What Your Dad Didn't Teach You

“I don’t feel the chemistry.” That’s what two of my coaching clients kept hearing from women. Even though they are smart and successful. In this episode, coach Justin and I break down the 6 things that create sexual attraction on a date... and why most guys accidentally bomb it.

Imagine pouring your heart out to your friends about getting a girl back… while they secretly know she just had a foursome on the beach. That’s where Justin started. What follows is a wild arc of failure, confusion, fake “alpha” advice, and eventually finding something that worked. Meet TextGod dating coach Justin.

This one’s not really about porn. It’s about the quiet shame loop guys don't get talk about. It's about feeling disconnected, weird around sex, numb even when you’re with someone. Nate explains how it happens, why your body doesn’t trust you, and how to flip things back around again. You can set up a free consultation call with to Nate here

Phillip runs the biggest copywriting academy in Europe but he doesn't sit in an office. He flies around the globe, making money and meeting women. And today, this semi hippie semi capitalist gives you a peek behind his curtains.

Joey told every girl: “I’m dating three others. You okay with that?" And most said yes. This episode breaks down how honesty gave him power in the world of nonmonogamy.

Kenneth was one of our most active dating coaches. Nonstop dates and new girls every week. Today he has a girlfriend, three-hour calls, and withdrawal symptoms from not being in the game. In this episode, we unpack what it really feels like to go from player to partner. The validation, the overthinking, the porn, and the growth.

What happens when a dating coach goes full savage post-breakup? Bumble blew up. Girls got wild. And coach Daan is here to share the stories.

Ever feel like you have to prove your value every time you open your mouth? Whether it’s in convos, work, or flirting... this episode will smack you out of that habit. We break down the mindset shift that lets you speak freely, drop the performance, and stop chasing reactions.

5'4" and pulling girls most guys dream of. Joey’s story isn’t just a win for short dudes, it’s a blueprint for anyone who's ever felt “not enough.”

Love isn’t enough. In this episode, dating coach Daan De Ram shares why he ended his relationship while still in love , how men sabotage intimacy, and why most guys can’t actually handle real emotional closeness.

I sit down with my therapist Dave Wright , a hypnotherapist from Amsterdam. Dave helps me unpack the real reason most men feel stuck in dating... and in life. We dive into self-rejection, emotional triggers, setting boundaries, and how to finally feel like you’re enough.

Ramses was one of those guys. Charming, confident, dating like it was a sport. Until he fell in love. What followed was five years of passion, denial, emotional decline, and physical symptoms that doctors couldn’t explain. In this unfiltered episode, he shares what it really looks like to get lost in a relationship that seems amazing on the outside… and how he slowly found his way back.

It’s not about your looks. It’s not about your lines. It's something deeper, and it’s been steering your dating life for years. Dating coach for women Mathijs joins Louis and together they pull back the curtain on what's REALLY been holding you back.

You wanted more real-life stories, so here we go. In this episode, my close friend Niels and I share some of our wilder dating experiences. The kind of stuff that happens when you actually get good at the game. No theory, no over-explaining, just raw, unfiltered stories straight from real life. Enjoy!

Most guys stay stuck in the beginner or intermediate stage of dating because they keep making the same mistakes. Some never escape them. In this episode, we break down the most common beginner and intermediate mistakes. We’ll show you what’s keeping you stuck and how to break free, and burst through to the next level.

Is it time to move on, or are you just addicted to the chase? We discuss the emotional rollercoaster of high-level game, why some guys struggle to settle down, and the mental battles that come with shifting from short-term excitement to long-term fulfillment.

Think you’re just dating? Think again. Women test men in ways you don’t even realize, fake breakups, emotional swings, and subtle challenges designed to reveal who you really are. Are you a leader or a pushover? A confident man or a try-hard simp? Alyne is back to break down the hidden rules of attraction, what women are really looking for, and why most men fail the test before they even know it’s...

You know that gut-punch moment when an approach flops, the vibe’s off, and you’re ready to call it a night? Most guys tap out. Ram didn’t. And that’s where things got interesting . From brutal rejections to ridiculous wins, we break down why sticking it out—just one more time —can change everything. If you’ve ever felt like quitting, this episode might just change your mind.

Boxing, improv, and risk-taking... how much do hobbies matter in your dating journey? In this episode, we break down the skills that boost your attraction and expose the hobbies that don’t. Plus, guitar vs. surfboard: which one wins? Find out in this sequel to 'Hobbies That Make You A Better Man'

Some hobbies make you stronger, more confident, and naturally more attractive—others, well… not so much. In this episode, we debate which hobbies actually help you in life and dating, why certain skills make a difference, and whether gaming, salsa, or fixing a sink gets you more points. Plus, we get into why having just a little bit of "gay energy" might actually work in your favor.

Alyne shares why nerds who work out might just be the ultimate relationship hack. We discuss the allure of intelligence, emotional depth, and how to strike a balance between confidence and vulnerability in dating.

What really pulls people in? Bryan's journey takes him from a work-obsessed, socially unsure guy to someone who gets what makes women click. We dive into the unexpected traits that skyrocket your appeal and why doubling down on playfulness might just be your unfair advantage in the dating game.

Re-entering the dating scene? It can be daunting, unpredictable, and even frustrating at times. In this episode, Bryan shares how he transformed from newly divorced to the confident, self-assured man who calls the shots and chooses his connections on his terms. We dive into relatable challenges and surprising lessons that can transform your approach to relationships.

Are men and women just chasing status, money, and looks? In this this episode, join Niels and I as we challenge Red Pill narratives, explore phases of life and love, and asks why so many are drawn to surface-level attraction instead of genuine connection.

Not sure where to meet amazing women? My guest Dan and I have done the research for you! With humor, honesty, and a touch of science, we reveal the top five environments for meeting women and share the do’s, don’ts, and unexpected surprises of each setting.