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Finding Empathy, True Connection and the Pathway to Emotional Sobriety. Join Tom with Steve O'Connor from Catholics Fight Porn & Stronghold Freedom from Sarasota Florida as they discuss breaking the stronghold of sexual sin and helping the betrayed partners heal through true connection, empathy (and the 12 Steps) & emotional sobriety. Hear what it means to be more then just sober, but...

Join Tom and Rodney Wright of Pure Desire Ministries as Rodney discusses healthy sexual conversations about masturbation and is it right wrong, or what does that conversation look like. Rodney share his "masturbation coin" method that he uses with men in his groups! What a great conversation! For more information email us at info@tableministry.com or go to: https://www.tableministry.com/...

Join us as we have a candid discussion with Jay Stringer and his new book "Desire" | The Longings Inside Us & the Science of How We Love, Heal & Grow. Check Out Jay’s New Book! - https://jay-stringer.com/ For more information email us at info@tableministry.com or go to: https://www.tableministry.com/ #unwantedsexualbehaviors #betrayaltrauma #healingfrombetrayal #lifebeyondbetraya...

Traci & Rodney Wright join us today talking about a healthy family system (HFS) and what that looks like over long term healing. An excellent conversation with 2 of our dearest friends being totally open and transparent about building relational healing and creates a Healthy Family System.

Join Mark and I as we have an honest conversation about sobriety, what it is, what it isn't and the 6 most important things that keep it sustainable over Mark's years of sobriety. Questions go to www.tableministry.com or email info@tableministry.com To reach Mark go to www.theresstillhope.org

Pull up a chair and listen as Michele talks with Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck, a sex therapist, about how the devasting journey of betrayal trauma intersects with menopause and your sex life forming the "Perfect Storm" not many ever consider or know about. Dr. Crystal answers some extremely difficult questions and then they both dive into a topic rarely discussed on this journey - Menopause, P...

Did he ever love me?  It’s one of the most painful questions we face after betrayal. In our upcoming episode, Tom, Michele & Dr. Capparucci break down the difference between true love and infatuation, why “his best” wasn’t enough, and how unresolved emotional wounds quietly sabotage connection. Healing starts with clarity.  Join us for an honest conversation that brings truth, understanding, a...

Send us a text - This is a replay of a POD I did with Steve O'Connor from Catholics Fight Porn and wanted to share here as well. Enjoy the episode! In this episode, I sit down with Tom Weaver from Come to the Table Ministry to talk about the real struggles of sex addiction, betrayal trauma, and the hope of lasting transformation. Tom shares his powerful story of being exposed to pornography as...

Tradition has a lot to teach us about how to connect our bodies and emotions to our theology in our relationship with God. Many men "know" they are loved by God but do not often, if ever, experience His love. Could be shame, family of origin issues or trauma and sexual addiction that can become that spiritual road block! Join Tom Weaver with Matt Wenger from Begin Again Institute Friday...

Relational Honesty after Intimate Partner Betrayal - What does it look like? Is complete rigorous honesty necessary? Join Dan Drake, Founder & Clinical Director of Banyan Therapy Group, and I as we walk through the importance of honesty in the healing process after Partner Betrayal. We will discuss the importance of cleaning up the past as well as ongoing relational honesty & what it looks...

A view on what AIR - Artificial Intimacy Relapse™ is and how it just came into the light this week. These are my thoughts on a video that was released recently and the affect it has on recovery and the partner. And I didn't even touch on the neuroscience of it. This video has since been removed from YouTube. Contact us thru our website https://www.tableministry.com/ or info@tableministry.com

Join Tom, Michele and Brad Hughes from Precision Polygraph's in Fairfax VA as they discuss the purpose of polygraph's during recovery from betrayal, how it rebuilds trust, the process of taking one & disputing some of the myths about them! Join us for a live conversation with Brad. Ask live questions in the Chat! Get informed on the process!

Come catch a preview of the 2025 Men Make Men Sexual Recovery Retreat with Tom and the speakers that will be there!

Join Tom & Michele as they talk with Joanna & Matthew Raabsmith about the difficult topic about Sex and the difficulty or reintegrating sexual intimacy back into the relationship after the realization of betrayal, whether its porn, infidelity or a secret life now coming out of the darkness. When is it too soon to start having sex again? Will the betrayer feel like everything is ok if we do...

We heard you loud & clear! The "dynamic duo" of Dr. Jake Porter & Dr. Barb Steffens were an awesome team at the Conference. The Q&A session was so impactful & they both graciously gave some more of their time to come back and do this Livestream to answer more of your questions! Some from the Conference that we did not get to, and some new ones as well! Great information! Enjoy!

Two different realities that can share similar yet extremely different feelings. Similar but different, hope and healing - surviving and thriving towards restoration.

The realization of what happens upon the discovery of his secret life and the partner betrayal trauma and the reality of it

As we roll into the new year, coming off the "bye" week and re-evaluating our own recoveries, lets not forget or minimizing the impacts of sexual addiction on the spouse. The Partner is living thru their own "personal quake" and the tremors are felt over and over. Get healing from this devastating trauma, learn empathy for her, show up in those times she needs you to, whether its a week, a month,...

Join Tom as he discusses the "bye" week and how to look at ways to "self scout" our own recovery. Maybe taking a walk thru your step 6 again, evaluating your defects of character, maybe some new ones that cropped up, maybe identifying the one that has been hindering your progress the most. Not looking at how to defend but take the offense and take this opportunity to look at ways to do things diff...

Welcome to the Table. Have a seat sit back and lets talk about freedom from sexual sin and partner betrayal trauma. Its impact on the church, what our model at FBC may look like and future discussions and guests. We will have open Q&A live feeds starting in January and love to have folks chime in with questions, comments and even success stories about their journey!

Come to the Table Ministry hosted Pure Desire's Traci Wright and Dr. Jake Porter from Daring Ventures at its 3rd Annual Princess Warrior Retreat at Sandy Cove Resort in Northeast MD. What a healing weekend it was. Listen to Session 2 from Dr. Jake Porter on "The Journey to Healing After Betrayal - Returning to You" | Part 1: A Worlds Creation. Visit tableminsitry.com for information...

Join us as Dan Drake returns for another Podcast. Dan will be discussing an exercise for Empathetic Attunement called "Lion Heart Breathing" that he uses in his therapy and specifically during the Disclosure Process. Please join us as Dan walks thru this exercise with us live. You won't want to miss this truly impactful technique of "Holding Her Heart". Dan Drake is the Fou...

When, why, and how should I reveal sexual secrets to my wife? In this episode, disclosure expert Dan Drake will walk us through the process of full therapeutic disclosure from beginning to end. You'll learn how to restore truth in your relationship in a way that is healing rather than harmful. Join Tom and Dan Drake, co-author of "Full Disclosure: How to Share the Truth after Sexual Betra...

Robert Dorband shares in Session 3 from the Men Make Men Retreat from Oct 2023. Robert is the author of "Beloved", former pastor, pilot and now fulltime Sex Addiction Therapist at 51to52 Counseling Center in Colorado Springs. Enjoy his final session in this series of healing from sexual brokenness and addiction.

Listen to Robert Dorband of 51to52 Counseling Center and Author of "Beloved" in Session 2 of the 2023 Men Make Men Retreat. This is week 2 of 3 replaying Robert's Sessions at the retreat! Enjoy!