We're Having Gay Sex

Samantha Ruddy (The Tonight Show, The Late Show) is a hilarious comedian, writer, and self-proclaimed kink expert, so much so that today she’s in the apartment to dethrone Ash as the SEX GOD! In addition, stand-up comedian and Ashley’s best friend Sam Morrison fills in as temporary co-host while he’s visiting town. We discuss the ins-and-outs of BDSM parties, the complexities of age gap relationsh...

Oscar Aydin (Netflix, Bravo) is a gut-busting standup comedian who complains so joyfully, you’ll pay to hear it, but today he’s in the apartment to complain about airplanes not keeping enough NUTS stocked for SUCKING! We discuss joining the mile high club under the cover of a medical emergency, fleeing muscle-bound ex-boyfriends who hunt you down for your hookups, and the secrets to organizing a g...

Atsuko Okatsuka (HBO, The Late Show) is a delightful stand-up comedian, actor, and writer that is blowing up your phone with her flamboyant style, but today she’s in the apartment to channel the drag gods for some ki ki! We discuss the power of performance for self-actualization, the bonds that bind straight women and gay men, and the most metaphysical question of all: what is the best toilet pape...

KC Shornima is an amazing stand-up comedian and staff writer for SNL’s “Weekend Update,” but today she’s in the apartment to update us on her experiencing a bi-curious girl’s nightmare! In addition, gut-busting comedian and our apologetic ally Jaime Wolf fills in as co-host while Maddie is on tour! After KC had a live sexuality crisis on her last WHGS appearance, we discuss dating women fresh off...

TW // Sexual Assault at 21:40 - 25:25 & 42:35- 47:21; light detail) Swann Périssé is a hilarious French stand-up comedian, writer, and YouTuber who tours nationally across France, but today she’s in the hotel room to learn how to tour multiple BODIES! We discuss sex with multiple partners at once, Jen’s tips to obtain such an arrangement, comedy and romance in France vs. America, and global proble...

It’s a family episode today as actor, podcaster, content creator, and WHGS co-host Breanne Williamson calls in for a catch up, but more importantly she calls in to clean up Ashley’s MESSIEST story yet! We recap their stand-up tour together in Canada before recounting Ashley’s epic, unprecedented, and multi-part gay sex story featuring devious wing moms, gay gossip, and enough twists and turns to p...

Jes Tom (Netflix, Hulu, HBO Max) is a hilarious trans comedian, actor, and writer who is featured on Hannah Gadsby’s “Gender Agenda,” but today they’re in the apartment to pursue a NAUGHTY AGENDA! We discuss getting sucked into infidelity in your apartment’s rec room, trans magic that puts you in touch with Elliot Page, and we finally decide who is the hottest billionaire in the world (the answer...

E.R. Fightmaster (Grey’s Anatomy) & Katie Kershaw (Fargo, Killing It) are ⅔ hosts of “Jockular,” a queer podcast about women in sports, but today they’ve FINALLY hosted us bottoms under their hilarious selves! In addition, gut-busting comedian Irene Tu fills in as co-host while the podcast was in LA for the Netflix is a Joke festival! We discuss women in sports, the beauty within all bodies, datin...

Robin Tran (Netflix, The Roast of Whitney Cummings) is a gut-busting transgender stand-up who was a breakout star in the 2023 Edinburgh Fringe Festival, but today she’ll blow out your back if it means a shot at breaking the bank! In addition, hilarious comedian and friend of the pod Irene Tu fills in as co-host to make sure Ashley STAYS canceled! We discuss staying positive during financial and em...

Alayna Joy is a joyous content creator, therapist-in-training, and mommy on the “Chosen Family” Podcast, but today she’s phoning into the apartment to be Ashley’s SPIRIT GUIDE through one of her KINKIEST experiences to date!!! To provide extra support, we also called in the beloved and hilarious Kylie Vincent to co-host and soothe. We discuss intense religion-fueled sexual experiences, creative so...

Ali Kolbert (Breaking Down w/ Ali Kolbert, The Tonight Show) is a gut-busting stand-up comedian, writer, and a WHGS fan-favorite, but today she's in the apartment to analyze America’s favorite FANNIES online! On today’s episode we break format to discuss the most searched adult content on the internet in 2023 and its implications, remaining friends with your ex, charisma vs. looks, and how the Ten...

Maddie Peck is a hilarious comedian and writer who’s making waves in New York with her comedy shows, but today she’s in the apartment to make you WIFEY by laying down some smooth moves! In addition, amazing comedian and fan-favorite Gus Constantellis fills in the cancel chair while our other co-hosts are on tour! We discuss novel techniques to confidently ask out queer women, queer dating in cisge...

Gianmarco Soresi (The Late Late Show, Comedy Central) is an amazing stand-up comedian, actor, and lovable host of “The Downside” podcast, but today he’s in the apartment to taste the UNDERSIDE of some DUDES! In addition, Ashley’s gay bestie and fellow stand-up comedian Sam Morrison steps in as co-host while Maddie is on tour. We discuss intense gay experiences as a teen, embracing non-traditional...

Dear friend Remy Kassimir is a comedian, actor, and host of the famous “How C*m,” podcast, but today she’s in the apartment to repair her busted nut! We discuss the various solutions to and challenges in struggling to orgasm with a vagina, trauma and its relation to orgasm, but ultimately just turn this whole thing into a fan-podcast for the hit musical “Titanique.” Ashley takes a tumble. Maddie i...

Fan-favorite Mak Ingemi is an internet influencer, podcaster, and Ashley’s adopted teenage son, but today she’s in the apartment to provide a heartfelt apology to the world for getting you too wet! We discuss awkward first dates as a young queer, the challenges of identifying fellow queers after coming out, and best of all, we have a deep retrospective on Mak’s old thirst traps. Ashley almost lose...

Jen Davis is an actor, content creator, and my absolutely gorgeous and perfect girlfriend, but today she’s taking a seat on the couch to expand our open relationship to YOU, the LISTENERS! We discuss the ins-and-outs of having an open relationship, family planning for lesbians, and how “Margaritaville” is the hottest new club in town. Ashley secures her bloodline at a great cost. Maddie starts “Bo...

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Josh Johnson is an Emmy-nominated writer, comedian, and correspondent on “The Daily Show,” but today he’s in the apartment to report on which sex is bangin’ best! We discuss the prisons of gender in society, the ever-changing role of masculinity, and whether or not butter-sculpture can be considered high art. Ashley is a horn dog. Ali is saving incels.  You can follow Josh on IG, Tik Tok, & Twitte...

Willow Shields is an amazing actress most well known for playing “Prim” in the Hunger Games film trilogy, but today she’s phoning into the apartment to catch the attention of a mermaid mate! We discuss the difficulties of being an openly queer actor in Hollywood, gay awakenings from corny fantasy creature flicks, and all the JUICY behind-the-scenes horniess that happens when you go through puberty...

Mari Taren is a lovely comedian & actor that’s most well known as the casting producer for Netflix’s “Ultimatum: Queer Love,” but today she’s phoning into the apartment to put some ladies on the casting COUCH instead! We discuss car sex in fast-food drive throughs, challenges for queer actors in media, and the most dangerous symptom of COVID: becoming masc. Ashley is shopping for wedding rings. Ma...

Gut-busting trans comedian Nico Carney (Boys Club, Late Night w/ Seth Meyers) has been rockin’ the comedy world lately, but today he’s in the apartment to rock your BED, listener! In addition, hilarious comedian and straight (beta) male Jaime Wolf steps in as co-host because we really couldn’t find anyone else. We discuss surviving and thriving as a young queer in a small town, facing transphobia...

Gut-busting comedian & podcast favorite Caitlin Peluffo (Late Show w/ Stephen Colbert, Just for Laughs) has just released a new standup album, “Dirty Bird,” but today she's in the apartment to release her new ARM CANONS to the thirsty public! We discuss weightlifting expanding your sex life, balancing your masc and femme tendencies, and how totally/probably/maybe 9/11 was done for insurance fraud....

Georgia Bridgers is an absolutely wonderful content creator, podcaster, and comedian that’s popping off on your Tik Tok feed, but today she’s in the apartment to pop some CHERRIES after harrowing distress! In addition, the hilarious Kylie Vincent joins us once again as temporary co-host while Maddie is out on tour! We discuss the long journey to finding love again after depression and breakups, th...

Ruby Setnik is a hilarious stand-up that opens for nationally touring acts like Duncan Trussell and JR De Guzman, but today she’s busting open a NUT, if you catch our drift! We discuss having allergic reactions to “baby sauce,” the intersections of gender and language, and the ever present threat that is the meat-to-man pipeline. Ashley selects a sperm donor. Maddie ponders womanhood.   You can fo...

Alex Kim is an incredible queer stand-up comedian that performs across NYC, but today he’s in the apartment to perform naughty acts that God would consider an abomination! In addition, the lovely Kylie Vincent fills in as temporary co-host while Maddie is on tour! We discuss the chaos of realizing your gayness as a devout Christian, drawing boundaries with your family, and which musical is the mos...