Vanessa’s Lack Thereof

Future Vanessa, here is another audio for you to hear when you’re down in the dumps. This entire life is bullshit. Do not allow it to control you. Refuse to let it affect you negatively and when in doubt keep building your resistance as well as your character. We live by a code of ethics now and exceptional is the standard. If you can’t take it — quit (you loser!) or make it work, pivot, adapt, an...

Ever wondered what I have to offer as a friend? Take a listen to find out… but honestly, don’t get your hopes up 🫠😬😶‍🌫️

In this episode I discuss the movie “Bad Words” with Jason Bateman and Kathryn Hahn. I talk about how kids should face that bullshit with parent support. And without parents interfering too much or causing dumb emotional scenes because you know you can’t beat your perceived enemy. I also speak on tough love, letting men teach boys about how to be a man and how women need to take more responsibilit...

An episode where I go off talking about how believing in and focusing on race, gender, excuses, etc is just an extension of victim mentality and thus a negative thing for anyone to believe in and focus on 24/7. True freedom comes from taking responsibility for our mind, lives and decisions. Quit acting like a lil bitch and let’s realize the individual’s will power, efforts, and persistence are wha...

A talk about freedom of speech where I defend it yet again and discuss, in detail, why I believe it a necessary tool. Also there are some parts where I am not talking into the speaker and for that I both cringe as well as apologize. But it was too good an episode to redo and not too long or too annoying of interruptions so enjoy

A tender conversation about how, collectively, women are fucking up as mothers

An arguably ignorant conversation about the madness that is woke culture specifically with trannies in the dating men game. As wild as it sounds I re heard this and completely stand by everything I said. If I’m wrong I will figure it out eventually. ‘Til then this talk is not for the weak and may, no, IS (it absolutely is) offensive

A conversation about Halsey’s song “Without Me” as if they were characters in a story (bc technically they are) and how that specifically is 💯 percent her fault. Let’s be more aware because I genuinely think we are not and that it is for lack of knowing and not intention (benefit of the doubt) 🤞🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾

An emotional conversation about how I dealt with death and grief earlier in my life. Though it is really not THAT traumatic I did struggle even as a bubble gum pop tart dweeb so no need for sympathy. Just trying to help myself and anyone else who may learn from my experiences and make better choices than I did. At the very least, I remind myself why we changed our mental and to keep going… also, f...

Me speaking to mothers again about including the father of their kid(s). Asking you women to be as “mature” as you claim you are but to the father. Not everything revolves around you. And just know, if it does revolve around you and only you then when shit hits the fan it is 100 million percent YOUR FAULT ALONE and don’t ask the father for shit ESPECIALLY his money and resources 🙅🏽‍♂️🙅🏽‍♀️

An episode of me being truthful and transparent about my inadequacies and how I still keep moving regardless. Whether I have to trick myself, pump myself up, or just muddle through shit I do whatever I can to keep it pushing. And I hope the same for you 🥊🍷

A conversation about me realizing I’ve been selfish in a negative way and I need to humble myself to reach a more objective perspective and fulfilling life. I still keep failing constantly but at least there are more positives than there used to be. Just gotta keep my head up, heart open and care more.

I was called heavily to speak on this even though I really did not want to. But I realize that even though I may feel inadequate, lonely, lost, etc that I may still be able to say things for others that may help them find that inner warrior they’ve forgotten resides deep inside and that they have allowed themselves and others to convince them does not exist and never did. I am here to remind you t...

Just me reiterating to women how earning money does NOT at all qualify you to move up in rank in the dating world. In fact, too often the opposite is true.

An episode of me realizing women have the best window to find a man during the years 18-25. Again, by societal terms so there’s no need to blame men. Though it may be uncomfortable or obnoxious it is what it is regardless of your and any woman’s feelings or opinions. Do you just have ways to keep yourself grounded, protected, and playing by the right rules so you can adjust in effective ways that...

A candid episode of me admitting harsh truths to myself and how it has been abundantly beneficial to the ones I love the most. I also bring up being a fatty in the dating game to further illustrate that 1. It’s important to be “fit attractive” (by societal terms) especially from a man’s perspective 2. This does NOT make them villains especially when women do the most ABOMINABLE ludicrous offenses...

This one is for you single moms raising sons in a disadvantage way & have no ideal man in your inner circle that could help better prepare him for this life as a man. I know you have the best of intentions and for that I applaud you 👏🏾 Moreover, maybe there are other methods you can consider. Just my opinion and experience. Use your own inner compass and discernment as usual 💜

Just me walking with my best girl and discussing my weird journey again and especially repairing my relationship with my siblings. Gotta step up, not be bitter about it and move forward with unconditional love and grace. Hope y’all have a fantabulous day ☀️

Nope. Vanessa of the corn 🌽 Just an episode of me giving three examples of when the Universe used children to get me to level up and pay attention. Humiliating? Yep 🫥 Entertaining? Sure 🫣

This is a conversation for future me where I discuss my podcast journey. Giving helpful critiques to ensure better organized audios as well as giving kind words of motivation. Keep going future Vanessa. You get better every day 😎👌🏾

Yet another conversation where I am arguing in favor of women, especially young and in their prime, to avoid a hoe phase. Or at the very least save it as a last option; a Hail Mary at older ages instead of in the beginning of life. I use Bridgerton Season 1, Episode 1 to further support my position so if you have not watched I do talk about the episode in detail quoting the show verbatim. So liste...

A conversation about how I hate that crystals & spirituality have become extremely hoe/dumb bitch signs. And especially hate that it’s a huge fad right now. Still, to each her own & I have no problem just doing me regardless of outside perceptions 🫶🏾💋

Just another episode of more evidence to support my recent micro calling where I am HIGHLY encouraging women, especially young and in their prime, to avoid having a hoe phase and ruin any potential for a healthy relationship and family in the future. Also, by avoiding hoe-ing, it gives you an edge on the competition & you have an advantage to get with an “elite, alpha, socialite” male. Who are rar...

Me speaking to women who argue with everything inside them that being a female hoe doesn’t matter, is okay, and has no long-term repercussions. It does. It definitely does. My message now is always “I’ve been a hoe don’t do it! Not worth it! Don’t do it! Don’t doooooo iiiiiiit pleeeeease!!!!” But I sadly did used to be a big ol dumb bitch. So I’m again trying to persuade young women and women in t...

Me ranting about movies with dumbass mom characters. Please do better for your children y’all. I swear I’m rooting for ya just get it together for the love of all that is good 😌