WTF - Stories and Advice

Ever wondered why you keep ending up in the same fight, dating the same person in a different body, or working yourself into the ground for people who don't notice? There's a name for it: schemas, and Caroline has been down a rabbit hole on this. Schemas are the deep emotional patterns that got wired in when you were small and haven't updated since. Abandonment, defectiveness, self-sacrifice, unre...

In 2006, an ER nurse came home from a twelve-hour shift in Portland, Oregon and walked into the wrong room at the wrong moment. Her husband had arranged a surprise for her. He thought he'd never see her again. He was right — but not for the reasons he expected. What happened next involves a claw hammer, a hitman who picked the worst possible target, and a sentence to the paramedics that became one...

A 29-year-old writes in about the man she loves, the daughter they share, and the family quietly bleeding him dry. He's stable, he's kind, he's husband material. His parents, on both sides, treat him like a personal cashpoint — and when she gently suggested he stop, they disowned him, called her the problem, and called their baby something much worse. Now there's a grandmother in ICU and the press...

A 43-year-old counsellor writes in with a confession: she grew up poor, earns good money now, doesn't have debt — and has just bought a second chest freezer, a year's supply of olive oil, and accidentally hoarded fourteen bottles of conditioner she didn't know she had. The fuel crisis news has flipped a switch she can't switch back. And the truly humiliating part? She knows exactly what she's doin...

We start with swearing in Spanish and Paris trip plans, then dive into a Reddit story that genuinely floored us. A 27-year-old guy comes home and finds his fiancée in bed with his own father. He records it, punches his dad, and threatens to send the video round. From there it spirals: he tells his mum, who at first believes the lie that he was the abusive one, until he sends her the proof. He cuts...

Listener Amanda has carried this for twenty years. At nineteen she fainted at the feet of the new guy in town, Weston, who pulled a homemade spirit board out of his backpack, letters written in blood. The giggling stopped when it spelled out HELL, HELP, HELL, HELP on its own, and a tall shadow appeared in the chair beside her. Add a wrong videotape, an Exorcist that played itself, and two decades...

Three short letters, three very intimate problems, two hypnotherapists who have heard worse. A 24-year-old worried her hookup stole her energy. A divorced 42-year-old who can't get there with his new partner. A 31-year-old who has been faking it for three years and can't take it anymore. Caroline and Daryl get into chakras, freezer spells, why your medication might be the actual problem, and why a...

Filth warning: this one's a doozy. Not for the easily scandalised, but you knew that... A married dad writes in with a problem that started with one sneaky kitchen wank and escalated into something that's about to get him fired, arrested, or both. Caroline and Daryl read the letter, try to keep straight faces (mixed results), and then deliver some genuinely serious advice underneath the chaos, bec...

⚠️ Trigger warning: this episode discusses harm to an animal. If that's not for you, skip this one and we'll see you next time. A listener writes in about her brother's golden retriever, his new fiancée who never warmed to the dog, and the day everything went very, very wrong. Caroline and Daryl read the letter, try to work out if the family's suspicions are warranted (spoiler: they think so), and...

In 1990, 17-year-old María Soledad Morales left a spring festival in Argentina and never came home. What followed wasn't just a murder investigation — it was a masterclass in how power protects itself, and what happens when ordinary people decide they've had enough. A nun named Sister Martha helped lead weekly Silent Marches of students and townspeople that grew into a national movement, forced fe...

We start where all great podcasts start — glamping, punctured air mattresses (thanks, cat), and a heated debate about what exactly Daryl means when he talks about "reading your ring."  From there we somehow end up deep in geopolitics, oil supply crises, and the kind of predictions that make you want to quietly stockpile pasta and rethink your entire life plan. Just a normal Tuesday. In this episod...

In this episode of WTF Stories and Advice, hosts Daryl Gove and Caroline Cranshaw dive into a Reddit AITAH post from a 27-year-old woman whose boyfriend is demanding full access to her online banking claiming that "no secrets is how adults do it." Is this financial transparency, or a massive red flag? Daryl and Caroline break down why handing over your banking login is actually illegal (yes, reall...

WTF Stories & Advice: Covering for Cheaters, Keeping Confidences, and AI Consciousness Hosts Daryl Gove and Caroline Cranshaw read a Reddit AITAH post about a husband upset that his wife won't admit her best friend is cheating. They share a personal story about covering for a friend's drunken kiss and discuss when loyalty crosses a line. The episode ends with recommendations including The Bronze H...

Unintentionally Joining a Cult Caroline and Daryl and read a listener letter about unintentionally joining a cult after responding to a vague Craigslist job ad offering housing and "purpose." The hosts speculate about what the group's money-making operation might be and discuss other cult-related media and scandals, including Netflix's "Dancing for the Devil," a podcast about Jerry Falwell Jr., an...

In this episode, hosts Caroline and Daryl discuss a variety of topics, starting with a humorous monologue about their pets. They share their backgrounds, sparking a deeper conversation about current geopolitical issues and personal histories linked to military bases.  The main focus delves into a Reddit story about a woman whose fiancé pressures her for a threesome, exploring the boundaries of con...

The world is a dumpster fire and you need 20 minutes of actual peace. I've got you. This isn't your standard "love and light" meditation, this is clinical hypnotherapy meets sound healing science. I've combined: Triple Solfeggio frequencies (528 Hz love frequency + 432 Hz universal harmony + 639 Hz heart connection) 8D spatial audio (immersive AF, you'll feel like you're floating)  Gentle sublimin...

In this lively episode of WTF Stories and Advice, therapists Caroline Cranshaw and Daryl Gove share personal and listener-submitted stories filled with eerie and unsettling experiences. Caroline recounts her unnerving stalker encounters, while Daryl reads a spooky mirror story from a listener named Sarah.  The hosts discuss the possibility of ghosts interacting with electronics and delve into the...

In this episode of 'WTF Stories and Advice,' hosts Caroline Cranshaw and Daryl Gove discuss a listener's dilemma regarding her boyfriend's unexpected fetish. Caroline and Daryl provide insights into the complexities of fetishes, the importance of boundaries, and the potential impact on future plans, emphasizing the value of open communication and personal boundaries.  The episode also touches on p...

In this episode of WTF Stories and Advice, hosts Daryl Gove and Caroline Cranshaw address a letter from a 36-year-old man struggling with porn addiction and its detrimental effects on his marriage and mental health.  To find more out about Caroline Cranshaw & Daryl Gove  https://nzhypnotherapy.co.nz/ https://www.darylgove.com/#/ https://www.youtube.com/@HypnosisTraining/ To find out about training...

Unmasking Manipulation: The Tale of Tulsa Hex House   In this episode of WTF Stories and Advice, hypnotherapists Caroline Cranshaw and Daryl Gove delve into the chilling story of the Tulsa Hex House, where psychological manipulation and control led two women to be exploited by a woman named Carol Ann Smith in 1944.   They analyze the red flags of manipulation, including financial control, isolatio...

In this gripping episode of WTF Stories and Advice, hosts Daryl Gove and Caroline Cranshaw delve into a spine-chilling letter from a listener, who experiences unexplained paranormal activities. As they dissect the narrative, they offer both spiritual and practical advice, touching on themes of sleep paralysis, stress reduction, and the importance of recognizing one's own power. They also provide i...

In this episode of WTF Stories and Advice, hosts Caroline Cranshaw and Daryl Gove address a listener's letter about a painful friendship breakup due to political differences.  Caroline and Darryl discuss the broader implications of political tribalism, the division in society, and personal experiences with similar friendship breakups. They offer advice on mourning lost friendships, the importance...

In this episode of WTF Stories and Advice, hypnotherapists Caroline Cranshaw and Daryl Gove delve into various ways to overcome financial and relationship challenges. They respond to a listener's letter about marital and financial struggles, offering insights into emotional and psychological blocks around money. The hosts recommend several money manifestation techniques, including moon rituals, vi...

Are GLP medication's weight loss miracles? Our tips and advice... Join hypnotherapists Caroline Cranshaw and Daryl Gove in this episode of WTF Stories and Advice, where they read a letter from a listener named Mary struggling with weight loss and a stagnant dating life. Caroline shares her personal success with GLP-1 medications and provides tips on supplements to aid the process. The duo offers a...

Welcome to WTF Stories and Advice with Caroline Cranshaw and Daryl Gove! In this episode, Caroline and Darryl discuss a fascinating and controversial letter from a student who has been using hypnotherapy on her husband without his explicit consent. The episode delves into the ethics of hypnotherapy, the importance of consent, and the potential consequences of such practices. They also share a chil...