We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won't

Episode 39 of We Should Probably Edit This – But We Won't opens with Matthew spending 40 minutes trying to get the setup right — which Nancy has exactly zero patience for. From there they get into the real stuff: where do they want to retire? They used an astrocartography tool to narrow it down and landed on Portugal, Spain, Italy, Charleston, and Sarasota as their top five destinations to explore...

Episode 38 of We Should Probably Edit This – But We Won't opens outside on Mother's Day — with background noise, a sick Nancy, and a brand new used convertible Matthew has barely figured out how to drive. They're fresh back from four days in Miami with the grandkids, and little Millie in her sparkly dress and cowboy boots at story time may be the highlight of the episode. But things get real fast....

Episode 37 of We Should Probably Edit This – But We Won't starts with a fall — Nancy goes down hard on pavement leaving church, knees and wrist taking the hit — and somehow gets more chaotic from there. While Matthew joins a Zoom call in the waiting room, Nancy wanders into the wrong exam room and single-handedly discombobulates an entire urgent care office. Classic Nancy and Matthew energy. But u...

Recorded on Easter Sunday, Episode 36 of We Should Probably Edit This – But We Won't takes a reflective turn as Matthew and Nancy explore the phrases and personal growth mantras that have quietly become part of how they think, talk, and live. These aren't things they would've said when they first got married — but somewhere along the way, words like "honor the struggle," "bring the joy," "what wou...

Ever wonder why your partner thinks the way they do — and why no amount of explaining seems to change it? Matthew and Nancy took the Gallup CliftonStrengths assessment through a leadership class at their church, and the results were equal parts validating and hilarious. Matthew's strengths — Learner, Achiever, Futuristic, Belief, and Responsibility — put him squarely in strategic thinking mode, al...

In Episode 34, Nancy and Matthew explore the power of clarity in relationships, life decisions, and the next chapter ahead. They reflect on how, early in marriage, assumptions often replaced communication—and how real clarity only comes through growth, experience, and intentional conversations. Now in a new phase of life, they break down their individual top priorities—from faith and marriage to f...

We’ve been in the thick of it. In this episode, Nancy and Matthew catch up after a whirlwind few weeks of showings, offers, inspections, permits, repairs, packing, and finally selling the house. What started as a big decision quickly turned into a full-on sprint—and now, with closing around the corner, they’re beginning to exhale. They talk honestly about stress, emotional overload, community, fai...

An epic snowstorm forces an unexpected pause—and we finally take it. From house showings and Airbnb escapes to IKEA overload, grocery-store chaos, and the strange calm that only a snow day brings, this episode is about perspective. We talk about slowing down, controlling what you can control, respecting different viewpoints, and why personal growth matters more than arguing about the world. It’s r...

In this episode, we talk about perspective — how it changes as you get older, how life forces you to set boundaries, and why the things that once felt overwhelming don’t always carry the same weight anymore. We reflect on faith, setbacks, and the reality that challenges don’t disappear — but your ability to handle them evolves. From selling our home and navigating unexpected obstacles, to learning...

It’s our first episode of 2026—and instead of resolutions, we’re talking about release. From clearing decades of clutter to making fast, emotional decisions about what stays and what goes, this episode is about more than downsizing. It’s about energy, freedom, and forward momentum. We share what it’s really like to prepare for a major move, the weight of “someday,” and why letting go of stuff can...

Christmas used to mean sleepless nights, toy assembly, and mall chaos. Now it looks quieter — and surprisingly clearer. In Episode 29, Matthew and Nancy reflect on how the holidays have changed as parents become grandparents, kids grow up, and priorities shift. They talk about selling a home, purging decades of belongings, digitizing memories, and confronting the dangerous comfort of “someday.” Th...

Matthew and Nancy are back from “sunny Florida” to a not-so-sunny welcome home: snow glare, shovel workouts, and the reality of getting their house ready to list. After sharing their decision to sell, they’re met with reactions ranging from supportive to wildly dramatic—like selling your house means you’re broke, confused, or about to become a roaming circus act. They unpack what’s really happenin...

Chaos, coffee, barking dogs, grandkids, paint fumes, and Christmas expectations—this episode has it all. Fresh off Thanksgiving, Nancy and Matthew dive into holiday stress, big decisions, emotional overload, and what happens when life gets messy  and loud . From managing expectations to navigating kids, dogs, decorating (or NOT decorating), and everything that hits at once in December… this o...

It’s Thanksgiving week, and Matthew & Nancy get real about gratitude, exhaustion, big life decisions, downsizing, money mistakes, emotional overwhelm, and navigating it all together. From parenting reflections to Facebook Marketplace chaos to processing selling their home, this episode is honest, messy, and full of heart. Takeaways: Embracing vulnerability is essential when addressing signific...

Whether it’s a fishing trip, a facial, or just locking the bathroom door for five uninterrupted minutes—this episode is all about the vital (and often funny) truth that healthy relationships need personal space. Nancy and Matthew reflect on their early parenting years, share their current routines for alone time, and talk openly about guilt, boundaries, and self-care. They also dive into the impor...

In this candid conversation, Matt and Nancy Greger unpack what retirement really means after 37 years of marriage, raising kids, and now grandparenting. They challenge the traditional idea of retirement as “doing nothing” and instead explore how freedom, purpose, and planning shape their vision for the next chapter. From financial goals to staying active in community and service, they share their...

In Episode 23 of We Should Probably Edit This – But We Won’t , Nancy and Matthew dive deep into the realities (and ridiculousness) of getting older. They cover: Wrinkles, naps, and the mysterious disappearance of metabolism Why laughter really is the best facelift The balance between aging parents and grown kids Financial lessons, personal growth, and letting go of “shoulds” Travel dreams, staying...

In Episode 22 of We Should Probably Edit This – But We Won’t , Nancy and Matthew get real about grandparenting—from the silly to the sacred. As G-Ma and G-Pa to four grandkids, they reflect on: The hilarious moments (gingerbread mayhem, mismatched socks, basketball drills) Their unique grandparent names and how they came to be The differences in each grandchild’s personality and how it shapes thei...

In Episode 21 of We Should Probably Edit This – But We Won’t , Nancy and Matthew record from the rim of the Grand Canyon and dive into a wide-ranging, often hilarious conversation about marriage, memories, and making fun a priority. They talk about: Why humor is essential in relationships Inside jokes that keep families connected The surprising lessons of off-grid living RV dreams and solo trips w...

Parenting isn’t just a phase—it’s a full-blown adventure. In Episode 20, Nancy and Matthew open up about what it was really like to raise three kids: from newborns in strollers to sweaty teens dodging showers, from stacking firewood to crashing college budgets. They talk through the parenting stages—infants, toddlers, middle school, teenage rebellion, and finally, the bittersweet reality of launch...

When you’re raising kids, vacations are less about perfection and more about presence. We talk through our most memorable trips—from 22-hour drives to Florida (hello, Disney employee pass) to Maine island cottages with pets in tow—and the systems that helped us survive: packing snacks, bringing backup water/towels, rigging a portable TV/VCR, and budgeting with creativity. We also share a hard-earn...

Maintenance means very different things depending on who you ask. For Matthew, it’s shaving his head, trimming a beard, and avoiding anything that involves flip-flops or pedicures. For Nancy, it’s a lifelong relationship with her hairdresser, regular manicures, facials, and even eyebrow tattoos. Together, they reveal the realities of self-care in marriage, from routines to surprises, and how Covid...

In this episode, Matthew and Nancy get real about morning routines—the good, the messy, and the downright funny. From making the bed and tackling workouts to green smoothies, ironing, and finding ways to avoid morning chaos, they share how little habits set the tone for the whole day. Along the way, they unpack how Covid changed their rhythms, why prep the night before matters, and how even coffee...

Making decisions as a couple isn’t always easy—especially when one’s a planner and the other’s spontaneous. This episode dives into how Matthew and Nancy navigate choices in marriage: from dinner disasters to travel plans, cleaning styles, and date nights at Home Depot. Relatable, funny, and filled with real talk about compromise, communication, and balance. Takeaways: Navigating decisions as a co...

Getting to know someone sounds simple — until you’re actually doing it while planning a wedding, moving between states, and figuring out who’s walking the dog at 2 a.m. In this week’s episode, Nancy and Matthew revisit their early days: the unexpected way they met, the two-year break, the long-distance phone calls, and the decision that brought them back together. They share the challenges of blen...