Vanilla Swingers: Swinger Podcast, Unfiltered AF

💋 While we rarely Kiss ‘n Tell, it’s time to spill the tea on our wildest swinger chapter yet—our Swingermoon. In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we talk about riding the double helix of alternating threesomes MFM-MFF-MFM-MFF (because balance is key, right?) to speedrunning the Swingermoon, that wild, intoxicating first 2 years honeymoon phase of swinging wh...

🏏 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re diving into all the sh*t we wish we knew before we started swinging. From rookie mistakes to WTF moments, Kat & Leo break down how to navigate the wild world of ethical non-monogamy without losing your mind (or your partner). Plus, Kat has thoughts on why a threesome should never turn into a foursome… foreshadow...

🚋 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re taking you inside Twist SF, San Francisco’s only swinger club and our local home club. From newbie yoga to couples only nights, it's the spot for newbies! Plus we take a super quick sneak peek into Power Exchange, San Francisco’s sleaziest, anything-goes sex club (definitely not for the faint of heart!), where oddly...

🤠 New year, new us? Nah - new year, same freaky us... but turned ALL the way up! In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re kicking off the new year with a wild ride through our favorite dynamic: threesomes. What better way to ring in the new year than with a sizzling double helix of threesomes? That’s right—MFF, MFM, MFF, MFM—back and forth, back and forth—li...

🗼 Oh la la, baby! This is THE ONE—the club that started it all, the aha moment, the night we dipped our toes (and maybe more) into the world of swinging! In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we take you straight to Le Mask, the seductive Paris swinger club where our journey into the lifestyle began. The energy was electric, the mystery intoxicating, and the Fr...

🏌 Ever caught yourself giggling at a foursome joke on the golf course? Does your closet have more theme outfits than regular clothes? If so… you just might be a swinger! 👉 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — join Kat & Leo for a hilarious, no-holds-barred deep dive into the funniest, most outrageous signs you’re in the lifestyle—Jeff Foxworthy style! 👉 F...

✨ New Relationship Energy? It’s one helluva drug and probably why we are all swinging! One hit and you’re obsessed - texting like a lunatic, floating on dopamine, and barely keeping your pants on. But here’s the kicker  what goes up must come down like a rollercoaster! 👉 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — Kat & Leo spill all the sizzling, scandalous, an...

🤦🏻‍♀️ In this episode of Vanilla Swingers, Kat & Leo dive into some of most frustrating (and hilariously relatable) challenges in the lifestyle. 👉 From the fit, fabulous, and insufferably picky—those who seem to treat swinging like an exclusive VIP club, leaving everyone else rolling their eyes... to the notorious 9-to-5 dilemma, where finding a well-matched couple feels like a treasure hun...

🏞️ Ready for some mile-high mischief? In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re diving into one of the sexiest, most luxurious lifestyle clubs in the U.S. - Scarlet Ranch in Denver. 👉 We're dishing about it all - the upscale lodge vibes, sexy crowd, and luxurious playrooms to that giant teepee, flirty Sexy Jenga, and even those voyeur-friendly glass-walled sh...

💖 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — Kat & Leo are celebrating one full year of consistent playtime in the lifestyle, and whew… it’s been a ride. A sexy, hilarious, deeply connected ride. 👉 Sure, the sexy fun is amazing (hello, fantasies coming true!), but swinging is so much more than just steamy nights. From communication that’s next level (no secrets...

🚩 HAPPY NEW YEAR!! It’s the end of our first full year in the lifestyle—2024 is closing out, and we’re already wondering: what will 2025 have in store for us? 👉 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re spilling the tea on red flags that scream, run, don’t walk! From pushy players to couples who act like they’re auditioning for drama club, we’re calling it l...

👨‍👧‍👧 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re giving you the uncensored lowdown on Denver’s steamiest swinger hotel: Mon Chalet. This motel-meets-adult-playground is straight out of a 70s porn set, with mirrors on the walls and ceiling, seductive lighting, a sex swing, a whirlpool built for three, and a love chair made specifically for oral pleasure - per...

🌴 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re diving into Trapeze Fort Lauderdale, hyped as one of the top swinger clubs in the U.S. - is it really worth the buzz (and the price)? 👉 Four visits later, we’ve seen it all: a sixsome, a wife poach, and even a hotwife twist. From the packed dance floor to the grabby single-dude vibe (and let’s not forget the buffet...

⚓ In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — Kat & Leo are wrapping up their Bliss Cruise review trilogy with the ultimate showdown: April vs. November sailings. Which cruise is hotter? Which one’s cheaper? Which crowd vibes harder? We’ve got answers. 👉 We’re calling out all the drama—because let’s be real, keyboard warriors have A LOT to say. From those gasp p...

🚢 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — Kat & Leo are back with Part 2 of our Bliss Cruise review, sharing our Top 10 Pro Tips to make your swinger cruise unforgettable. With 6,600 swingers on board, it’s easy to get overwhelmed - but not on our watch. 👉 From embarkation day hacks to dining options, theme night secrets (yes, you must do them!), and strateg...

🚢 We’re baaaack! In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — Kat & Leo kick off their 3-part Bliss Cruise review series with Part 1: a juicy, unfiltered look at what it’s really like on board a floating swinger city with 6,600 hedonistic humans. Buckle up, because this trip had wild unicorn magic, laugh-till-you-cry moments, and—yep—even a few middle school dance...

🔞 Ever wondered if your partner’s ready to swing, or if their idea of “kinky” is just adding caramel drizzle to dessert? 🥴 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — Kat & Leo take the Mojo Upgrade quiz live and unfiltered to find out just how aligned (or hilariously mismatched) they are in the bedroom. 👉 Whether you're just dipping your toe into non-monogamy...

🛏️ In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — Kat & Leo dish the red-hot recap of our first-ever hotel takeover: Friction in North Carolina! 👉 From dancing in the lobby to 4th-floor orgies until 5:30am, this weekend was straight-up debauched. Unlike clubs, there’s no closing time—and unlike cruises, this one’s a steal. We’re talking non-stop play, room-hopping,...

🦄🌈 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we dive headfirst into the glittery chaos of unicorns, FFM threesomes, and that delicious “are-we-a-throuple-now?” energy.  👉 What started as casual play turned into something deeper—and wilder. We’re talking unicorn sleepovers, a three-night Vegas adventure, and even hosting her in our own home. This episode unpacks h...

🏛️ In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we step inside Swingers 69, Rome’s most seductive, secretive club where Gothic erotica meets Roman debauchery. Think haunted mansion vibes, velvet chairs, Victorian mirrors, and a red-lit glow that makes everyone look like a vampire in heat. 👉 Whether you’re into cozy voyeur nooks or open play areas, Swingers 69 is where...

💊 Get ready, because we're taking you on a wild ride through the world of drugs in the lifestyle! In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — Kat & Leo dive headfirst into the wild world of drugs in the lifestyle. 👉 From the smooth sips of liquid courage (alcohol) to the occasional hit of wacky weed, and even some harder substances, we're laying out exactly what...

👠 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — Kat & Leo take you behind the velvet rope of Les Chandelles, Paris’ most exclusive lifestyle club. 👉 Behind the velvet ropes, we found a breathtaking venue that lives up to its reputation—so much so that it's worth investing in those stiletto heels you've been eyeing. While it's not all supermodels and celebrities, t...

🍰 Get ready for a wild ride, because we're celebrating the Vanilla Swingers' one-year anniversary in the lifestyle, and things are about to get spicy! 👉 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — join Kat & Leo as we recap our first year in the lifestyle - from popping our swinger club cherry at Paris’ infamous Le Mask to hitting up 2 dozen more clubs (oh, and...

🏰 Live from Amsterdam (Hotboxing anyone?!) In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — join Kat & Leo as we spill all the tea on Prague's steamiest swinger spot - Fantasy. 👉 We couldn’t get enough and played for 4 sizzling nights (yes, it’s that good)! From a playroom straight out of Playboy Swing TV to jaw-dropping pizza ovens, we’re dishing on every wild sexca...

👀 Ready to dip your toes into the lifestyle? In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we discuss everything to know about exhibitionism and voyeurism—the gateway drug to swinging, that’ll have you hooked in no time. 👉 Don’t let veteran swingers tell you that you’re not "really" a swinger if that’s all you do. Spoiler alert: It’s exactly how most newbies start! We...