You Are Not Broken

GOAT - Dr. Irwin Goldstein He is the director of San Diego Sexual Medicine. Dr. Goldstein has had a long career providing medical help to those with sexual problems, having been involved with sexual dysfunction research since the late 1970′s. Dr Goldstein’s interests include regenerative therapies for men and women, surgery for dyspareunia, physiologic investigation of sexual function in men and w...

Mojo and Empowerment with Deborah Kagan Thanks to our sponsor Uber Lube 10% off, Code NOTBROKEN  uberlube.com  Deborah Kagan helps women conquer self-doubt and indecision to step into their full power, love who they are and live a turned ON life.  She tells us her inspiration and her story. How do we get women to thinking differently?  Our bodies are energy and the concept of male and female energ...

Sexual Health is an Equality Issue! – A Chat About Sex, Coaching and Menopause This was a live chat that I did with Dr. Ashley Winter. She is the Chief Medical Officer at Odela health! We had a chat about my book and sexual health in general. Is it true that women are “too complicated”? Sexual Health is an Equality Issue The clitoris doesn’t have a place in the traditional medical paradigm – Dr. W...

Menopause and Hormones in the Modern Era AKA: Why the Boomers Should be Pissed  This is a lecture I gave for the Society of Women in Urology about hormones.  If you like this episode also check out number 197.  Genitourinary syndrome of menopause  Men at age 60 have more estrogen in their bodies then women Why I don’t do a loading dose of vaginal estrogen.  The problem with the vaginal estrogen la...

August Podcast Live – the state of sex ed     We are going to talk about Sex ed today in celebration of the Tex talk coming out! https://femtechinsider.com/rescripted-sex-ed-report/   https://pleasurebetter.com/orgasm-statistics/ I answer a listener’s question about being stuck in a sexual script  https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4035379/   Did you get my “You Are Not Broken” Book Yet?...

BRCA Gene Previvor, Menopause Activist and Protector Against Corrosion – Monica Molenaar   Our podcast sponsor today is AG1. Use AG1 to build a foundation for better health. FREE ONE YEAR SUPPLY OF VITAMIN D3+K2, 5 TRAVEL PACKS drinkag1.com/youarenotbroken   Monica Molenaar is a serial entrepreneur and an advocate for frank talk and common-sense solutions around women’s health and wellness.  At th...

Estrogen Matters with Dr. Avrum Bluming Avrum Bluming received his MD from the Columbia College of Physicians and Surgeons. He spent four years as a senior investigator for the National Cancer Institute. He organized the first study of lumpectomy for the treatment of breast cancer in Southern California in 1978, and for more than two decades he has been studying the benefits and risks of hormone r...

Genitourinary Syndrome of Menopause 101. This is an interview I did with my friend and co-founder of a menopause clinic Alloy, Monica Molenaar. Why I care about women and sex and hormones The definition of menopause and how we aren’t educated about what menopause actually is and the symptoms that can arise Genitourinary Syndrome of Menopause The types of bladder leakage and how estrogen can help T...

Welcome to July's Live Podcast Orgasmic versus hormonal Use it or lose it Studies on Teen Sex Ed, PRP for ED, HPV jabs, Creating Desire and more! Sex Ed matters:https://bmcpublichealth.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/s12889-021-11388-2 Did you get my “You Are Not Broken” Book Yet? https://amzn.to/3p18DfK Get in the Free FB group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/youarenotbroken/   Join my NEW Ad...

When Sex Hurts – Dr. Krapf  Dr. Jill Krapf is a gynecologist specializing in vulvovaginal disorders in Tampa, FL  Dr. Krapf is active in research and has published chapters and peer-reviewed articles on vulvodynia, vulvar dermatoses, and hypoactive sexual desire disorder. She is Associate Editor for the Journal of Sexual Medicine, as well as for the textbook Female Sexual Pain Disorders, 2nd Editi...

The Best Sex Ed You Never Had   We all got a sex education – it just wasn’t accurate.   My Sex Ed course is coming out this Month!  Get on the email list to join when it opens.   This was a talk I gave to medical doctors for a residency program continuing education lecture.   Seasons of sexuality Stress and sexuality The importance of self-care in sexuality Communication and sexuality Sex as a ski...

This is my talk I gave at the 2023 Clitoris Summit https://clitoris.io/summit2023   I discuss the bias that women’s sexual health is all in her head.   We can’t neglect the “bio” part of all bodies.   9% of urologists in the United States are female – which is about 1,000 surgeons.   Orgasms are good for us, but so often are considered “bonuses”   Don’t forget the “psychosocial” part of sexuality....

Adult Sexy Time Sucks – YouSeeLogic to the Rescue! Dr. Uchenna “UC” Ossai is a sex-positive pelvic health physical therapist, sexuality educator and counselor. YouSeeLogic is her platform that focuses on improving the sexual intelligence of adults through innovative content and honest discussion that is free of judgement.   What was Dr. Ossai’s path to get here?   What is intersectionality how doe...

Dr. Elliott Justin – founder and CEO of Firmtech Our podcast partner is Firmtech – use code “NOTBROKEN” for 15% off  FirmTech’s rings help improve performance and sexual experience for all men not just those with ED. Award Winning Tech: Most Innovative Sex Toy (XBIZ); RunnerUp in Fitness & Health (CES Showstoppers)  Firm tech focuses on enjoyable sex for men of all ages, while empowering them...

Member question:  Lichen Sclerosis, decreased sensation and libido – I discuss two types of desire – spontaneous and responsive and three options pharmacologically for low desire. A couple options for if you "want to want": testosterone, Addyi and Vyleesi. Pneuma for penile girthiness  - if you want to be a shower. The Orgasm Gap - as written by men Testosterone is not associated with increased ca...

You Are More Than Just Your Breast Cancer - Hormones and Breast Cancer   Dr. Corinne Menn is a board certified OBGYN and North American Menopause Society Certified Menopause Practitioner. She has a special interest in areas often neglected in women's health: Perimenopause and menopause, the unique needs of female cancer survivors and those at high risk for breast cancer.    Dr. Menn tells us her s...

I went to the 2023 American Urologic Association's National Conference. Here are some top takeaways and thoughts. So much on this week’s podcast! Low hormones in men and women — can increase risk for cardiovascular disease Women have a decreased risk of heart attack and stroke when started on hormones in the safety window of menopause (first 10 years) The Traverse study paper coming out in two mon...

Feeling Broken In The Bedroom? What You Need To Know About Your Sexual Health - With Dr. Kelly Casperson This is an interview I did with Lesley McShane for her podcast “Redesigning Midlife” and it was just such a good interview I asked her if I could share it again.  1. Basics:  a. Menopause means it’s been one year and one day since your last period. b. The average age of menopause is around 51....

Better Sex Through Mindfulness – Dr. Lori Brotto  Dr. Lori Brotto is a psychologist and Director, UBC Sexual Health Laboratory Canada Research Chair in Women’s Sexual Health Professor, Department of Obstetrics & Gynaecology, UBC Executive Director, Women’s Health Research Institute  “Sex is not just a deficiency in a hormone” – KJC Dr. Brotto tells us how she started her sex research career by...

“The Cervix is Dumb” and I Disagree – April Live   Giovannetti O, Tomalty D, Gilmore S, Pattison A, Komisaruk B, Goldstein S, Hannan J, Goldstein I, Pukall C, Adams MA. The contribution of the cervix to sexual response: an online survey study. J Sex Med. 2023 Jan 14;20(1):49-56. doi: 10.1093/jsxmed/qdac010   Cochrane review on Cranberry for UTI https://www.cochranelibrary.com/cdsr/doi/10.1002/1465...

The Third time Dr. Haver is on my podcast! The role of sleep, diet, exercise and body image on sex is real. Dr. Haver’s story – she shares her journey of stress, grief and menopause and how “workout more and eat less” wasn’t working for her.   How female body composition changes in peri and menopause   Diets may change hot flashes   Can you measure inflammation?   Fatty liver – goes up in menopaus...

Emergency Department Care of the Menopausal Female   Dr. Pam Dyne is a Professor of Clinical Emergency Medicine at UCLA David Geffen School of Medicine   Common things midlife women go to the ED for – irregular bleeding and prolapse Heart attacks present differently in women than in men. How to work up abnormal vaginal bleeding – questions to ask. Do ED docs know how to do a pelvic exam? Indicatio...

Increasing Penile Length, How Long Sex Lasts, and Urology YouTube Rockstar Rena Malik, MD    Dr. Malik is an associate professor of surgery in the Division of Urology and director of Female Pelvic Medicine and Reconstructive Surgery at the University of Maryland School of Medicine. She has published more than 60 peer-reviewed articles and book chapters.   She has 1.48 Million YouTube subscribers W...

Here is the 2022 NAMS Hormone Therapy Position Statement! https://www.menopause.org/docs/default-source/professional/nams-2022-hormone-therapy-position-statement.pdf 1) For women aged younger than sixty years or who are within ten years of menopause onset and have no contra indications the benefit risk ratio is favorable for treatment of bother some vasomotor symptoms and prevention of bone loss f...

Joining me for the second time on the podcast is world renowned sex therapist, Dr. Marty Klein – Author and sex therapist to Silicon Valley. If you want our first episode together check out Episode 169 – where we discuss his book “His porn her pain” Today we are discussing his amazing book: “Sexual Intelligence: What we really want from sex and how to get it”. This book is 10 years old and still c...