALITY is ME, and what part is my ADHD?!" 🤔 30.10.2024

Hi gorgeous besties!  In today’s episode:  Tara's suitcase game is stronggg, Grace is always real but is getting realllly real about her ADHD. DIVERGENT DILEMMA: A beautiful trans listener asks "I was wondering if being assigned female at birth is one of the reasons why I was diagnosed late? And if you think that transgender men usually have female ADHD?"  We discuss ADHD intersecti...

28. HOW TO: fall in love with your STIMS, manage sensory clashes & reframe ADHD inconsistency 24.10.2024

ADHD BABESSSS! We’re back for Season 2!  In today’s episode Tara is joining us from East Java 🌺, while poor Grace is joining us from germ-ville 🤧. Grace makes a retraction and apology about her pronunciation of the word Appalachian 🏔️ and promises not to RSD (see: she will RSD about it forever). Dilemma 1: "How do I find a hobby I like and actually stick with it?" We discuss letting go...

27. "My ADHD makes me feel so broken and I can't stop negative thinking!" 😭 10.10.2024

Hi ADHD besties! This is our LAST episode of SEASON 1! After this ep, we are taking a teeny tiny break and will be back with our usual episode the Thursday after next... PLUS we have some very exciting news! 👀 This week we're overstimulated by kids parties and raising boys (boy parents will agree that it's a never ending bucks party!) 🙃 Dilemma: A gorgeous neurotypical listener asks ho...

26. "I constantly interrupt people and I feel terrible about myself" 02.10.2024

Oh hiiii, ADHD Bestie babes! 🌟 This week, Grace (almost) becomes the neighborhood hero by saving the day from controlled burn-offs, while Tara triumphs over PMDD for the first time since she was 13. Dilemma: Our gorgeous Kiwi listener is feeling serious RSD when it comes to interrupting people during conversations. We discuss why ADHDers do this and how to see this trait from different perspectiv...

25. Navigating workplace conflict with ADHD 🌶️ 🤐 25.09.2024

Hi very beautiful neurodivergent brains! This week, we’re watering our fake plants and celebrating our birthdays like the indulgent little princes we are! Dilemma 1: Our lovely listener Kerri feels like she comes across as intimidating, and it’s triggering her RSD. We chat about advocating for ADHD in the workplace and embracing your unique intensity while also showing your softer side. Remember,...

24. "Help! Is it my ADHD or am I just bad at sleep?!" 😴 18.09.2024

Hi beautiful ADHD babes! On today's show: - Grace tries relaxed parenting but gets piggy-bocked in the face, and Tara is forced to admit her STEM job from when she was 14 years old.   • Divergent Dilemma - A gorgeous listener called Ashara asks whether late night productivity and sleep issues are linked to ADHD.  Ooooofff, this is a biiig question! We asked our audience whether they were nigh...

23. "Why do birthdays cause so much RSD for ADHDers?" 🥳🧐 11.09.2024

BONJOUR cutest babes tuning in from what is now 126 countries! 🤯😘 On today's show: - Tara makes a quick note about ADHD and hyper-empathy and then two seconds later laughs at Grace for getting rejected from the Reject Shop. - We talk about the amazing PMDD discussion we had on our Instagram last week, with some really helpful examples of what PMDD might feel like, check out instagram for in...

🤯 100K downloads?!! Come & celebrate with us on IG live! 06.09.2024

BABESSSS! YOU DID IT! We just reached A HUNDRED THOUSAND downloads in 4 months for this podcast!!! Whaaat 🤯🤯😭😭 We're in disbelief and so so grateful to all of you. Thank you so so much to everyone who has listened and sent us messages and love! It means more to us than you know ❤️🥹 We are going to do an 💃🏼 INSTAGRAM LIVE 💃🏼 livestream this weekend (6/7th September 2024) to celebrate....

22. Motherhood rage and dysregulation with Jenna Free (ADHD coach & therapist) 04.09.2024

Hi hiii ADHD loves! In today's episode we have another bestie guestie on the podcast, Jenna Free - ADHD coach and therapist (who you may know as @adhdwithjennafree on Instagram or TikTok).  We chat through two dilemmas with Jenna: • Dilemma #1 - A cute listener called Em asks: "I told my partner that I have ADHD and struggle a lot with 'time blindness'. While he acknowledged I...

21. "I can't stand by and watch": ADHD, unfairness & justice sensitivity 28.08.2024

Hi cutest babes,  In this week's episode, Tara has been stealthily avoiding sleep by hyperfixating on iPhone automations and she is now Elon Musk 😎. Or is she just in denial that she's Siri's bitch now? 🤖 Grace is ripping clocks off the wall in rage as per uge. So a fairly stock standard week here at ‘Your ADHD besties’ HQ (the garage).  THIS WEEK'S DILEMMA: We take a deep di...

20. ADHD: Weight & Eating (Part 2) & Bridezillas 🧟‍♀️ 22.08.2024

Hi our fave ADHD dream boats! We finally got this bad boy uploaded 8 hours late 💅 In today’s chunkyyy episode:  Grace says "broccol-eye" 🥦, and "dingle dangle" in the space of 5 minutes (we're so sorry guys) aaaand Tara tells us a story from her bridezilla days. 🧟‍♀️ For our divergent dilemms, we are continuing on from last week, and talking all things ADHD weight and f...

19. ADHD: Weight & Eating (Part 1) 14.08.2024

Hi bestie babessss! In today's episode: • Grace can’t buy steak, we talk about  we need to take a break from acrylics, and how this is hard for our dermatillomania (skin picking). • Divergent Dilemma #1 - we answer Jemima's question about ADHD and eating, she struggles with binge eating and feeling self-conscious about her weight. We discuss weight stigma, separating self worth and weigh...

18. Impulse borrowing, exercise & 😂 ADHD Reddit rants 07.08.2024

Hi bestiesss!  In today's episode: • Grace has ADHD amnesia, and we're normalising second takes at things because we aren’t always prepared for what our mouths are going to say in social interactions.  • Divergent Dilemma #1 - we answer a gorgeous listener question about motivating yourself for exercise when you have ADHD. We talk about the negative stigmas around the word exercise, why...

MINI-SERIES 🏝️ Your ADHD Island: with Chloe Wilder - "Genus Muppetus" 05.08.2024

Aaaaloha faves! Today we're delighted to bring you another episode of our miniseries 'Your ADHD Island' ✨ Your ADHD Island is a NEW series where our guests are asked to dream up their perfect, ADHD-friendly island paradise free from the burdens of this neuro-normative world. 🏝️ We ask guests a series of very scientific and important questions like: -‘what food magically grows on tr...

17. ADHD stigma, when to advocate, and why re-parenting yourself helps 01.08.2024

Hiii cutest ADHD loves! In today's episode: • We talk about the highs of kid-free holidays with friends and the lows of losing your 🧳 on the trip home (💌 don't forget to send Tara your triumphant stories of lost things you found months/years later - DM us on IG @adhdbestiespodcast!)  • Divergent Dilemma #1 - we answer a cute voice message from Holly asking how to advocate for herself a...

16. AuDHD, meltdowns & workplace accommodations (autism + ADHD) with Olivia @neurodiversing 24.07.2024

Hiiii best besties!! On today's show, we have another amazing GUESTIE 😍 the gorgeous Olivia from @neurodiversing on Instagram and TikTok.  Olivia joins us all the way from the UK to help answer some dilemmas about AuDHD (co-existing Autism & ADHD presentations) and play an old fave Ireggy Seggy with us.  • Dilemma #1 - " How do you distinguish your autistic traits from your ADHD tra...

MINI-SERIES 🏝️ Your ADHD Island: with Tara Breuso - "Low hanging Nashi pears & wombat energy" 17.07.2024

Aaaaloha faves! Today we're delighted to bring you another episode of our bonus series 'Your ADHD Island' ✨ Your ADHD Island is a NEW series where our guests are asked to dream up their perfect, ADHD-friendly island paradise free from the burdens of this neuro-normative world. 😍 🏖️ We ask guests a series of very scientific and important questions like: -‘what food magically grows...

MINI-SERIES 🏝️ Your ADHD Island: with Grace Koelma - "Aurora Graciealis" 10.07.2024

ALOHA BESTIES & WELCOME TO 'YOUR ADHD ISLAND' 😍  Our ✨ new series ✨ where our guests are asked to design their ideal, neuroaffirming island happy place. We ask them a series of very scientific and important questions like: -‘what animals are native to and roam freely on your island?’  -’the museum on the island has 3 exhibits that represent your life’s major hyperfixations, what a...

15. What to do when you're stuck DOOM SCROLLING 03.07.2024

Hiii ADHD cuties tuning in from what is now 104 countries! 🤯😘 On today's show: • Grace has 3 very important updates that she's bursting to tell us • Are we still in burnout? What's been helping us climb out of it?? Has Tara got a refund for her marathon registration yet? (The answer won’t surprise you) What change-room moment saw Grace making an ‘ADHD math' speech to convince...

14. WE'RE IN ADHD BURNOUT 🫠 (and here's what helps!) 26.06.2024

Hiiiiii fave babes! ✨ In today's episode we're in ADHD burnout mode but that's okayyy! • We ‘AB-SOLUTELY’ discuss how Tara’s inability to feel time had her believing she could go from running 0km to 42km in the space of 3 months 😮‍💨 and Grace shares her obsession with Love Island/reality TV in general and why it's a balm for her soul. • Divergent Dilemma - We half answer two...

13. ADHD: periods, hormones & PMDD 19.06.2024

Hellooo dopamine-deficient dream boats 🛥️❤️‍🔥 In today's episode: • We share our thought provoking (see: unhinged) ADHD thoughts of the week. Open-plan homes; beautiful? Sure! But are they practical for our over-stimulated brains? Eyelid skin; Does it have a neck-skin-level of significance? • Divergent Dilemma #1 - We discuss dyscalculia, a stand-alone neurotype which commonly occurs alongsi...

12. Skin picking, nail biting 💅 and AuDHD friendships 12.06.2024

Hiii adorable ADHD brains In today's episode: • We share our most ADHD moment of the week (Grace is still stressing about hers!) • Divergent Dilemma #1 - a listener shares that she's embarrassed about her skin picking and feels she needs to hide her hands from her colleagues.  We discuss why skin picking and nail biting is an ADHD 'stim', and is very NORMAL and nothing to be as...

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