Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar

We Met At Acme

Society EN ↓ 428 episodes

We Met At Acme is the OG dating podcast and a lifestyle tool for the next generation of adults. In each episode, you'll learn about attachment styles, rules and guidelines to follow when dating, red flags, the importance of therapy, and more. With host Lindsey Metselaar you’ll hear from dating experts, licensed professionals, celebrities, and influencers all sharing their dating experiences or dating insights. Most importantly, you'll improve your confidence, self-worth, and overall outlook towards dating - you'll laugh a little along the way and learn not to take yourself too seriously.

Author

Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar

Category

Society

Podcast website

art19.com

Latest episode

Jul 5, 2026

Where to listen?

Podcasts in the app Replaio Radio Coming soon

Podcasts are coming to the app soon. Install now and be the first to see a whole new take on podcasts

Get it on Google Play Install for free Android 5M+ downloads · 4.8 rating iOS soon

Episodes

ASMR, Religious Cults, Being Very Single, Two Week Relationships, and Bad Dating App Experiences ft. Musician Kyan Palmer 02.12.2018

In this episode, Kyan, 24, and I talk about being veryyyy single, two-week relationships, bad dating app experiences, his desire for his partner to be a teacher, ASMR, religious cults, one of our favorite topics, sex on a first date, and so much more! This episode is sponsored by Quip and Thirdlove. Go to getquip.com/acme for a free refill pack with your purchase of a Quip toothbrush! Go to thirdl...

Gender Reassignment Surgery, and Cyber Bullying ft. Trans Activist and Model Corey Rae 25.11.2018

In this episode, Corey and I discuss being transgender from birth, cyber bullying, dating while trans, getting surgery, dating apps and people’s responses, transgender idols/icons, and so much more!    This episode is sponsored by Shoedazzle. Go to Shoedazzle.com/ACME for 50% off your order if you sign up as a VIP today. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice...

Making The First Move, Different Types Of Orgasms, The Gooch, and Proper Anal ft. Sexologist Shan Boodram 11.11.2018

We Met At Acme Episode 58 features Shan Boody, the Martha Stewart of Intimacy. In this episode, we discuss making the first move, the steps of intimacy, consent and intent, knowing what works for you in the bedroom, different types of orgasms, doing anal the right way, the gooch, the benefits of coconut oil, and so much more!   This episode is sponsored by Quip and WooMorePlay. Go to www.getquip.c...

Exes Coming Out, Paying On Dates, Therapy, Dating A Comedian, and Stalking Exes ft. Sam Morril 04.11.2018

In this episode, Sam and I talk dating apps, exes coming out as gay, fear of becoming part of his comedic act, therapy in the city, Lindsey’s love of Edward Norton, keeping tabs on exes’ social media, paying on dates, and so much more! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Vi...

Zodiac Sign Compatibility, Birth Charts, Nature Vs. Nurture, and The Importance Of The Moon ft. Nadine Jane 28.10.2018

In this episode, Nadine and I discuss the purpose of astrological readings, the importance of the moon, sign compatibility , the meaning of Venus in retrograde, the birth chart, the houses, nature vs nurture, birth order, and so much more! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices...

Dating When You're A Celeb, The #metoo Movement, And Trust In A Relationship ft. Jerry Ferrara from Entourage 21.10.2018

We Met At Acme Episode 55 features actor Jerry Ferrera of Entourage. In this episode, we discuss how Jerry landed his gorgeous wife, pre-Entourage dating vs post-Entourage dating, what it’s like to be super famous, women expecting him to actually be like Turtle, Entourage in the era of #metoo, being happy alone, trust in a relationship, and so much more!  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/pr...

Fuckboy vs. Nonfuckboy Behavior, Body Hair, Bi-Coastal Relationships, and Healthy Sex Lives ft. Josh Kaplan 07.10.2018

We Met At Acme Episode 53 features Josh from Buck Mason, a menswear brand out of LA. In this episode, we discuss defining the relationship, indicators of fuckboy and non-fuckboy behavior, body hair, how golf is a way to get away from your partner, looks vs. personality, having a bi-coastal relationship, availability bias, healthy sex life in a long term relationship, the private face vs the public...

Growing Up In NYC vs. Moving Here, Keeping Nudes, And What To Say On A Dating App ft. Serena Kerrigan 30.09.2018

We Met At Acme Episode 52 features Serena Fucking Kerrigan from Refinery 29. We discuss what it’s like growing up in the city vs moving here after school, ambivalence toward dating apps, how to handle dating app matches, age difference in relationships, when to have sex with someone, keeping nudes from past relationships and Serena flips the switch and asks Lindsey some questions. See Privacy Poli...

Meet Cutes, Converting For A Partner, and Dating Preferences ft. Jonah, Jared, Jake, and Meredith 23.09.2018

We Met At Acme Episode 51 is a recording of We Met At UJA, our live panel event with Jonah Feingold, Jared Matthew Weiss, Meredith Davis, and Jake Walker. On this panel, we talk about meet cutes, Judaism, converting for a partner, dating preferences, the "what are we" conversation, and so much more!  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com...

Midwives, IUD's, Pregnancy, and Eating Your Placenta ft. Jori 16.09.2018

We Met At Acme Episode 50 features Jori, our first midwife. In this episode, Jori and I discuss what midwives do, differences in healthcare around the world, contraception, IUD's, pregnancy and knowing when to get pregnant, eating your placenta, and A LOT MORE! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more...

Turn-Ons, Lube, Enneagrams, And Attachment Styles ft. Chrissy Ford of Harper's Bazaar 02.09.2018

We Met At Acme episode 48 features Chrissy Rutherford aka @chrissyford, a digital editor at Harper’s Bazaar. In this episode; we talk turn ons, lube, break ups and moving on from them, dealing with cheating in a new relationship, attachment styles, enneagram tests, and more.   This episode is sponsored by Woo for Play. Visit wooforplay.com or check out their Instagram @wooforplay. See Privacy Poli...

Meeting IRL vs. Apps, Men Who Are Too Into Social Media, and Kelly Ripa ft. Emma from Comments By Celebs 26.08.2018

We Met At Acme Episode 47 features Emma and Julie from everyone's favorite Instagram account @commentsbycelebs. In this episode, we discuss how the account started, being blessed by Kelly Ripa, open relationships and if they are ever really fair, meeting IRL vs. the apps, men who are into social media, and so much more!        This episode is sponsored by LOLA. LOLA products are 100% natural and e...

Lesbian Dating, The Sexuality Spectrum, and Who Pays On A First Date For Two Women ft. Devyn Sloane 19.08.2018

We Met At Acme Episode 46 features my friend Devyn, who is also our first lesbian guest! In this episode, we discuss best friends same-sex crushes, lesbian porn, coming out, the sexuality spectrum, who pays on first dates, the lesbian scene in NYC, and SO MUCH MORE!    See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Le...

Ghosting, Healing From Break Ups, and Attachment Styles (The Book "Attached") ft. Amy Chan 05.08.2018

Episode 45 featuresAmy Chan, founder of Renew Breakup Boot Camp. In this episode, we discuss the renew program, ghosting, break-ups and their different stages,anxious/avoidant attachment styles, and more! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Being A Bachelor at 51, Why It's Not Ok To Use Your Phone On Dates, and Shrooms ft. Joe from Nadkins 29.07.2018

In this episode, Joe and I talk about being a 51 year old bachelor, getting away with things because of your looks, using your phone on dates, shrooms, sex on a first date, and so much more!  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ariana Grande's Engagement, Texting With More Than One Person, and Cheer-sing On Dates ft. Jordana Kier and Vera Papisova 23.07.2018

Episode 43 is a recording from our live event with Jordana Kier from Lola and Vera Papisova from Teen Vogue. In this episode, we discuss cheers-ing on dates, sexual harassment, why we can't trust magicians, Ariana Grande's engagement, texting with multiple people at once and more!   See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-se...

Needing Validation, Personality > Looks, and Why Casual Sex Is Sad ft. David Shabtai 15.07.2018

In this episode, David and I discuss needing validation, being attracted to personality over looks, people who try to define themselves by their relationships, casual sex and how unrewarding it can be, and so much more! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm...

Bringing Politics Into Your Relationship, Reaching Out First On A Dating App, and Dating Cheaters ft. Julia Young 08.07.2018

In this episode, we discuss reaching out to a guy first on dating apps, Westworld, talking about politics in your relationship, dating someone who has cheated before, and MORE!  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fake Spiritual People, Kanye West, and Keeping The Mystery Alive ft. Andre J 01.07.2018

We Met At Acme episode 40 features Andre J, our first agender guest. Andre and I discuss keeping the mystery, their sexual preference, fake spiritual people, rude comments on instagram, Kanye West, and so much more!  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/ad...

My Sister’s Rules vs. Mine 24.06.2018

We Met At Acme Episode 39 features my sister Allie aka @healthyalibi. In this episode we discuss dating as it differs between us, the "no sex before monogamy" rule, how Allie met her fiancé, getting over exes when we date someone new right away, and so much more!  This episode is sponsored by Physique 57 - the best workout in the world! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and Californi...

Why You Shouldn't Marry For Love ft. Rabbi Manis Friedman 17.06.2018

We Met At Acme Episode 38 features Rabbi Manis Friedman, author of The Joy Of Intimacy. In this episode, we discuss intimacy, how you shouldn't marry for love, loving everything about someone but not them, and many other incredible and controversial opinions on love and marriage. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-...

Bachelor Drama, How To Participate When A Guy Is On Top, and Boring People ft. Corinne Olympios 10.06.2018

We Met At Acme Episode 37 features legend Corinne Olympios from The Bachelor. In this episode, Corinne and I discuss Bachelor drama, guys who like mutes, Corinne's current love life, partipating when a guy is on top, and more! Plus Corinne answers your questions from our @WeMetAtAcme Instagram post!   This episode is sponsored by Hims and Modcloth. Check out FORHIMS.COM/ACME and get your first tri...

Guys Who Are Flashy, Talking To Friends About Your Sex Life, Toxic Relationships, and Counting Calories ft. Elizabeth and Dale from Sweats And The City 03.06.2018

We Met At Acme Episode 36 features Elizabeth and Dale from @sweatsandthecity, an Instagram dedicated to all things health and fitness. In this episode, we discuss guys who are flashy with money, telling friends if they've gained weight, how much to tell your friends about sex with your long term partner, the difference between a healthy relationship and a toxic one, guys who count calories and mor...

Orbiting, Talking To Exes, Being Almost 30, and Being Able To Pay For Your Own Wedding ft. Kelly Keegs 28.05.2018

We Met At Acme Episode 35 features Kelly Keegs, host of the podcast Whine With Kelly. In this episode, we discuss orbiting, reaching out to exes when we see something that reminds us of them, hitting 30, buying a vibrator, being able to pay for your own wedding, and so much more!   This is the article that I wrote that we are referring to in this episode: https://thoughtcatalog.com/lindsey-metsela...

Being Engaged, If You Are Too Picky, Taking Criticism, and Unrealistic Expectations ft. Joshua Stern 20.05.2018

We Met At Acme Episode 34 features Joshua Stern, founder of I Know The Chef, and co-founder of Wine n Dine and MovieGrade. In this episode, we discuss engaged life, how to know when you've found the one, being too picky, unrealistic expectations, how many times you can see each other in beginning of dating, taking criticism, telling a woman whether or not to eat something, and MORE!   This episode...

Listen to the We Met At Acme podcast in Replaio

Radio and podcasts in one app - free, with no sign-up. Install today and do not miss the launch

Get it on Google Play

Replaio is not a podcast publisher; show names, artwork and audio belong to their authors and are distributed through public RSS feeds.