Vanessa’s Lack Thereof

This is episode número dos of me reading the highly scientific book of 1988 titled “The One Hour Orgasm” by 2 Dr. Schwartz (what a lovely marriage to be able to “study” orgasms in real time together; this is real couple goals… assuming, of course, they are still happily married). This is a wild ride for me and the information is astonishing as well as hilarious. Join the fun if you can last throug...

This is an episode of me reading a book verbatim for the first time while inserting my own unique spin as well as real time reactions. Thinking I will continue the episodes like this until I’ve read the thing in its entirety. So if you don’t want to hear about sexual pleasure principles backed up by 1988 science then this shit is most definitely NOT for you 🙅🏽‍♀️🙅🏽‍♂️

I can’t seem to record an episode without it erasing again and it’s been a few days. Here’s a short episode I recorded awhile back about how one can become whatever they want if they are motivated enough. Hope you enjoy and I hope the next episode will be easier for me to record and upload. Til then, have a fabulous evening and I will be back again 👌🏾🧡

A conversation of me revealing some details of my marriage and how it pertains to developing strong family ties. As women we often forget to care about the man’s side (and I mean EVERYTHING: family, friends, opinions, beliefs, ideas, work, etc etc) so I just want to help illuminate things for anyone who is looking or potentially looking to change personal beliefs and attitudes; especially those th...

Me thanking men for being phenomenal, amazing, helpful and protective. Especially older gentlemen — you are for sure my faves ❤️❤️❤️❤️

Firstly, I have only the audacity and not the credentials to title this a history lesson. You just need to know that. Secondly, this is a brutal dose of (potential) reality to all my people of color focusing on racism injustices and whose only way of fixing it is to cry like a titty baby. “Colonizers” as you call them achieved INCREDIBLE FEATS and deserve some ma’ fuckin’ respect on their names!!!...

Me illustrating to women, by using my personal experiences, that men and women can’t actually (& really shouldn’t without FIRM ASS BOUNDARIES) be friends and why hoeing IS NOT A FUCKING RIGHT OF PASSAGE Jesus Fucking Christ

Just another intense speech about considering fairness as it pertains to parenting

Using Sam Hunt’s song and video “Take Your Time” to discuss real life situations like that. Often people only see one side then condemn the other & I just want to put it out there that as humans here in this reality: we are fallible & usually just receiving what we dished out. The good news? This accountability helps us move forward in a more positive, loving way 👩🏽👩🏽‍🦰👩🏽‍🦳. 🪐Update on me...

A conversation about freedom of speech impediments such as ignorant hate speech & why different points of view deserve an accurate evaluation regardless of one’s personal opinions and biases 🤝🏾🤟🏾

Just me encouraging women to stop being inconsistent with their choices and thinking. Can’t shirk all responsibility unless you want to punish or control or be fucked up to dudes and call it fair or autonomy; a.k.a. “My body my choice” bullshit. Tell the full truth and quit misleading young girls into being hoes just because the women in the entertainment industry as well as public eye are “succes...

Do people matter the most or does the color? Are these figures actually “delusional dummy yes” people or are they spitting facts? Are we using our own intellect or are we using a conditioned one we were led to believe was our own? Whether or not you agree with me, Kanye, Candace, & others with similar viewpoints — it’s worth asking the question: exactly how much of this is true & what point, opini...

Future Vanessa this one is for when you are evaluating your emotions and actions of those closest to you

A suggestion… or is this already happening? 🤔🥸

In this episode I get into a passionate flow where I again discuss dumb perspectives, loser victim mentality, ignorance, and how “p.o.c” need to quit fucking crying about every little thing especially words spoken in a certain way. People matter. Not the color. Not the gender. Just people: inside the meat suit, the everlasting soul, and the heart 💜

10/10/2022: Just a beautifully synchronistic day finally obtaining my dad’s favorite alcoholic beverage 🥃

In this conversation I again reiterate how I am better navigating through my own lens than that of another. I trust myself, my intuition, and Team fully & I live mostly deliberately. I am taking charge of my life and refusing to be a chump coward. So obviously that means that small shit will never again break me and the big things will only make me 100 X better. Either way I’m not stressing the sm...

Just an episode of me understanding I may be taken advantage of and that I just choose not to stress over it because I know things are always working out in my favor. Keep talking but know no amount will EVER make me come back (or want to). Never again 🎃

Oh, hey 👋🏾 Spoiler alert 🚨 I am potentially the Racist Bitch 😳🥶. I’m talking about Kanye, Candace, Kaufman & Brown, Black, White, All Lives Matter. Perhaps I am fucked up but at least I am honest & trying my best aaaaaaaand it’s still not always good enough 🤥👹👻👺

“Don’t have sex or you will get pregnant and die” — Coach Carr, Mean Girls. Didn’t have anything to speak on today so I am using a prerecorded message to substitute. It’s about sex and women and making smarter moves

Someone trying to talk down to me and discourage my efforts and life again and I fucking kill it! Not infiltrating me today mo’ fuckas 👽

An episode where I am speaking to you ladies about interacting with one another in more efficient ways.

I spent an hour recording an episode and when I went to publish it obviously I saw it wasn’t there. Pissed, naturally, I searched for an episode I pre-recorded to use. And I’m surprised how accurate this episode illuminates my frustrations and annoyance. Oh well, gotta keep trying and delivering. Hopefully tomorrow will be brighter 🌞

This is yet another conversation where I discuss weight as it pertains to multiple thangs such as: personally, datingsphere, my closest peeps, and overall in western society 🏖🗿👩🏽‍🌾

Just me discussing, with passion, how people of color need to chill with their open disdain for white people. They are not the enemy. I use the Hailey Bieber lip liner example that’s flooding the internet right now. And I’m just soooo over people of color crying and complaining yet doing ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to improve themselves, their culture/ethnicity, etc. There is a better way. Allow me to try...