Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators

Your vagina has its own ecosystem, and no, that yeast on your test doesn't automatically mean infection. In this episode, The Cuntsultant breaks down the vaginal microbiome: why lactobacilli are your best friend, how your gut and hormones secretly run the show, and why "rebalance your pH" is basically meaningless advice. We get into recurrent BV, partner treatment, boric acid (plus t...

Not all lubes are created equal and your vagina deserves better than guesswork. Erica, regulatory affairs expert and cosmetic chemist, joins Jordan to break down everything you never knew about personal lubricant. Osmolarity, pH, hyaluronic acid, parabens, FDA clearance, fertility-safe formulas, silicone vs. water-based vs. hybrid — all of it, no fluff. If you've ever grabbed a lube off the sh...

What if your sex toy belonged on a doctor's shelf? Cynthia, founder of Luxxxe Toys, joins us for a conversation that's equal parts eye-opening and empowering. We dig into why pleasure and sexual wellness aren't just connected; they're inseparable. From the gaps in women's health research to why quality matters for what goes on and in your body, Cynthia keeps it refreshingly real. Plus: AVN, award-...

Is modern dating broken or are we just playing it too safe? Sexologist and soon-to-be sex therapist, Tori, joins us for a refreshingly honest conversation about why dating feels so exhausting right now. We cover the swipe-culture trap, why women keep settling for bare minimum, and the very real problem with using ChatGPT to write your texts. Tori breaks down what a real red flag looks like, why in...

Tia Lynn, aka Sexy Biz Babe, is back, and we're going there . In this episode, Tia joins us to explore the real world of sex parties and play spaces (spoiler: it's not what you think), how confidence in life directly mirrors confidence in the bedroom, the power of knowing your "no" before you need it, and why your intuition is the most underrated safety tool you have. Plus: Skirt...

Pleasure, power, and dating without apology. In this episode, Corithina (Papiiii Chulaaa), sex educator, youth empowerment leader, and self-proclaimed career dom, joins Jordan D’Nelle to explore holistic sex education, pleasure-centered learning, and radical self-ownership. They dive into dating dynamics, communication, kink, and why pleasure, not just prevention, belongs in sex education. Corinth...

Watch or listen on YouTube + all major podcast platforms! What if “good sex” has nothing to do with orgasms? In this episode, Amber, a social behavior research scientist, joins us to explore women’s sexual pleasure and why pleasure has been left out of sexual health conversations. We dive into the science and stigma around STI prevention, the role of communication and self-exploration, and how soc...

Watch or listen on YouTube + all major podcast platforms! Write your hottest fantasies into existence! In this episode, Carly, creator of Aurore, joins Jordan D’Nelle to explore the power of smart, sexy erotica for women. Carly shares why women often crave erotica over visual porn, how it fuels imagination, celebrates real bodies, and helps expand your personal “sex bucket list.”  Together they di...

Discovering Your Pleasure with Hannah, The Libido Fairy Watch or listen on YouTube + all major podcast platforms! Struggling with “What do I want in bed?” or feeling like sex has become routine? In this episode of Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators , host Jordan D’Nelle and Hannah, The Libido Fairy, drop raw, hilarious truth bombs on reigniting desire and boosting libido in long-term relationships. Th...

The Pleasure Evolution with Kim Airs Watch or listen on YouTube + all major podcast platforms! We're back baby!! And we’re kicking things off with an absolute legend: Kim Airs, the trailblazing sex toy pioneer who ditched her Harvard job in 1993 to open one of the first women-friendly sex shops and has been myth-busting, innovating, and celebrating pleasure ever since. In this juicy return epi...

Humans have a deep need for connection, and emotional intimacy fulfills this by allowing us to truly be seen by others. In this episode, Jodie Milton joins us to explore emotional intimacy and its impact on partnered relationships. We discuss practical ways to cultivate intimacy, address common barriers, and discuss the importance of nurturing these connections in friendships. Jodie also shares va...

Jennifer Summers joins us to discuss sexuality, intimacy, and pleasure. We cover topics such as the role of sex toys in relationships, strategies for improving desire and balancing partners' needs,  navigating polyamory and non-monogamy, and the significance of open communication, consent, and honesty.  You can find Jennifer Summers on Instagram and TikTok @theselfmadediva. Enhance your self-aware...

So much becomes possible when you open your mind to new possibilities. Jennifer Kaylo joins us to talk about three-hour sex dates. We explore concepts like erotic blueprints, the emotional impact of long sexual experiences, teaching partners to enhance sexual experiences, and navigating open relationships and throuples.  You can find Jennifer on Instagram @theopenbedroompodcast. Enhance your self-...

Sexuality is fluid, ever-changing, and shaped by our experiences. In this episode, Jordana joins us for an open, honest, and empowering discussion on the nuances of queerness and sexuality. We explore the fluidity of sexual identity and dive into the impacts of internalized homophobia, especially for those navigating their own queerness and breaking free from traditional norms. We highlight the im...

A positive diagnosis can lead to positive outcomes. Cassie Black, aka Safe Slut, joins us for an open conversation about living with herpes, navigating sex work, and embracing sexual empowerment. We discuss Cassie's personal journey with a herpes diagnosis, how it has impacted her sexuality, her work, and the importance of destigmatizing both herpes and sex work.  You can find Cassie Black on...

Explore power, control, and consent through the lens of financial dynamics. Countess Diamond joins us for an in depth discussion on the topic of financial control and financial domination. Countess Diamond, an experienced professional dominatrix and kink expert, shares her journey into this work, the ethical considerations involved, the methods and techniques used, and the importance of financial...

Have more pleasurable sexual interactions! Dr. Alison Ash joins us to discuss topics related to women's sexual empowerment and pleasure with an emphasis on techniques for pleasuring the vulva. You can find Dr. Alison Ash on Instagram @turnon.love. Enhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the...

Addiction, along with obsessive and compulsive behaviors, can extend beyond substances to various habits and patterns. In this podcast episode, Marina joins us to explore the complexities of sex and love addiction. Topics include the psychological and physiological aspects of addiction, its negative impacts such as denial of personal needs and abusive relationships, and the importance of self-awar...

In this podcast episode, Jordan D’Nelle provides a comprehensive overview of the dos and don'ts of anal sex, emphasizing the importance of going slow, using proper lubrication, and how relaxing impacts the experience. She also discusses positions, the risks of infections, and the role of trial and error. Enhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and...

All orgasms are different. All experiences are different. For NatIonal Orgasm Day three former podcast guests join us to share their juiciest orgasms! Alicia, Michelle, and Dr. Alexandra share their personal stories and lessons about orgasms, the power of orgasms, and improving sexual pleasure over time. You can find Alicia Davon on Instagram @DavonMethod. You can find Michelle Renee on Instagram...

All women can Squirt! Aya Kamanaka joins us to share her personal experiences and knowledge about squirting. We discuss the physiology, misconceptions, and tips on how to achieve female ejaculation. You can find Aya on Instagram @ayakamanakai. Enhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the Unleashi...

Women are socialized to prioritize taking care of others over their own pleasure, leading to a disconnection from their body's sensations and needs. Kiana Reeves joins us to talk about the dynamic nature of sexual wellness where she emphasizes the need to move beyond a fixed state of sexuality and instead view it as a lifelong journey of discovery and integration.  You can find Kiana on Instag...

For the first time ever, the FDA has approved an over the counter birth control pill. Jordan D’Nelle discusses the specifics of this groundbreaking progesterone-only birth control method, discussing its benefits, usage, and implications for accessible reproductive health. You can find Jordan D’Nelle on Instagram @jordandnelle. Enhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your beh...

Feel empowered through education, self-care, and embracing your innate sensuality and capacity for pleasure. Emily joins us to share her personal journey of healing from trauma and rediscovering her body and sexuality through holistic practices. We talk about female genital anatomy, self-pleasure, orgasm, dopamine cycles, and nurturing intimacy and pleasure in relationships.  You can find Emily on...

Six sexual health educators and coaches join us to share their best masturbation tips and techniques with an overall common focus on self-pleasure, self-seduction, mindfulness during masturbation, and reducing any negative feelings through reflection and pleasure-focused exploration. You can find Dana on Instagram @thepartition_life. You can find Tatum on Instagram @girlstoptalkingpodcast. You can...