Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories

This episode in Houston we head to an iCandy Party to review what the iCandy Parties are all about. We head to the Alien Invasion iCandy Party and talk about our own Houston meet and greet. Our meet and greet was held at Bang Bang Social Club in Houston, with about 40 couples, Cate talks about hosting on her own with a drunken J from Average Swingers Podcast as well as a very lovely Angie.  Saturd...

The swinging lifestyle often comes with a certain amount of evolution and shame. In this episode we are joined by Average Swingers Podcast and John and Jackie Melfi of OpenLove101 and Colette Swingers Clubs. We talk about how the swinging lifestyle has changed and adapted over the years, the differences of expectations on swingers clubs, event hosts and public facing lifestyle people. We delve int...

We are official vaxxed and waxed and ready to mingle! A swinging unicorn is on the loose in Texas and we talk about a myriad of things in today's episode What is the difference between bisexual and pansexual, our hairdresser brings up the question and ponders if all bisexual people are indeed pansexual.  Do you ever experience a 'coming down' after you've had a sexy fantastic swinging experience?...

How to find other swingers? Swingers Dating Sites, Selection Criteria and finding swinging play partners are some common questions asked but... how do these change based on your environment  Do you change your desires, wants and criteria when you're searching for a swinging couple on an online swingers dating site versus a club environment? What if you're just after a one night stand or perhaps lo...

What questions do you have about Swinging? Is Swinging 'normal' for our age bracket? What about joining a session at a Swinger club? In this episode we dig into your swinger questions and answer all our recent voicemails, emails, twitter DM's and more. Join in as we answer these swinger questions with our usual Aussie humor and a little bit of sideways stepping. We would love you to consider suppo...

There are many ways to approach the swinging lifestyle and one of the playstyles that some couples have is soft swap. Soft Swap Swingers are people too! In this episode we interview a fantastic couple who identify as soft swap swingers as their preferred swinging play style.  We share details about navigating the boundaries conversation, how to share your preferred swinger play style and what bein...

Hotwife swinger lets loose in Croatia! In this episode we talk about Swinging and Hotwing in Croatia, arranging a stunt cock for an MFM threesome and more  We share some saucy details about the threesome, we talk about the wasted price on stockings, getting a hotel room, being a hotwife and taking some sexy footage of the evening  This MFM threesome was in a hotel room on a school night! That's a...

Our recent swinging foursome experience contains some new-ness for our play sessions. We share our recent foursome swinging experience which involved butt plugs!  We run through setting up the swinging date, how to transition from the loungeroom to the bedroom and how the use of VR porn could be next level swinger transitions of 2021 and beyond.  Cate also shares some audio on how future foursome...

What is Cuckolding? What is Cuckqueening? Many people incorrectly assume that this fetish involves only humiliation. We interview Dr Justin Lehmiller a PHD and Social Psychologist about Cuckolding and the psychology behind this fetish and desire of being cucked.  In the second half of this podcast we talk about the taboo behind using sex toys and using sex toys as a male.  Links for Dr Lehmiller D...

Swinging Downunder Podcast is taking a (potentially) indefinite hiatus! We have so many changes coming for 2021 and we're excited to finally let the cat out of the bag. Swinging Downunder Podcast is moving to Europe so we can cover more of the swinging lifestyle experience in Europe and we're announcing our new name, Wanderlust Swingers! It's finally time to hang up the Swinging Downunder bag and...

How have your swinger boundaries or swinger rules changed over the years? We delve into our changes from our 5-6 years in the swinging lifestyle and talk about how we've organically changed our swinger boundaries. We run through some responses we received from our community on social media and share a tale or two from listeners on how their swinging boundary changes led them to exploring more abou...

Curious about some of the most commonly searched google terms about swinging, swinging lifestyle, hotwifing, cuckolding and more? We dig into some funny google analytics about what people commonly search about our alternative lifestyle on the internet. In the second half of this episode we talk about the recent media articles covering the Swinging Lifestyle. Some articles are positive and talk abo...

Ever heard of the Skirt Club? Global Sex Positive events for women who want to explore their sexuality in a safe environment. Today's episode focused on the Skirt Club and starts with an interview with the CEO and founder Genevieve, we talk about consent, global sex positive events, the stigma of running a sex positive business & more.  Genevieve gives her tips on some female led sex positive busi...

Some swingers say that the holy grail of swinging is a 4-way connection... what about putting together a 6-Some play session. We talk about how to navigate that, how we transitioned from talking to swinging play and run you through some of our pre thoughts.  How do you get ready for a swinging date or play session? Do you have reservations about the way you look or your ability to flirt and get pe...

We answer your questions about the swinging lifestyle, want to know what we think about balancing the swinging lifestyle? What our swinging spirit animal is or how we tell people what kinds of swingers we are... listen in We spend a bit of time discussing sexually transmitted infections (STi) in swinging as one of our community members wanted to know more about how to have 'the talk'  The episode...

Are you curious what happens at a swinging lifestyle Halloween party? Is Halloween your favorite swinging time of the year? Do you like fireball and dressing up? Have we got an episode for you We recorded this live with our Patron community (Thank you legends!) and reminisced about our swinging Halloween mishaps over the years and shared some listener experiences as well. We talk about the 3 golde...

Don't want the hassle of arranging your own swinging lifestyle gangbang? Would rather outsource your gangbang requirements to a 3rd party? You're not alone!  Today's bonus episode is an interview with Enrique from XTC_GBs in Sydney, Australia. Enrique talks to us about how he has been arranging gangbangs for the past 8 years and how he uses his 18 years swinging lifestyle experience to understand...

Curious how to transition from Swinging Lifestyle dates to some sexy fun? Just want to know more about your dates or want to have some fun with your partner? We’ve been a big fan of swinging lifestyle games & on this special episode we play The Game Of Lifestyle for a bit of light-hearted fun. You’ll learn a thing or two about how we like to engage in the swinging lifestyle, what turns us on or of...

Episode 114 – From the Bubble Room to E-Commerce Success (Recorded 2020 Interview) In this episode, recorded in 2020, we sit down with a former online entrepreneur and podcast host who built multiple successful e-commerce businesses by embracing sex positivity, creativity, and unconventional marketing approaches. Our guest shares her journey from working in the bubble room of a strip club to launc...

Are you curious how a gangbang in the swinging lifestyle is created? Wanting to gather some tips for arranging a gangbang for your hotwife?  In today's episode we're sharing our 6 tips for arranging a gangbang, we run you through how to discuss the gangbang, setting expectations, vetting and plans for the evening.  Worried about creating a transition to play? We share a story on how D was curating...

Do you believe that your city / country is sex positive? In this bonus episode we debate how sex positive Australia really is and then we finish up with an interview with Jett Black who is responsible for promoting and supporting many sex positive adult entertainers.  We talk about growing up and the impact that sex positive (or lack of) resources have on us, our beliefs on why Australia is or isn...

Have you ever wondered how swinging couples transition from a swingers date to sexy fun in the bedroom? What about when the full swap is exactly how you hoped it will turn out? In today's episode we're sharing some of our recent experience with a slightly awkward transition we had on a swingers date. We will also dig in to some recent sexy full swap with another couple, an MFM threesome date that...

Do you remember the feeling of a clique during high school? Have you encountered a clique at a swinging lifestyle event or party and it left you thinking the party was a flop? Are you curious about how to manage cliques in swinging? In today’s episode we explore the reality of cliques in the swinging lifestyle and breakdown their existence, what responsibilities the party hosts have to break down...

Ever watched an episode of Playboy Swing? Wendy Miller worked at Playboy TV for 7.5 years and produced numerous TV shows. She was the Vice President of Programming & Production and oversaw the well known Swingers TV show Playboy SWING.   We talk with Wendy about her time at Playboy, being sex positive in a corporate world, washing sex toys in an office sink, visiting a sex club in a shipping conta...

Ever wondered how to set up a Chaturbate or OnlyFans profile and begin your cam model journey?    In this episode we share some juicy details on C participating in virtual hotwifing by setting up a Chaturbate and OnlyFans account & going live with virtual porn.   Curious how hard it is to set up a camming profile? Want to know how much cam models earn? We share how the accounts were set up, what w...