Wear Who You Are

Have you ever found a great pair of pants and wondered, “Should I buy them and have them tailored . . . or keep looking?” In this episode, Natalie welcomes back her style friends Nick and Stacie of Beyond Bespoke to answer the pant alteration questions she hears from clients every single season. From choosing the right size in the fitting room to understanding which alterations are simple, which a...

Uncomfortable shoes? We’re OVER IT. And thankfully, we’re living in a time when comfortable shoes no longer have to look like . . . well, “comfort shoes.” This week, Natalie answers a question she hears from almost EVERY client: “Where can I find shoes that are actually stylish AND comfortable?” Before we get to the brands, we’re going Cinderella on your feet. Natalie breaks down why your actual s...

Dating is stressful enough. Your outfit doesn't have to be. In this Nat Chat, Natalie shares her approach to first date style, why she believes your best date outfit is probably already hanging in your closet, and how a few go-to looks can help you show up as yourself, no matter where the date takes you. Episode Notes & Resources: Looking to build your first-date foundation ‘fits? Shop Natalie...

Blazers should be quality, low cost-per-wear closet heroes. But what makes one worthy of all that wear? In this episode, Natalie welcomes back her Style Friend Farida Raafat of custom-clothing brand DALYA to break down the anatomy of a blazer. From lapels and buttons to pockets, silhouettes, linings, fabrics, length, and more, they dig into the small details that can make a big difference in how a...

Finding a great tailor can completely change the way you shop—and the way you feel in your clothes. In this episode, Natalie is joined by two of her trusted style friends, Nick, a third-generation tailor and founder of Beyond Bespoke, and Stacie, who oversees client experience and operations. Together, they pull back the curtain on the world of tailoring, from the difference between a dry cleaner'...

Is there still a dress code for Broadway, the West End, or live theater? Officially, no. Unofficially? Natalie has some very (very) strong thoughts. As a personal stylist, lifelong theater lover, and Broadway co-producer/investor, she shares her take on what to wear, why she still believes dressing for the theater is part of the experience, and how to strike the balance between comfortable, polished,...

I love a good packing strategy. But sometimes, when you've traveled enough, you forget the little things—the questions you no longer think to ask and the lessons that have become second nature. After returning from Europe together, I loved hearing my niece Ashley reflect on her very first trip abroad. What was she so glad she packed? What never left the suitcase? What would she do differently next...

Feeling stuck defaulting to the same cardigan or blazer? In this Nat Chat, Natalie shares fresh, practical ways to layer your outfits without losing your style. From button-downs worn open to shirt dresses as dusters, vests for dimension, and creative scarf styling, this episode is all about rethinking pieces you already own—and using them in more interesting ways. Episode Notes & Resources: S...

Clothing prices are up—and yes, it’s frustrating. In this Nat Chat, Natalie gets honest about the reality of rising costs and how we navigate it together. While we can’t control pricing, we can pivot. She breaks down how to spot quality (fabric, construction, finishing details) and where she’s currently finding strong options that don’t require the same old go-to brands. Practical, real-time guida...

Fabrics can make or break how your clothes look, feel, and function. In this guest episode, Natalie sits down with Wear Who You Are style friend Farida Raafat of DALYA to break down natural vs. synthetic fibers, when blends actually work in your favor, and how to think about seasonality. Plus, a deep dive into why wool might be the most underrated fabric in your wardrobe (yes, even year-round), wh...

Planning a Europe trip and tempted to buy brand-new “walking shoes”? Pause. Straight off a trip to Europe with her niece, Natalie shares how to stay comfortable and avoid the stereotypical tourist look. From why those bulky new sneakers aren’t the move to what actually works on the ground, this episode helps you travel with intention—and still feel like yourself. Episode Notes & Resources: See...

Feeling like everyone suddenly looks the same? You’re not imagining it. In this Nat Chat, Natalie breaks down why algorithms are shaping our style more than we think—and how to break out of the cycle. From rethinking influence to building a wardrobe rooted in personal history, favorite brands, and signature pieces, this episode is your reset for creating a style that actually feels like you (and n...

Summer work style comes with a unique challenge: it’s sweltering outside and freezing inside—and you still need to look polished. In this episode, Natalie is joined by custom womenswear designer Farida Raafat to answer your real questions about what actually works for summer office dressing. From navigating temperature swings and summer suiting to exploring color (even if you’re hesitant) and yes,...

Starting a new role and tempted to buy an entirely new wardrobe overnight? Take a breath. Natalie breaks down what actually matters, what to buy first, and how to build a professional wardrobe that fits your environment and still feels like you. Episode Notes & Resources: Read more on our website: "How to Navigate Dress Codes at the Office: A Personal Stylist’s Guide" Sign up for the BU Style...

How much should you really budget for spring workwear? Natalie gives you tips on how to create a plan that works for you. We'll walk through a real scenario using the cost per wear and the Strategic Shopping List framework to help you spend intentionally, prioritize what matters, and avoid chaotic seasonal shopping this spring.  Episode Notes & Resources: Revisit episode 32 of Wear Who You Are...

Every list says you need a white button-down. Natalie says: not necessarily. In this episode, she shares versatile alternatives to wear under blazers and other layers . . . or solo, so your workwear foundation actually reflects your personal style while aligning to the dress expectations Episode Notes & Resources: Check out our 'Core'drobe Style Guide to help you create your own unique wardrob...

Looking polished doesn’t have to mean spending more. In this episode, Natalie breaks down how to look luxe on a budget—from fit and fabric to finishing details—and why intention (not price) is what actually elevates your style. Episode Notes & Resources: Revisit episode 11 of Wear Who You Are: "What's the Deal with 'French Chic'?" Visit BU Style's Wardrobe Care Heroes catalog for tools to keep...

We need to talk about fitting rooms. Not the lighting (okay, maybe a little), but what actually happens inside—the habits, the hang-ups, the helpful tips, and the unspoken rules that no one teaches you. In this episode, we’re pulling together insights from both sides of the dressing room door. You’ll hear what sales associates wish shoppers would stop doing, what most of us are guilty of (yep, eve...

Personal stylists are more visible than ever—but if you’ve never worked with one, you might be wondering: Is it worth it? Is it only for celebrities or fashion people? Will someone really get my style—or just try to make me over? In this episode, Natalie breaks down what personal styling actually is (and isn’t), how to know if you’re ready, and how to find a stylist who’s the right fit for you . S...

This episode is as engaging as it is educational . I am joined by Farida Raafat, founder of DALYA, for a rich conversation about personal style, the meaning behind materials, and the art of intentional design. We talk about what it looks like to “dress the way you want to be addressed,” the bespoke process she’s created specifically for women, and how she builds silhouettes that balance strength a...

At 89 years old, Marin Foster is proof that style has no age and that life’s next chapter can always be rewritten—one outfit at a time. After losing her beloved husband of 70+ years, Wayne, this lifelong performer didn’t retreat; she reinvented, heading out to refresh her wardrobe and embrace a new way of being. In this episode of Wear Who You Are, we dive into her story of love, loss, and the pow...

In the newest episode of Wear Who You Are, Natalie opens up about her month-long adventure through Asia, sharing some valuable lessons she picked up along the way. With stops in Thailand, Cambodia, and Japan, she reflects on the theme of respect. It can be strange, reconciling life in America with the incredible cleanliness and respect for public spaces she witnessed in places like Tokyo and Bangk...

Welcome to our "Party on the Bottom!" In this town-hall format Nat Chat, Natalie tackles the world of denim. (And, yes, she addresses the Gen Z backlash against skinny jeans.) With a focus solely on jeans (no skirts or shorts here!), Natalie aims to demystify denim by discussing everything from raw denim and sizing intricacies to maintenance and cleaning tips, ensuring that by the end of the episo...

In a world that often feels chaotic, finding order can be a transformative experience. This episode of the Wear Who You Are podcast is here to help you get your new year off to a good start, with an Industry Adjacent episode with Camilla Frederico of The Personal Helpers. Our guest is a passionate advocate for decluttering and creating spaces that foster well-being and clarity, and she's also just...

In this solo Nat Chat episode of Wear Who You Are , host Natalie Tincher welcomes listeners to 2025. With many Americans still working remotely, Natalie is all about helping us keep it comfy yet professional. The episode also includes an opening section all about the distinction between "hard" and "soft" pants—what are they and when do you wear them. This episode centers on the concept of how what...