Upbringing

Are you motivated to master the mindset + learn shame-free, consent-based tools to overcome challenges with your sensitive + strong-willed kid?✨You’re not alone! Visit our shop and choose the support that works right now for your family! ✨ Downloadable PDF Guides for calm bodies, big feelings and sibling conflict ✨ Two-on-one coaching sessions to build a connective family plan for the holiday m...

Are you motivated to master the mindset + learn shame-free, consent-based tools to overcome challenges with your sensitive + strong-willed kid?✨You’re not alone! Visit our shop and choose the support that works right now for your family! ✨ Downloadable PDF Guides for calm bodies, big feelings and sibling conflict ✨ Two-on-one coaching sessions to build a connective family plan for the holiday m...

Are you motivated to master the mindset + learn shame-free, consent-based tools to overcome challenges with your sensitive + strong-willed kid?✨You’re not alone! Visit our shop and choose the support that works right now for your family! ✨ Downloadable PDF Guides for calm bodies, big feelings and sibling conflict ✨ Two-on-one coaching sessions to build a connective family plan for the holiday m...

Visit our website to download your free guide: 3 Ways To Help Sublings Adjust To Baby Our Right From The Start online course is back! Our Right From The Start video course and community will bring you both the reassurance AND information you need in your baby’s first year to make the decisions that are uniquely right for your family. ✨ No prescribed rules, no perfection to attain… Just the essent...

Are you motivated to master the mindset + learn shame-free, consent-based tools to overcome challenges with your sensitive + strong-willed kid?✨You’re not alone! Visit our shop and choose the support that works right now for your family! ✨ Downloadable PDF Guides for calm bodies, big feelings and sibling conflict ✨ Two-on-one coaching sessions to build a connective family plan for the holiday m...

Are you motivated to master the mindset + learn shame-free, consent-based tools to overcome challenges with your sensitive + strong-willed kid?✨You’re not alone! Visit our shop and choose the support that works right now for your family! ✨ Downloadable PDF Guides for calm bodies, big feelings and sibling conflict ✨ Two-on-one coaching sessions to build a connective family plan for the holiday m...

Are you motivated to master the mindset + learn shame-free, consent-based tools to overcome challenges with your sensitive + strong-willed kid?✨You’re not alone! Visit our shop and choose the support that works right now for your family! ✨ Downloadable PDF Guides for calm bodies, big feelings and sibling conflict ✨ Two-on-one coaching sessions to build a connective family plan for the holiday m...

When mistakes are judged, shamed and connected to child’s worth + belonging (conditional teaching): ✔️Kids learn to feel shame when they naturally struggle ✔️Kids learn that conflict is binary: good/bad, right/wrong ✔️Kids hold in their feelings + needs out of fear of shame ✔️Kids are more likely to lie, blame, + defend to feel safe When mistakes neutrally explored and NOT connected to child’s wor...

We're all stressed! Tune in to learn the 3 tools we use for stress de-escalation in the moment and rhe 4 ways we examine stressful situations or conflict to reduce disconnect and meet needs between us and our kids -- to feel. better and do better all around! Are you motivated to master the mindset + learn shame-free, consent-based tools to overcome challenges with your sensitive, strong-willed and...

We loved connecting with friend and colleague, author and speaker Jen Lumanlan of Your Parenting Mojo about her new book, Parenting Beyond Power! ✨ Tune in to learn more about ways to use connection and collaboration to transform your family — and the world!  Visit Jen's website for ways to purchase her book and check below, Oregon folx, for information on her book tour as it passes through at th...

Tune in to hear the 4 magical ways we can work WITH our kids to help them get homework, chores, hygiene, manners, safety, dressing, toileting and bedtime achieved WITHOUT coercion -- independently, completely, consistently and WITH JOY. Are you motivated to master the mindset + learn shame-free, consent-based tools to overcome challenges with your sensitive + strong-willed kid?✨You’re not alone!...

Are you motivated to master the mindset + learn shame-free, consent-based tools to overcome challenges with your sensitive + strong-willed kid?✨You’re not alone! Visit our shop and choose the support that works right now for your family! ✨ Downloadable PDF Guides for calm bodies, big feelings and sibling conflict ✨ Poster prints for your home and playrooms ✨ Two-on-one coaching sessions to bui...

Are you motivated to master the mindset + learn the tools to overcome challenges with your sensitive + strong-willed kid? ✨ You’re not alone! This week only : enroll in The Upbringing Collective, our coaching + community membership– AND get a FREE 60 min coaching call with us when you enroll for the year! 🎉 The membership includes: ✔️ An inclusive, secure online forum to connect with like-minded...

Are you motivated to master the mindset + learn shame-free, consent-based tools to overcome challenges with your sensitive + strong-willed kid?✨You’re not alone! Visit our shop and choose the support that works right now for your family! ✨ Downloadable PDF Guides for calm bodies, big feelings and sibling conflict ✨ Poster prints for your home and playrooms ✨ Two-on-one coaching sessions to bui...

Are you motivated to master the mindset + learn shame-free, consent-based tools to overcome challenges with your sensitive + strong-willed kid?✨You’re not alone! Visit our shop and choose the support that works right now for your family! ✨ Downloadable PDF Guides for calm bodies, big feelings and sibling conflict ✨ Poster prints for your home and playrooms ✨ Two-on-one coaching sessions to bui...

Are you motivated to master the mindset + learn shame-free, consent-based tools to overcome challenges with your sensitive + strong-willed kid?✨You’re not alone! Visit our shop and choose the support that works right now for your family! ✨ Downloadable PDF Guides for calm bodies, big feelings and sibling conflict ✨ Poster prints for your home and playrooms ✨ Two-on-one coaching sessions to bui...

Are you motivated to master the mindset + learn shame-free, consent-based tools to overcome challenges with your sensitive + strong-willed kid?✨You’re not alone! Visit our shop and choose the support that works right now for your family! ✨ Downloadable PDF Guides for calm bodies, big feelings and sibling conflict ✨ Poster prints for your home and playrooms ✨ Two-on-one coaching sessions to bui...

Are you motivated to master the mindset + learn shame-free, consent-based tools to overcome challenges with your sensitive + strong-willed kid?✨You’re not alone! Visit our SHOP and choose the support that works right now for your family! ✨ Downloadable pdf guides for calm bodies, big feelings and sibling conflict ✨ Poster prints for your home and playrooms ✨ Two-on-one coaching sessions to bui...

Are you parenting a sensitive + strong-willed kid that challenges your beliefs, stamina and sanity beyond measure? ✨You’re not alone! The Upbringing Collective – our new coaching + community membership– is NOW OPEN for enrollment! 🎉 It includes: ✔️ An inclusive, secure online forum to connect with like-minded caregivers across the globe ✔️ Weekly group coaching sessions with us (H+K) for support...

Every feel flooded? Triggered? Too emotionally hijacked to respond calmly to yourkids' big feelings and challenging behaviors? Join our conversation with Jen Lumanlan of Your Parenting Mojo to talk about ways to calm our minds and bodies so we don't keep losing our shit on our kids! Jen explores ways we can stop cycles of trauma and begin healing through our parenting practices. Her Taming Your Tr...

Are you parenting a sensitive + strong-willed kid that challenges your beliefs, stamina and sanity beyond measure? ✨ You’re not alone! We loved connecting with Amy of @grow.up.ig about her experience parenting a “lightning bolt kid” and her evolution through small group coaching with us! The Upbringing Collective – our new coaching + community membership– is NOW OPEN for enrollment! 🎉 It include...

Curious about how to align your progressive values with your daily parenting practices? The Upbringing Collective Coaching Community is open for enrollment -- Sept. 19th - Sept 25th! Together, we’ll:   ✔️Reframe our kids + our role based on the current research ✔️Learn shame-free, consent-based tools to reduce conflict ✔️Share challenges + wins in community with like-minded folks  ✔️Find confidenc...

Should we believe that using consequences, threats, shame, isolation etc. is the best way to teach + prepare kids for adulthood? NO!  Today’s Q&A explores how we can bravely work to believe that our kids grow best from our CONNECTION, not our CONTROL. Though our instinct tells us to fix, stop or punish their big feelings + challenging behaviors, practicing powers beyond control with our kids c...

Should we believe that our primary job is to explicitly teach our kids how to behave politely in the world? NO! We can bravely work to believe that our primary job is to ally with our kids through challenges. Why? How? Tune in and download our new free download on the site ! Where do you struggle when it comes to this radical concept? If you’re looking for more research-informed reframes and mantr...

Should we believe that kids’ big feelings + challenging behaviors are negative, unnecessary or worrisome signs about them or us? NO!  We can bravely work to see our kids’ resistance as VALUABLE. Viewing our kids’ big feelings + challenging behaviors as natural + a helpful way to understand their needs can allow everyone to know, feel + do better. Let kids resist!  Where do you struggle when it com...