We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won't

After 37 years married, Nancy and Matthew finally unpack what keeps their relationship thriving. Spoiler: It’s not just loyalty. It’s laughter, communication, respect, shared goals, and a strict $500 spending rule. Expect raw real talk, stories about dog walks in Manhattan, unplanned computer purchases, and still finding ways to appreciate each other’s different styles. Honest, hilarious, and surp...

In this episode, Nancy and Matthew recap their GrowthDay Ultra event in Napa, where the focus was on health and wellness. They share their key takeaways from Brendon Burchard and other speakers, including the “Four E’s” of High Performance: Energize, Engage, Excellence, and Expand. Highlights include: Why energizing your mornings matters (even when you’re cold and underdressed) How documentaries a...

This week on We Should Probably Edit This – But We Won’t , Nancy and Matthew dive deep (and occasionally off the rails) into their ultimate bucket list dreams. From solo trips with each of their kids to epic adventures with their grandkids, a month in Europe, building a backyard guest house, and the eternal dream of finally owning a convertible—no goal is too big, too small, or too ridiculous. The...

From hot dogs on the streets of NYC to clamming in Bodega Bay, today’s Father's Day special is packed with stories, laughter, and the unexpected lessons we carry forward. Matthew and Nancy open up about their dads—flawed, funny, and formative—and reflect on the legacy of parenting, from tool tips to horse misadventures to the power of being present. Whether you’re a dad, had a dad, miss a dad, or...

What do 21 signs, a tag sale, and two “big guys” at Rockefeller Center have in common? Miscommunication. In this hilarious and totally relatable episode, Nancy and Matthew dive into the small misunderstandings that turn into big stories—from botched meeting spots to tag sale logistics gone sideways. They explore the humor in “he said, she heard,” and why clarity in communication might be the most...

In Episode 9 of We Should Probably Edit This – But We Won’t , Nancy and Matthew open up about the pressures of parenting, finances, emotional overwhelm, and that sneaky habit of absorbing other people’s stress. From budgeting breakthroughs to mindset shifts, they unpack the real-life challenges we all face—and how to keep your peace when the world feels chaotic. You’ll hear stories about raising k...

In this episode of We Should Probably Edit This, But We Won't , Nancy and Matthew take a heartfelt and humorous look at aging—the milestones, the reflections, and the realities of turning 60. From aging and friendships to faith, volunteering, and the “Let Them Theory” from Mel Robbins, it’s a candid take on embracing life’s next chapter with purpose and humor. They talk about what they’ve learned...

What do you value—really value—as you grow older? Nancy and Matthew tackle that question by looking back on what their moms taught them, what they learned raising three kids, and how their outlook has changed now that the house is (mostly) quiet. Expect stories about Italian grandmas, car seats on school buses, parenting wins (and fails), and how growth never stops—whether you're 37 years married...

After 37 years of marriage, you learn to let some things go… and passive-aggressively bring up the rest on a podcast. In this episode, Nancy and Matthew take a hilarious tour through the land of pet peeves, exploring everyday irritations with humor, love, and just the right amount of sarcasm. Whether it’s red lights that refuse to sync, the mysterious male/female plumbing parts aisle, or the etern...

In this unfiltered episode, Nancy and Matthew dive deep into their messy, funny, and sometimes frustrating journey to better health. They share lessons from blood tests, body scans, fad diets, and functional medicine—and reveal what actually worked (and what absolutely didn’t). Along the way, they talk about the emotional side of health, how to stay motivated when nothing seems to work, and why it...

In this unfiltered episode, Nancy and Matthew dive into the complex world of in-laws—where respect meets resentment, and personal choices collide with family expectations. They unpack decades of family dynamics, cultural differences, and advice passed down from parents (“Don’t complain to the in-laws!”). With personal stories, generational truths, and a few awkward laughs, this episode explores ho...

Nancy and Matthew return from GrowthDay in Austin with fresh insights on connection, personal development, and the power of finding your "growth friends." Between deep talk about adult friendships and a wildly untrained puppy named Celia, they explore how our circles evolve, why making friends later in life is harder (but worth it), and how the messy stuff often makes for the best stories. It's he...

Nancy and Matthew are back—hot flashes, party-crashing, church-hopping and all. In this unfiltered episode, they unpack one of the most misunderstood myths in relationships: that marriage is supposed to be 50/50. From raising kids and managing a home to who really scrubs the bathroom and how to survive grocery shopping together, they dive into the real dynamics behind long-term love. Along the way...

Matthew thinks he’s got it all figured out, but Nancy has a different take. In this unfiltered debut, we tackle family, finances, and the fine art of disagreeing—because sometimes, the right answer isn’t so clear. Takeaways: Our podcast is entitled 'We Should Probably Edit This', reflecting our unfiltered discussions. In relationships, effective communication plays a critical role in navigating mi...