Louis Farfields, Dating Coach for Men

What Your Dad Didn't Teach You

Education EN ↓ 55 episodes

Your dad skipped the dating talk. Louis doesn't. Real stories that make you better understand yourself, women, and life. – For coaching inquiries: https://www.textgod.com/schedule-call Louis' Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/louisfarfields

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Louis Farfields, Dating Coach for Men

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Education

Podcast website

textgod.com

Latest episode

Jun 28, 2026

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Episodes

#54 – Why Smart Guys Become Weird Around Women 28.06.2026

Awkward first approaches, overthinking dates, and getting way too deep into game.

#53 - Raya, Dating Neuropsychology, Bootcamp Heatwave 24.06.2026

A sweaty pre-bootcamp episode on Raya, Amsterdam dating, and the neuropsychology of dating profiles.

#52 – Inside a Mansion Full of Millionaires and Porn Stars 25.05.2026

I spent a week in aMarbella mansion surrounded by pornstars, millionaire, and “alpha male” Instagram profiles. In this episode we break down why tryhard status signaling repels good women. And I explain which one change made my client's dating apps reel in dates after a 15-month dry spell.

#51 – Reverse Catfishes, Gay Wingmen & a 7AM Espresso Martinis 15.05.2026

What happens when a hyper-analytical guy finally stops trying so hard? James and I talk therapy, Feeld adventures, Mario Kart dates, and why fun matters more than most men realize.

#50 – The Midget Story We Didn’t Need 22.04.2026

Daan, a midget story, Tucker Max., hookups, OnlyFans, and why guys fall for fake online relationships.

#49 – The Dark Side of Getting Good With Women 25.03.2026

What happens when you get good with women… but it stops improving your life? Niels and I dives into addiction to game, emotional instability, and the plateau most guys hit. We also unpack “aura,” why basics beat fancy tactics, and what high-level men actually look for. Oh and we shit on Bali a little.

#48 – How I Completely Changed My Millionaire Client's Life In 30 Days 14.03.2026

In this episode we talk about brutal honesty between friends, identity traps, and why many successful men unknowingly sabotage their dating life.

#47 – The Woman Who Edits Love Island Explains What Creates Attraction 23.02.2026

She directed porn for a decade for big brands like Playboy and Penthouse. Now she edits Love Island. We break down attraction, rejection, fame, and why very hot people struggle with connection.

#46 - The Nightlife Effect: How Rumors Create Attraction 16.02.2026

We unpack how social proof spreads, why women compete socially too, and how “local stardom” is the ultimate hack to get women.

#45 - 9 Male Behaviors That Turn Interest Into Ick 08.02.2026

I'm joined by Rose, a woman with endless options, to break down 9 male behaviors that kill attraction. Behaviors that lots of men exhibit without realising it.

#44 - Why So Many Men Feel Lost in Dating (ft. Cole Hastings) 03.02.2026

Cole Hastings explains how identity shapes (dating) success. We unpack why men feel disconnected, how modern culture worsens it, and what worked for Cole. https://www.youtube.com/colehastings https://www.instagram.com/colehastings_/?hl=en

#43 - Dubai Wedding, Awkward Approaches & "May I Meet You?" 07.12.2025

Niels and I accidentally end up as groomsmen in a Dubai wedding… for a guy I had never met. From napkin-swinging Arab dances to the groom’s secret hot sister, lore was farmed. We break down awkward approaches, the “May I meet you?” meme opener, and why most men misread rejection completely. Find Niels here: https://www.instagram.com/nielsthelawyer/

#42 - The Style Mistakes You Can’t See (But Every Woman Can) – with Tinvcb 17.11.2025

Former forensic psychologist turned fashion influencer Tinevcb breaks down men’s style from the female POV. We dig into the easiest fashion wins, the biggest mistakes, and how women judge your outfits. Sweatpants, underwear, jewelry, gym wear, ... This episode is going to make you see fashion in a completely new light. Tine's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tinvcb/ Jacob Elordi picture: https...

#41 – The Unfiltered Truth About Being a Man (after prison) 26.10.2025

Seth went from chaos, to prison, to peace. And in the process he finally met himself. We talk fear, freedom, and what it really means to be authentic.

#40 - [SPECIAL] Updates from the WYDDTY Universe ❤️ 19.10.2025

Updates from the client with the racist girlfriend, Julius' open marriage, and Daan's throuple. PLUS, Daan and I discuss why some flirty convos die friendly and others turn electric, what you can learn from Love Island & Love Is Blind, and last but not least: libido past 30. To level up your dating life, hop on a free call with us: https://www.textgod.com/schedule-call

#39 - From Social Anxiety to Social Mastery: The 5-Year Transformation of Nikos 12.10.2025

Imagine being 29, terrified of women, and shaking so hard you can’t hold your phone. Now imagine becoming the guy girls chase with their moms cheering in the background. This isn’t a fairytale, it’s the messy, hilarious evolution of a man who rebuilt himself one awkward compliment at a time.

#38 - Traveling is a Cheatcode (And why that's Dangerous) 21.09.2025

Why is it always easier to seduce women anywhere that isn't where you live? Niels and I discuss the easiest, the hardest, and the best places to meet women. We cover Amsterdam, Bali, Munich, Helsinki, Brazil, Colombia, Thailand, Kiev, and many more. ––– ⚡Hop on a free call: https://www.textgod.com/schedule-call ⚡The 10 Texts That Always Work (FREE): http://textgod.com/bonus-ten-texts-that-always...

#37 - Be Yourself? Not If You Suck. 14.09.2025

Everyone preaches “be authentic.” But what if your authentic self is timid, boring, or straight-up unattractive? Niels and I break down when being yourself works, when it doesn’t, and how to level up without turning fake. ––– ⚡Hop on a free call: https://www.textgod.com/schedule-call ⚡The 10 Texts That Always Work (FREE): http://textgod.com/bonus-ten-texts-that-always-work/ ⚡ Niels' Instagram:...

#36 - First times, bad kisses, and sex demons 07.09.2025

Today I am reading to you. Two short texts I wrote on my beef with virgins. And one bonus beef with "nice guys". Enjoy x

#36 - Dating Younger Women: What Actually Works 31.08.2025

Thinking of dating younger women? Louis and Dan share uncensored stories, hard-earned lessons, and insights about what makes younger women attracted (and what instantly kills it)

#35 - When She’s Into You… But Won’t Sleep With You 24.08.2025

After coaching him into a thriving dating life, one client came back with the craziest problem I’ve ever heard. His dream girl tells him he's perfect for her... Great dates, daily 3-hour calls, deep connection… but zero sex for a WILD reason. Daan and I dive into the screenshots, the laughs, and the hard truth of what he should do next.

#34 - "I Accidentally Got TWO Girlfriends… Who Are Best Friends" 17.08.2025

What happens when you match two best friends… and they both want you? In this episode, TextGod coach Daan walks us through his summer in a throuple. The wild vacations, family freakouts, social pranks, and the moment his girlfriends faked a fight just to see if he’d cheat.

#33 - Champagne Cockblocks, Ego Slaps, and an Ugly Girl Utopia 27.07.2025

What happens when a guy tries to cockblock you by paying your bill? What if the secret to getting laid is being called a weirdo? And what if your type is ruining your love life? In today's episode you get three short dating stories.

#32 - The Uncomfortable Truth About Open Relationships 20.07.2025

In this episode, we go unfiltered on what actually happens when you open things up: the jealousy, the self-doubt, the sex, the identity crisis, and potential for infinite growth. You’ll hear what works, what often blows up, and what most guys get wrong. If you’re wondering whether you should ever open your relationship, this episode will help you find your answer.

#31 - [Unfiltered] She Said I Wasn’t Dominant Enough... Then Matched With My Fake Profile 13.07.2025

When Justin got ghosted, his inner villain came out... and Operation Catfish began. Please sit back and relax the two dating adventures in this story telling episode.

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