Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar

We Met At Acme

Society EN ↓ 428 episodes

We Met At Acme is the OG dating podcast and a lifestyle tool for the next generation of adults. In each episode, you'll learn about attachment styles, rules and guidelines to follow when dating, red flags, the importance of therapy, and more. With host Lindsey Metselaar you’ll hear from dating experts, licensed professionals, celebrities, and influencers all sharing their dating experiences or dating insights. Most importantly, you'll improve your confidence, self-worth, and overall outlook towards dating - you'll laugh a little along the way and learn not to take yourself too seriously.

Author

Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar

Category

Society

Podcast website

art19.com

Latest episode

Jul 5, 2026

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Episodes

Dating Someone Twice Your Age, Co-Dependence In Quarantine, And Attracting The Right Partner ft. Arielle Lorre 19.07.2020

In this episode, I virtually sit down with Arielle Lorre from The Blonde Files. We discuss age differences in relationships, moving in with a partner after 5 months, co- dependence during quarantine, and working on yourself to attract the right partner. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss talking about marriage, how to not have sex too soon, how many people to date before marriage, Wil...

Owning Your Body, High-school Sweethearts, And Testing Your Relationship ft. Cameron Rogers 12.07.2020

In this episode, I virtually sit down with Cameron Rogers aka Freckled Foodie. We discuss the instagram obsession to not have fat rolls, testing your relationship when it’s longterm, and her marriage with her high school sweetheart. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss if you think your partner should be a 10, separation anxiety during COVID, other podcasts I like, red flags while falli...

How To Trick Men Into Thinking It’s Their Idea ft. Sarah Fraser And Andrea Lopez 05.07.2020

In this episode, I virtually sit down with Sarah Fraser and Andrea Lopez, co-hosts of Hey Frase Podcast. We discuss celebrity gossip, dick size, leo and aquarius, making guys think things are their idea, getting married young, the 3 week 3 month 3 year rule, saturn return, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss changing last names, if love can grow if you’re not obsessed at firs...

What A Matchmaker Looks For When Matching Two People ft. Emily Holmes of LastFirst 28.06.2020

In this episode, I virtually sit down with Emily Holmes, the founder of LastFirst matchmaking. We discuss what makes a match compatible, breaking out of your type, time limits for a first date, do opposites really attract, talking about exes on dates, match- ing people with opposite political views, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I dis- cuss what rules can be broken, dating app ru...

What Comes Up When Interracial Dating, Jobs In Your Early 20s, And Training Men For Other Women ft. Baylie Robinson 14.06.2020

In this episode, I virtually sit down with published author and blogger Baylie Robinson. Baylie and I discuss the “no-contact rule,” the difference between dating a Black woman and a White woman, interracial relationships, what we need in our friendships, how to become self aware without therapy, how to talk to your Black friends, training guys to date other women, stories of us getting fired, and...

An Easy Way For Women To Orgasm And How Important Your Friend Group Is ft. Adam Lyons 07.06.2020

This episode starts with a solo with my friend Brihanna where we have an open conversation about what it’s like to be a Black woman in America. The episode continues with Adam Lyons, a dating coach who also happens to be in a polyamorous relationship. Adam and I discuss how to get a woman to achieve an orgasm, dealing with low testosterone, monogamy vs. polygamy, how your friend group affects your...

Why Couples Get Divorced And The Unsexy Conversations You Should Have To Avoid It ft. Laura Wasser 31.05.2020

In this episode, I virtually sit down with divorce attorney Laura Wasser. We discuss why couples get divorced, crucial conversations you need to have with a partner, if a pre-nup is necessary, what to look out for when dating, how much a divorce costs, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss friendship/friend groups, watching ex’s stories on Instagram, insecurities when single, a...

Going Through A Break Up During Quarantine, Virtual Dating Tips, And How We Were As Teenagers ft. Kay Brown 24.05.2020

In this episode, I virtually sit down with Kay Brown (of @Betches). We dis- cuss her break up during quarantine, tips for virtual dating, why women think the men we date are the one, what we were like as teens, our insecurities, and so much more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss masturbating, signs a relationship is going well while apart, body changes in relationships, and pressure...

How To Get Them To Define Things, Dressing For Dates, And The Power Of Social Media ft. Danielle Bernstein 17.05.2020

In this episode, I virtually sit down with Danielle Bernstein, the founder of WeWoreWhat. We talk about her new book, feeling confident in your body, quarantining with a boyfriend, what to wear on a first date, haters, what is off-limits to share online, and so much more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss my mental health struggles, quarantine activities, and dating post quarantine....

There Is No Such Thing As Sexual Incompatibility ft. Ian Ferguson 10.05.2020

In this episode, I virtually sit down with Ian Ferguson, an intimacy coach and teacher of the Erotic Blueprint BreakthroughTM platform, designed to radically transform how we talk about and experience sex. We discuss the 5 different types of erotic personas, how people give and receive love, how you can meet someone halfway when it comes to sex, different kinks, and more. This episode starts with...

Ending Friendships, Starting New Relationships In Quarantine, and Vanderpump Rules Gossip ft. Kristen Doute 03.05.2020

In this episode, I virtually sit down with Kristen Doute from Vanderpump Rules. We discuss her friendship with Stassi and Katie, her book, what she would tell her 20 something self, how therapy has helped her, her new quarantine buddy, how she is portrayed in the show, her thoughts on the Vanderpump couples, and more! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss getting broken up with out of no...

First Relationships, Sticking Around When A Guy Doesn't Define Things, And Why Living Together Is Hard ft. My Friend Leo Sloan 19.04.2020

In this episode, I virtually sit down with my friend and first *middle school* boyfriend Leo Sloan. Leo is the founder of the amazing New Orleans restaurant(s) Good Bird. We discuss new-ish relationships in the time of corona, first relationships, faking confidence in middle school, how it pays to stick around before they define things, and so much more. The episode starts with a solo where I disc...

Pursuing A Man Successfully, Abusive Relationship Patterns, And Fighting In Quarantine ft. Jeannie and Clem 12.04.2020

In this episode, I virtually sit down with Jeannie Mai and her boyfriend Clem. We discuss what determines an abusive relationship, finding love after going through abuse, transitioning from friends to lovers, girls pursuing guys, being parents to a dog, and so much more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss NY coming together, the keys to a 35+ year marriage for millennials, keeping it...

My Dating Rules, Tips For Quarantining With A Partner, And Meeting The Parents On Zoom 05.04.2020

In this full solo episode, I discuss my dating rules, tips for quarantining with your partner, zoom matchmaking and how it is going so far, meeting my boyfriend’s par- ents over FaceTime, sexting/nudes, maintenance during corona, one night stands, staying mentally sane, and so much more! Sakara.com/ACME to get 20% off your order! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/priva...

Getting Sober, Dating Sober, And A Successful Set Up ft. Sarah Levy 29.03.2020

In this episode I sit down with my friend and writer Sarah Levy. Sarah and I discuss why she got sober, what dating is like sober, how I set her and her boyfriend up, and the benefits of sobriety. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss my new relationship: how we met, and how we defined things. TheOuai.com with code: ACME for 3 Free Samples with your order Produced by Dear Media See Priva...

Why You Should Date A Sign You Aren’t Compatible With ft. Colin Bedell 22.03.2020

In this episode I sit down with astrologer Colin Bedell. We discuss everything from Taylor Swift lyrics, celebrities zodiac signs, Capricorn moons, people who ask you to call you for a sec, dating someone with an incompatible chart, if astrology has a gender, the three stages of a relationship and more. This episode starts with a solo where I talk about the madness of the world right now and how t...

A Live Psychic Reading, Bisexual Experiences, and Standards vs. Expectations ft. Mickey Grossman 08.03.2020

In this episode I sit down with psychic and energy reader Mickey Grossman. Mickey tells me all about my past lives, the energy he feels around me, and what he perceives for my future. The episode starts with a solo where I discuss period sex and awkward things you have to do when you first start dating. FunctionOfBeauty.com/ACME for 20% off your order Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at h...

Why Guys Always Come Back, How To Lower Your Expectations, And After Date Follow Up ft. Chanel Omari 01.03.2020

In this episode I sit down with comedian and podcast host Chanel Omari from Bravo’s Princesses of Long Island. We discuss everything from bad breath, guys not getting over girls, after date follow up etiquette, amazing dates that don’t turn into something, my last relationship, being able to meet each other emotionally, and more. The episode starts with a solo where I discuss period sex and awkwar...

Why Breaks Are A Red Flag, What Rebounding Entails, And Comparing New People To Exes ft. Elizabeth Endres 23.02.2020

In this episode I sit down with Elizabeth Endres from Sweats And The City. We discuss her break up, whether or not a heads up is necessary if you’re going to publicly talk about an ex, why breaks are possibly a red flag, guys who have fomo, rebounds, parents getting too involved in our dating lives (MY MOM REQUESTING SOMEONE I WENT ON A DATE WITH ON FACEBOOK), and more! This episode starts with a...

Dating Without Dating Apps, Closure Conversations, And Why Exclusivity Is Bullshit 16.02.2020

In this solo episode, I talk about my first few dates being single, why I’m not on dating apps and how that has been so far, my closure conversation with my ex, why exclusivity is bullshit, betraying yourself for a relationship to work, my experience with matchmaking companies, and more! Function of Beauty for 20% off your first purchase Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.c...

But Like Maybe Don’t… Do Any Of These Things ft. Arianna Margulis 09.02.2020

In this episode, I sit down with my friend and talented cartoon artist Arianna Margulis of But Like Maybe. We talk about what not to do when you’re dating in your early 20s, her favorite passage from her new book, our own personal mistakes, a bad date I went on, why set-ups don’t work, and more! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss how to attract people IRL, rebounds, dating again witho...

How Much Men Care About Looks, Putting Yourself Out There, And The Difference Between A First And Second Date ft. Harrison And Brandon from The UpDating Show 02.02.2020

In this episode, I sit down with the creators of UpDating Brandon Berman and Harrison Forman. We discuss everything from how they match couples for blind dating, if people who like to talk need other people who like to talk, how much people care about looks, the law of attraction, putting yourself out there, date horror stories and more! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss how to know...

My Break Up, What Men Need To Fall In Love, And Why You Should Tell People You Like Them ft. Jonathon Aslay 26.01.2020

In this episode, I sit down with author and dating coach Jonathon Aslay. We discuss everything from why you can never assume anything in dating, leading with love, why it’s okay to tell people you if you like them, guys in their 20s vs guys in their 40s, and more! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss my break up and what to say and not say to someone who is going through one. http://www...

Getting Financially Naked: When You Should Ask A Partner What They Make And Why Prenups Are Crucial ft. Shannon McLay 19.01.2020

In this episode, I sit down with Shannon from The Financial Gym. We discuss everything from when you can ask a partner about money, why prenups are necessary, getting “financially naked,” who should pay for what based on their salary, and our past lives! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss whether or not you should break up if you’re unsure, living together after a LDR, and a roommate’...

What Isn’t Attractive To Guys, Wishing Your Ex A HBD, and Dating Someone With Addiction 12.01.2020

In this first solo episode of 2020, I answer your questions that came in via email and Instagram DM. I discuss what I keep hearing from single guys, dating anniversaries, wishing your ex a happy birthday, telling someone you meet if you’ve slept with their friend, if your SO doesn’t post you on Insta, dating an alcoholic, dating post break up, and more! Visit Sakara.com/ACME or use promo code ACME...

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