What Happened To Me

Why do so many men suffer in silence when it comes to mental health, especially around work, identity, and purpose? This episode explores the emotional cost of job loss, the stigma around seeking help, and the silent battles many men face. It’s based on the research study “Beyond Workers’ Compensation: Men’s Mental Health In and Out of Work” by John L. Oliffe, PhD, RN and Christina S. E. Han, MA,...

n this episode, we challenge the conventional narrative that masculinity is the root of men’s mental health struggles. Drawing from the article “Redefining Men’s Mental Health Approaches” by John Barry, we explore why many well-intentioned interventions fall shortת and how shifting the focus can lead to more effective support. Using a compelling marine biology analogy, Barry makes the case for fou...

This episode unpacks key findings from a national study on men who present at hospitals with suicidal thoughts or self-harm. The research reveals that more men arrive with suicidal ideation than with physical self-harm—and that drug and alcohol overdose is the most common method. Alarmingly, many of these men had no prior contact with mental health services before their crisis. We discuss the crit...

In this episode, we focus on practical ways men can care for their mental health—from recognizing early symptoms to the power of physical activity, social connection, and seeking professional support. We also explore the role of mindfulness and the importance of breaking the stigma around men’s emotional struggles. This episode was created with NotebookLM and draws from the article “What Helps Men...

In this episode, we explore the often-overlooked barriers preventing men from seeking professional mental health support. From societal stigma to the lack of gender-sensitive services and biases in diagnosis and treatment, we dive into the silent struggles many men face, and the unique ways distress can show up in their lives. This episode was created with NotebookLM and is based on the article “W...

In this powerful episode, Paul shares his deeply personal journey of meeting his ex-wife and how their relationship evolved into one of domestic abuse. He reflects on the red flags he now recognizes, how he ultimately found the strength to leave, and the profound impact the abuse had on his family. Paul’s goal is to inspire and support other men who may be facing similar experiences, offering them...

In this episode of What Happened to Me , I had the privilege of speaking with Gregory David, who courageously shared his healing journey. We explored the challenges he faced, what helped him move forward, and the approaches that fell short. His story offers valuable insights and inspiration for anyone navigating their own path to recovery. Please note that this episode includes discussions the top...

In this episode of What Happened to Me , Michele Battistioli sits down with Bob Welch to discuss his experience co-writing Boy in the Mirror: An Athletic Director’s Struggle to Survive Sexual Abuse as a Child . Together, they explore the moving story of Jimmy Bartko, former athletic director who in 2017 publicly revealed that a priest had abused him when he was a child, keeping this secret for ove...

In this episode of What Happened to Me , Dylan St. Gabriel courageously shares his personal story of surviving sexual violence and the journey that followed. Dylan’s story is one of resilience, healing, and hope. Tune in to hear his powerful message, and if you’re moved by his story, show your support through these channels - YouTube : Dylan St. Gabriel Instagram : @_dylanstgabriel Cashapp : $dyla...

In this episode, I have the honor of speaking with Andrew Jeffery , author of A Small Boy Smiling . Andrew courageously shares his journey through childhood sexual trauma and the powerful healing process that followed. His story is a testament to resilience, offering hope and insight to those facing similar challenges. To learn more about Andrew’s journey, visit his website . To purchase " A...

Turning Pain into Purpose - Founders’ Roundtable Tune in for a powerful discussion about turning pain into purpose and creating safe spaces for healing. In this episode, we bring together three inspiring founders of organizations dedicated to supporting male survivors of sexual violence. Join Tom Garber, founder of Hope for Men; Thomas Garrod-Pullar, founder of MenAsWell; and Duncan Craig OBE, fou...

In this special update from *What Happened to Me*, we're excited to share news about upcoming episodes featuring powerful conversations with survivors who have found meaning in their healing journey. If you'd like to share your story, please reach out to us at info@hopeformen.org . Stay tuned for new beginnings! Original music by Ori

In this powerful episode, we hear from a survivor of childhood sexual abuse who bravely shares his story. One day, a forgotten memory of the abuse resurfaced, profoundly impacting his life. However, when he shared this revelation, the response from a listener was far from supportive. Join us as we delve into his journey of rediscovery, the challenges of confronting traumatic memories, and the impo...

At 15 years old, our anonymous guest bravely shares his harrowing story of survival and resilience. This episode delves into three traumatic incidents he endured, offering a raw and unfiltered glimpse into the struggles male survivors of sexual violence face. Listen as he finds his voice and begins his journey toward healing. If you want to share your story, send us an email to info@hopeformen.org...

Skeeter's story is a testament to resilience and courage. On October 14th, 1974, he faced a horrific ordeal, being kidnapped and assaulted by a family friend. To safeguard his anonymity, we've utilized an AI voice for his narrative. As you listen to Skeeter's journey, we urge you to approach with compassion. The story may stir intense emotions and trigger you, particularly if you'v...

Welcome to the inaugural episode of "What Happened to Me", a groundbreaking podcast by Hope for Men. In this episode, we delve into a deeply personal conversation between a male survivor of sexual violence and his loved one. Join us as we navigate through their journey, exploring the challenges they've faced, the triumphs they've celebrated, and the profound impact of their exper...