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(00:00:00): Yeah, so we’re talking about aura farming. (00:00:02): Yeah, we’re talking about aura farming. (00:00:04): And a lot of people are engaged in aura farming. (00:00:06): And it’s kind of been around a while, but, you know, people don’t realize that they’re doing it. (00:00:13): So tell us. (00:00:14): So when you talk about farming, (00:00:15): are you talking about planting things in th...

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Have you heard of Ghostlighting? It’s like ghosting and gaslighting together. Dr. Bruce Y. Lee and I talk about ghostlighting and what it looks like in personal and work life. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit deborahheiserphd.substack.com/subscribe

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(00:00:01): All right, we’re live. (00:00:03): So welcome. (00:00:05): Hey, Bruce, it’s good to see you. (00:00:07): Good to see you, Debbie. (00:00:09): So you and I have been talking and I have so many questions for you because you’re a physician. (00:00:17): You’re a physician scientist. (00:00:19): You are the go-to for so many people about questions about medicine and questions (00:00:26): ab...

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Deborah Heiser and Bruce Y. Lee discuss emerging Gen Z appearance trends such as “looks maxing,” “mogging,” and extreme practices like “bone smashing,” using them as a springboard to explore how self-comparison and appearance pressures evolve across the lifespan, especially in midlife. They contrast the intense, comparison-driven identity work of youth with the growing focus on meaning, impact, an...

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Thank you to everyone who tuned into my live video! Join me for my next live video in the app. Michael Friedman and I just recorded a livestream that brings aging out of the abstract and into real life. Michael is in his 80s; I’m in my 50s. Between us, we bring more than 75 years of advocacy for aging—Michael for over five decades, and me for more than 25 years. Michael founded the Geriatric Menta...

I learned something years ago from someone who used to work at Bell Labs. And he said that every year, at the end of the year, he was requested to make an I am great sheet. And on this I am great sheet, he had to list all of the great things that he did that entire year. It was essentially a summary of all the work that he had done and all of his accomplishments. Anything that was great, maybe he...