Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar

We Met At Acme

Society EN ↓ 428 episodes

We Met At Acme is the OG dating podcast and a lifestyle tool for the next generation of adults. In each episode, you'll learn about attachment styles, rules and guidelines to follow when dating, red flags, the importance of therapy, and more. With host Lindsey Metselaar you’ll hear from dating experts, licensed professionals, celebrities, and influencers all sharing their dating experiences or dating insights. Most importantly, you'll improve your confidence, self-worth, and overall outlook towards dating - you'll laugh a little along the way and learn not to take yourself too seriously.

Author

Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar

Category

Society

Podcast website

art19.com

Latest episode

Jul 5, 2026

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Episodes

Live Podcast at Bowery Ballroom (ft. Nick Viall, Tori Piskin, Alyssa Coscarelli, and Justin McLeod) 05.01.2020

In this live podcast episode, we discuss everything from sex on the first date, to long distance relationships, why hinge took away the height feature, embarrassing trends we participated in, and more!  Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaph...

Why Men Sleep With You On The First Date Because They’re Insecure, Being A Player In The Age Of Feminism, And Getting Divorced By Age 26. 29.12.2019

On this week’s episode, I talk to author Josh Raab about avoiding red flags, his divorce, signs you’re in a toxic relationship, why Josh thinks it’s a bad idea to sleep together early on, open relationships, and more. This episode starts off with a solo where I discuss growing up in NYC, wanting to get back with an ex, if you know they’re the one but you’re 21, if it’s harder to get a partner if y...

Breaking Off Engagements, Body Image, And Not Bringing Out The Best In Each Other ft. Anne Mahlum 22.12.2019

On this week’s episode, I talk to CEO Anne Mahlum about meeting her partner in the DM, breaking off her engagement, body image issues, if abs are really made in the kitchen, taking responsibility in your relationships, having a high work and sex drive and more! This episode starts off with a solo where I discuss dealing with a broken heart, bringing up exes, phone call anxiety, and running into ol...

Living With A Partner For The First Time, Stigmas About Working For Your Parents, And Not Getting Married Until You’re Financially Set ft. The Zabar Twins 15.12.2019

On this week’s episode, I talk to twins Oliver and Sasha Zabar about dating with no pressure to get married, stigma’s about working for your parents, what it’s like being twins, how living with a partner can actually be easier, and more! This episode starts off with a solo where I discuss dating older guys, and tips on taking things slow vs. letting things fizzle. Produced by Dear Media See Privac...

Settling vs. Compromising, Emotionally Abusive Relationships, And My Parents Love Story 08.12.2019

On this week’s solo episode, I answer your submitted questions about how my parents met, settling vs. compromising, emotionally abusive relationships and parents, different sex drives, tips to get to a second date, my dating rules, if you ever really know if someone is “the one,” partners who struggle with mental health, and more! This episode is sponsored by Ritual, head to ritual.com/acme for 10...

WTF Is Mercury In Retrograde, Biological Clocks, And Can You Get Out Of The Friendzone? ft. That’s So Retrograde 01.12.2019

On this week’s episode, I sit down with Elizabeth Kott and Stephanie Simbari from That’s So Retrograde! We discuss mercury in retrograde, intense dreams, moving in with a partner, a woman’s “biological clock,” guys who are friends with girls, stalking our ex’s new girlfriends and so much more. This episode starts off with a solo part where I talk about being with your partner’s family over the hol...

What A 26 Year Old Guy Is Looking For, PTSD From Exes, And When You’re Into Someone But The Timing Is Off ft. Kia 24.11.2019

On this week’s episode, I sit down with my friend Kia and discuss PTSD from exes, first generation Americans, timing, what 26 year old single guys are looking for, when you like someone but it’s the wrong timing, and more! This episode starts off with a solo where I discuss how to deal with your family on Thanksgiving, and when to spend the holidays together. https://www. Sakara.com/ACME for $60 o...

Marriage Timelines and Ultimatums, Eating Issues, Demanding Friendships, and Tips To Move On. 17.11.2019

On this week’s solo episode, I answer your questions and talk about first loves vs. last loves, telling people you don’t like their partner, couples who sleep together every night, marriage timelines and ultimatums, eating issues, demanding friendships, Raya, cheating, fear of being alone, and so much more! https://www.mejuri.com/acme for Free Shipping on orders over $100 Produced by Dear Media Se...

On/Off Relationships, Bullying, Nosejobs, And How Much To Share On Social Media with Michaela Podolsky 10.11.2019

On this week’s episode, I sit down with Michaela Podo and we talk about everything from her on and off relationship with her now husband, her 2 nosejobs, bullying when she was younger, getting your family on board when you get back together, rumors about her sisters, and more. This episode starts with a solo part where I discuss the longest I’ve gone without sex, the different personality traits o...

Mental Health, The Correct Way To Slide Into Someone’s DMs, And Why You Should Wait To Have Sex with Atlanta De Cadenet Taylor 03.11.2019

On this week’s episode, I sit down with Atlanta De Cadenet Taylor and we discuss everything from mental health, not drinking, her recent engagement, if once a cheater is always a cheater, and more. This episode starts with a solo part where I talk about how much to disclose about past relationships, slow fade vs ghosting, and analyze guys from each zodiac sign. https://www. Mejuri.com/acme for Fre...

Adam4Adam, Taking On Someone Else’s Debt, And If Opposites Actually Attract with Marko 27.10.2019

On this week’s episode, I sit down with Marko from Relationshit Podcast. We discuss meeting online before dating apps, freedom in a relationship, assumptions of gay couples, changing your mind on kids, and as usual, we bang out some poll questions. This episode starts with a solo part where I discuss liking your best friend, whether or not to disclose cheating in the past, the “rules” for millenni...

Serial Monogamy, Superstitions In Dating, And Pre-Sex Sleepovers With Lucas O’Neil 20.10.2019

On this week’s episode, I sit down comedian Lucas O’Neil and we discuss his darkest comedy, dating an older woman, why pre-sex sleepover's are too intimate, when you can request each other on Instagram, and more. This episode starts with a solo part where I discuss how posting too much means you’re insecure, dropping friends, how to deal with being cheated on, why you shouldn’t text a guy after a...

Finding Love Again And Staying Healthy On Dates with Tanya Zuckerbrot 13.10.2019

On this week’s episode, I chat with Tanya Zuckerbrot about dating in your 20s, attitudes towards dating (the power of the pass), needing someone to complete you vs. finding your best friend, how much you should compromise in a relationship, finding a winner, and so much more. The episode starts off with a solo where I discuss partners who aren’t into social media, the 3 types of girls you find, an...

Wedding, Venmo, and Dating Etiquette with Myka 06.10.2019

Aren’t you curious how much you need to spend on a wedding? And who should spend what when you go to a wedding with your partner? On this week’s episode, I chat with etiquette expert Myka Meier about everything from how to hold a bag, to how to find European men, how to get someone to complete your Venmo charge, and more! The episode starts off with me discussing what to say to someone who doesn’t...

NYC Date Nite + My Theory About Guys 29.09.2019

This episode starts with how to be confident in the bedroom, rules of platonic friendships, and my theory of guys. Then, Alexis (@nycdatenite) and I discuss leaving your job to start an Instagram, being traditional in dating, the hottest way a guy can pay for the check, why burning man is a dealbreaker, being miserable but thin, and more.  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and Califo...

Farmer Nick + the Dos and Don't of dating app profiles 22.09.2019

In this episode, I start by discussing the do's and don'ts of dating app profiles, toxic friendships, having the upper hand in dating, things I wish I knew at 22, and more! Then, I chat with Farmer Nick about going from IBM to farming, his interfaith relationship, his choice not to drink, why he doesn't kiss on a first date, and more!   Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.co...

Almost Breaking Up, When To Have The Marriage Convo, And What People Say When They're Not Ready ft. Julie Lauren 15.09.2019

Welcome to Season 2! All episodes will start with a solo based on what our listeners have requested we talk about. In the solo intro, I discuss being too available, my facetune fail, Facebook's dating service, the 3 week 3 month 3 year rule, and more. Then, Julie Lauren and I talk about our love of fountain soda, her long distance marriage, almost breaking up with our partners, our own insecuritie...

Our 100th Episode! Featuring a solo podcast + Katie and Brian! 31.08.2019

Our 100th episode (!!!!) begins with a solo where I talk about blacking out in the past, being too available, and share some horror stories. Then we get the privilege of the FIRST DEBUT CONVO with @honestlykate and honestly bae aka Katie and Brian! We discuss couples with the same zodiac sign, love languages, being late to a first date, muting your partner's stories, and more!   This episode is sp...

Jule the Bee plus a preview of our live show in LA 26.08.2019

In this episode I talk to Jule the Bee about getting fired, knowing it was time for a divorce, friends with benefits, serial monogamists, the key to a happy marriage, meeting people online, and so much more! We also include a clip from our LA show with Joe Amabile, Kendall Long, Jazzmyne Robbins, and Emma Willmann!  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at h...

36 Questions That Lead To Love + Yummertime! 18.08.2019

This episode starts with a solo episode where I talk about having feelings for someone else while in a relationship, friends who make bad decisions, extroverts dating introverts, and I answer the 36 questions that lead to love! Then we have the amazing guys of Yummertime! I talk to Brock and Chris about everything from California vs NY to their engagement, jealousy, bigotry, and so much more!    V...

The Ladies from Uncensored Thoughts 11.08.2019

In this episode, I chat with Amber and Sophia about breaking off a long term relationship, meeting people at the gym, sending thank you texts THAT NIGHT instead of the next day, hyping up dates, how I need to be more empathetic, and more! Head to wemetatacme.com/tour to get tickets to our upcoming shows!   This episode is sponsored by Lola and Buffy. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy...

Kimmy and Liza from 51 First Dates 28.07.2019

This episode starts out with a little solo conversation since you guys were into that last time. Then, Kimmy and Liza and I discuss going to an all girls school, parents who don't care about parties in their homes, going on 51 dates, when to sleep with a stranger, long distance relationships, staying strong through business school, and more.  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and Cal...

Lindsey's Solo Episode! 21.07.2019

In this episode, I talk to you guys about friends with benefits, sex drive, what I've learned about myself through dating, relationship tips, getting through arguments, my relationship with myself, being single in late 20s early 30s, and so much more! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about you...

Why Men Are Afraid Of Therapy ft. Josh Roberts 14.07.2019

In this week's episode with Josh Roberts, we discuss British lingo, panic attacks, therapy in the UK, cognitive behavioral therapy vs psychotherapy, men with eating disorders, how many things in your mind you should share with your partner, if the thoughts in your head are always true, stories of dumping people, splitting vacations, and much more!  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy a...

All About Human Design: Do You Know Yours? ft. Erin Claire Jones 07.07.2019

Erin and I discuss human design, how her and her partner went from friends to in a serious relationship, when Erin was in an open relationship, intuition, and more. Erin also gives me a little taste of my human design blueprint.  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit me...

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