Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators

Perimenopause can start in your mid-30s, yet most of us lack the info we need when symptoms appear. Gabriella Espinosa, a menopause and sexual wellness educator, joins us to explore what’s happening in our bodies during perimenopause and menopause, and how it shows up in our sex lives. We cover early signs, mood shifts, hormone therapy myths, vaginal estrogen, spontaneous vs. responsive desire, st...

Your bedroom isn’t as private as you think. In this episode, sex educator & human sexuality PhD student Jill Lissner joins us to explore why sex is political, from abortion access and crisis pregnancy centers to sex ed funding & who gets to experience pleasure. We cover reproductive health deserts, fertility awareness vs. hormonal birth control, & resources like Plan C & Abortion F...

Your body has been trying to tell you something. In this episode, Susanna Brisk, sexual intuition coach and author, joins us to explore how to tune into your yes, no, and hell yes. We talk about intuition vs. anxiety, ditching performative sex for present sex, and why orgasms should not be the only goal. Plus manifesting your person, fantasies as self-discovery, sex at every age, and why STI testi...

Stressed out and wondering where your sex drive went? You're not broken. You're just stuck in survival mode. In this episode, licensed sex therapist Dr. Holly Wood, PhD, joins us to unpack why stress is the ultimate libido killer and what to actually do about it. We dig into the real difference between spontaneous and responsive desire, why desire discrepancy is the #1 issue she sees in her practi...

Women's health is having a moment! The Cuntsultant, joins us for a rapid-fire tour through the biggest women’s health updates: PCOS gets a name change, birth control myths, why endometriosis takes 10 years to diagnose, and the push for pain management during in-office procedures, ex. UDIs. Plus vaginal estrogen's life-saving role and why women outlive their ovaries. Women weren't studi...

Handjobs get a bad rap, but today we're bringing them back! In this episode, certified sexologist Ashley Manta joins us to explore why hand jobs deserve more respect. We break down her go-to techniques: the Pepper Grinder, the Bottle Rocket, why a baby bottle warmer might be the most underrated tool in your nightstand, and how foreskin changes the game. We also get into what to do when your pa...

Your desire isn't broken; your nervous system is just doing its job too well. In this episode, pelvic floor PT and sex counselor Dr. Rose joins us to break down why trauma, stress, and hypervigilance can quietly tank your libido and what to actually do about it. We cover the "smoke detector" model of nervous system regulation, why desire discrepancy is normal (80% of couples deal wit...

Almost everything you're already doing in bed is a kink. In this episode, Alex Gay, porn star, kink educator, and host of Kink Curious , joins us to break down what kink actually means (spoiler: it's way broader than you think), why almost everyone is "kinky" without realizing it, and how shame keeps so many of us stuck. We get into the difference between a kink and a fetish, con...

Your vagina has its own ecosystem, and no, that yeast on your test doesn't automatically mean infection. In this episode, The Cuntsultant breaks down the vaginal microbiome: why lactobacilli are your best friend, how your gut and hormones secretly run the show, and why "rebalance your pH" is basically meaningless advice. We get into recurrent BV, partner treatment, boric acid (plus t...

Not all lubes are created equal and your vagina deserves better than guesswork. Erica, regulatory affairs expert and cosmetic chemist, joins Jordan to break down everything you never knew about personal lubricant. Osmolarity, pH, hyaluronic acid, parabens, FDA clearance, fertility-safe formulas, silicone vs. water-based vs. hybrid — all of it, no fluff. If you've ever grabbed a lube off the sh...

What if your sex toy belonged on a doctor's shelf? Cynthia, founder of Luxxxe Toys, joins us for a conversation that's equal parts eye-opening and empowering. We dig into why pleasure and sexual wellness aren't just connected; they're inseparable. From the gaps in women's health research to why quality matters for what goes on and in your body, Cynthia keeps it refreshingly real. Plus: AVN, award-...

Is modern dating broken or are we just playing it too safe? Sexologist and soon-to-be sex therapist, Tori, joins us for a refreshingly honest conversation about why dating feels so exhausting right now. We cover the swipe-culture trap, why women keep settling for bare minimum, and the very real problem with using ChatGPT to write your texts. Tori breaks down what a real red flag looks like, why in...

Tia Lynn, aka Sexy Biz Babe, is back, and we're going there . In this episode, Tia joins us to explore the real world of sex parties and play spaces (spoiler: it's not what you think), how confidence in life directly mirrors confidence in the bedroom, the power of knowing your "no" before you need it, and why your intuition is the most underrated safety tool you have. Plus: Skirt...

Pleasure, power, and dating without apology. In this episode, Corithina (Papiiii Chulaaa), sex educator, youth empowerment leader, and self-proclaimed career dom, joins Jordan D’Nelle to explore holistic sex education, pleasure-centered learning, and radical self-ownership. They dive into dating dynamics, communication, kink, and why pleasure, not just prevention, belongs in sex education. Corinth...

Watch or listen on YouTube + all major podcast platforms! What if “good sex” has nothing to do with orgasms? In this episode, Amber, a social behavior research scientist, joins us to explore women’s sexual pleasure and why pleasure has been left out of sexual health conversations. We dive into the science and stigma around STI prevention, the role of communication and self-exploration, and how soc...

Watch or listen on YouTube + all major podcast platforms! Write your hottest fantasies into existence! In this episode, Carly, creator of Aurore, joins Jordan D’Nelle to explore the power of smart, sexy erotica for women. Carly shares why women often crave erotica over visual porn, how it fuels imagination, celebrates real bodies, and helps expand your personal “sex bucket list.”  Together they di...

Discovering Your Pleasure with Hannah, The Libido Fairy Watch or listen on YouTube + all major podcast platforms! Struggling with “What do I want in bed?” or feeling like sex has become routine? In this episode of Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators , host Jordan D’Nelle and Hannah, The Libido Fairy, drop raw, hilarious truth bombs on reigniting desire and boosting libido in long-term relationships. Th...

The Pleasure Evolution with Kim Airs Watch or listen on YouTube + all major podcast platforms! We're back baby!! And we’re kicking things off with an absolute legend: Kim Airs, the trailblazing sex toy pioneer who ditched her Harvard job in 1993 to open one of the first women-friendly sex shops and has been myth-busting, innovating, and celebrating pleasure ever since. In this juicy return epi...

Humans have a deep need for connection, and emotional intimacy fulfills this by allowing us to truly be seen by others. In this episode, Jodie Milton joins us to explore emotional intimacy and its impact on partnered relationships. We discuss practical ways to cultivate intimacy, address common barriers, and discuss the importance of nurturing these connections in friendships. Jodie also shares va...

Jennifer Summers joins us to discuss sexuality, intimacy, and pleasure. We cover topics such as the role of sex toys in relationships, strategies for improving desire and balancing partners' needs,  navigating polyamory and non-monogamy, and the significance of open communication, consent, and honesty.  You can find Jennifer Summers on Instagram and TikTok @theselfmadediva. Enhance your self-aware...

So much becomes possible when you open your mind to new possibilities. Jennifer Kaylo joins us to talk about three-hour sex dates. We explore concepts like erotic blueprints, the emotional impact of long sexual experiences, teaching partners to enhance sexual experiences, and navigating open relationships and throuples.  You can find Jennifer on Instagram @theopenbedroompodcast. Enhance your self-...

Sexuality is fluid, ever-changing, and shaped by our experiences. In this episode, Jordana joins us for an open, honest, and empowering discussion on the nuances of queerness and sexuality. We explore the fluidity of sexual identity and dive into the impacts of internalized homophobia, especially for those navigating their own queerness and breaking free from traditional norms. We highlight the im...

A positive diagnosis can lead to positive outcomes. Cassie Black, aka Safe Slut, joins us for an open conversation about living with herpes, navigating sex work, and embracing sexual empowerment. We discuss Cassie's personal journey with a herpes diagnosis, how it has impacted her sexuality, her work, and the importance of destigmatizing both herpes and sex work.  You can find Cassie Black on...

Explore power, control, and consent through the lens of financial dynamics. Countess Diamond joins us for an in depth discussion on the topic of financial control and financial domination. Countess Diamond, an experienced professional dominatrix and kink expert, shares her journey into this work, the ethical considerations involved, the methods and techniques used, and the importance of financial...

Have more pleasurable sexual interactions! Dr. Alison Ash joins us to discuss topics related to women's sexual empowerment and pleasure with an emphasis on techniques for pleasuring the vulva. You can find Dr. Alison Ash on Instagram @turnon.love. Enhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the...