Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar

We Met At Acme

Society EN ↓ 428 episodes

We Met At Acme is the OG dating podcast and a lifestyle tool for the next generation of adults. In each episode, you'll learn about attachment styles, rules and guidelines to follow when dating, red flags, the importance of therapy, and more. With host Lindsey Metselaar you’ll hear from dating experts, licensed professionals, celebrities, and influencers all sharing their dating experiences or dating insights. Most importantly, you'll improve your confidence, self-worth, and overall outlook towards dating - you'll laugh a little along the way and learn not to take yourself too seriously.

Author

Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar

Category

Society

Podcast website

art19.com

Latest episode

Jul 5, 2026

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Episodes

Pride Weekend! featuring Carly and Shelby 30.06.2019

Happy Pride! This week’s episode features Carly and Shelby. In this episode, we discuss how they met, what it’s like for exes when you come out, kips bay, parents making you sleep in separate rooms, experimenting in school, and so much more! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choic...

Live Panel in Chicago 23.06.2019

In our live podcast from Chicago, there is something for everyone. Our guests bring all perspectives to the table. We’ve got Ceta Walters who is married with kids, Ariel Ginsburg who is in a relationship, and two single guys Adam Sokolowitz and Josh Iachelli. Follow along as we dive into just about every topic you can think of from sex on a first take, to defining the relationship, therapy of cour...

Rori Sasson, author of The Art Of The Date and founder of Platinum Poire 16.06.2019

In this episode, Rori and I discuss men's unrealistic expectations, having a 21 year age difference with your partner, having a male gyno, why you need more in common than less, spending money to meet someone, why you shouldn't have sex on a first date, and more!  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn m...

Freezing Your Eggs, Reflecting On Your 20s, and Songs For Your Dating App Profiles ft. Missy Modell 09.06.2019

In this episode, Missy and I talk about eating healthy, not wanting to freeze eggs, becoming a different person every year of your 20s and 30s, our dating app songs and profiles, splitting the bill, times where we weren't picky, and so much more!  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad...

A Conversation With A Real Life Fuckboy ft. Lindsey's friend Jonah 02.06.2019

In this episode, Jonah and I discuss our high school reunions, wanting to skip first dates and go on second ones, being a fuckboy, what a fuckboy actually is, keeping someone on their toes, when breaks can be beneficial, and so much more!    Get your tickets now for the LIVE We Met At Acme tour! https://www.wemetatacme.com/tour See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy...

Ghosts Who Haunt Us, and Who Proposes With Two Guys ft. Mike Kelton 19.05.2019

In this episode, Mike and I talk about having a finsta, ghosts, mental health, who proposes in a gay couple, skipping the engagement period, the proposal photo that has a dick in it, the gay mating call look, spray tanning and so much more!  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choic...

SURPRISE PROPOSAL: WOMAN THAT MET HER BOYFRIEND AT ACME PROPOSES 12.05.2019

In this SPECIAL SURPRISE proposal episode, I talk to Meghan Asha and Lev Brie about how they met at Acme! We also discuss running start-ups, how entrepreneurship mentality coincides with relationship mentality, meeting once a week about your relationship, what a pre-proposal is, and of course, THE PROPOSAL! (Yes, I cried) See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notic...

Mark Manson, author of "F*** Yes Or No" 05.05.2019

In this episode of We Met At Acme, I sit down with one of my favorite writers Mark Manson. Mark has a new book coming out called "Everything Is Fucked." We discuss when Mark was a dating coach, what inspired him to write Fuck Yes Or No, how long you can fake having game, defining the relationship the right way, how he got his wife, and so much more!  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy...

F*** it, get a divorce ft. Steve Kane 14.04.2019

In this episode, Steve and I talk about how to know if you should get a divorce, if you're unhappy in a moment vs unhappy in general, ages 26 vs 56, how much luck plays into relationships, having the same problems in different partnerships, if marriage was an 8 year contract, women who propose to men, when is the right time to divorce when you have kids, what men are like when women aren't around,...

What's Acceptable To Ask A Queer Person, And Moving On Fast Is Okay 07.04.2019

In this episode, Ali and I discuss what "brunch" has become, how she met her current girlfriend IRL, the stigma around moving on really fast, stalking your partner's social media, how important trust is, how you should break up if you have a desire to cheat, your partner being your social currency, putting me in my place when it comes to lesbian questions, telling our partners if we masturbate, an...

Scheana from Vanderpump Rules 24.03.2019

In this episode, Scheana and I talk about how Vanderpump Rules began in the first place, the Eddie Cibrian/Brandy drama, her current relationship status, being married to someone with addiction, why she froze her eggs, hooking up with John Mayer, who she would get rid of on Vanderpump, and SO much more!   This episode is sponsored by Scentbird. Head to Scentbird.com/ACMEand use my code ACME for 50...

Dating and Attraction Coach Connell Barrett 17.03.2019

In this episode, Connell and I discuss the no game game, being vulnerable, how men overthink dating, getting out of the friendzone, the difference between pick up artists and sincere guys, roadblocks for men when dating, attracting vs connecting, male insecurities, and so much more! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-se...

Dating Women, Quitting Ciggs, and Finding Someone When You Least Expect It ft. Carly Chaikin 10.03.2019

We Met At Acme Episode 75 features my friend Carly Chaikin, best known for her role as Darlene in Mr. Robot. Carly also starred in Suburgatory, The Last Song, and many more amazing films. In this episode, Carly and I discuss finding someone when you're not looking, guys who bring up their exes, Carly's relationship with a woman, when people speak on text but are a mute in person, Liam Hemsworth, i...

Our Demons, Talking Shit, Objectifying Men, and Why You Shouldn't Take Advice From Your Single Friends ft. Hannah Berner 24.02.2019

On this episode, Hannah and I discuss our demons, talking shit, playing tennis, tall guys, dating comedians, why you shouldn't take advice from your single friends, objectifying men, break up advice, insecurities, girls who are funny, fighting well, and so much more!  This episode is sponsored by Joybird and Scentbird. 2 birds, 1 stone. Get 25% off your first Joybird order by using the code ACME a...

Growing Up In A Bubble And Going To Jail ft. Jonathan Shokrian 17.02.2019

In this episode, we talk to Jonathan Shokrian aka Shok, the founder and CEO of MeUndies. We discuss Persian weddings, new relationships, Shok's experience in prison, the flaws of the system, bonds that Shok built with the other inmates, growing up in a bubble, creating scenarios where we can give back, showing up for one another, and so much more! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy an...

Reaction Management, CBT/DBT Therapy, Core Mindfulness, and Tolerating Pain ft. My Therapist Cecilia 10.02.2019

In this episode, my incredible therapist Cecilia and I talk about her methods, core mindfulness, tolerating pain, reaction management, if everyone should experience therapy, emotional mind, reasonable mind, wise mind, and so much more! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Vi...

Adderall Addiction, Sexual Confidence, and Scams ft. Caroline Calloway 03.02.2019

In this episode with Caroline Calloway, we talk about how she ended up at Cambridge, her quintuple Sagittarius, being labeled as a scammer, how we define influencers, adderall addiction, sexual confidence, learning how to handle Instagram fame, and more. Find Caroline on Instagram at @carolinecalloway   Visit Zola.com/ACME today to start your free wedding website and also get $50 off your wedding...

Guys Who Finish Quickly, Long Distance Relationships, Scheduling Sex, and Defining Relationships Before Sex ft. Thomas and Tucker 27.01.2019

In this episode, I chat with Thomas and Tucker, co-hosts of the Undesirables Podcast. We discuss defining a relationship before sleeping together, talking during sex, being turned off, guys who finish quickly, long distance, communication priorities, scheduling sex, and so much more! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-s...

Saturn Return, Past Lives, Meeting People You Aren't Meant To Meet, and Self Awareness ft. Aliza Kelly 20.01.2019

In this episode, Aliza and I talk about our Saturn return (it happens between late 20s and early 30s), hereditary lines, past lives, cardinal/mutable/fixed signs, dating apps, meeting people we “weren’t meant to meet”, sign compatibility, self-awareness, and so much more! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info....

Female Entrepreneurship, Supporting Your Partner, Showing Up For People, and New York vs. LA ft. Sally Kim of Crushed Tonic 13.01.2019

In this episode, Sally and I discuss why she created Crushed Tonic, New York people vs LA people, being a female entrepreneur, jealous guys, the importance of supporting your partner, turning networking into a date, showing up for people, and so much more!  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more abo...

Dealbreakers, Dating With A Positive Attitude, Love Languages, and Moving In Together ft. Oliver Kremer of Dos Toros 06.01.2019

In this episode, Oliver and I discuss dating apps, how technology influences our conversations, dealbreakers, dating with a positive attitude, acting with intention, intellectual connection, love languages, being adventurous in a relationship, how to tell someone you’re not into it, moving in together, and so much more.  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice...

Britni Interviews Me On Why I Created The Podcast And We Discuss What Qualities To Look For In A Partner and Why You Shouldn't Have Sex On A First Date 30.12.2018

In this episode, Lindsey Metselaar, host of the podcast, is interviewed by her dear friend, Britni. Lindsey discusses everything from why she created the podcast, what qualities to look for in a partner, therapy, sex on a first date, poll questions that shock her, defining a relationship, and so much more!        See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at http...

Bridesmaids For Hire, Worst Wedding Experiences, Opening Up To Strangers, and Being Helpful In A Wedding Party ft. Jen Glantz 23.12.2018

In this episode, Jen and I discuss what it looks like to be a bridesmaid for hire, bad breakups, dating app romances, her worst hired bridesmaid experience(s), how opening up to strangers can be easier than opening up to friends, how to treat the people in your wedding party, and so much more. Must listen before wedding season is underway!    This episode is sponsored by Lola, Fabletics, and Zola....

Long-term Relationships, Jealousy, What Sex-Ed Didn't Teach Us, Boarding School, Energy, and STDs ft. James Kavanagh 16.12.2018

We Met At Acme episode 63 features our first Irishman James Kavanagh! On this episode, we discuss gay long-term relationships, jealousy, what we DON’T learn from sex-ed, how to learn about good sex, the boarding school experience, attracting those who match our energy (positive attracts positive, negative attracts negative), STD/STI’s, and so much more! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/priv...

Relationship Expectations, Dating Anxiety, Healing, and Intuitive Dating ft. Nikki Novo 09.12.2018

In this episode, Nikki and I discuss putting expectations on a relationship, betas, healing, feeling the presence of people who have passed on, psychedelics, dating anxiety, Nikki’s 3 stage program, creating space within yourself, clarity on what you want, presenting your best self to the world, and much more.    This episode is sponsored by Zola and Fabletics.  Check out Zola.com/Acme to start  y...

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