Unsolicited Advice with Ashley and Taryne

Navigating adult friendships can be tricky. As you move into different stages of life, priorities change, seasons shift, and your dynamic will change too. Marriage, babies, and distance can all have a huge impact on the friendship you once shared as teens. But learning to define your boundaries and your level of friendship is all part of it. So… can babies really ruin a friendship? Thanks to our S...

School, work, and a social life, juggling it all can feel overwhelming. In today’s episode, our writer is on the brink of burnout. With a new academic program on the horizon and a full-time job already on her plate, she’s asking the tough questions: When is it time to take a break, and what exactly should she take a break from? We’re offering practical first steps for recognizing burnout, setting...

Happy Monday everyone! Today’s episode is full of best friend problems and a toxic situationship. Let’s face it, ghosting is awful, and even more confusing when it’s your bestie. There’s a lot left unsaid, and it leaves you questioning: what happened? Is it me? Is it them? How do I bridge the gap? We’re sharing our perspective on knowing when enough is enough—and how to figure out if the friendshi...

Diet Culture Is Out! Our lovely writer and her partner are struggling to navigate her future mother-in-law’s constant comments about diets, weight, and other people’s bodies. It’s toxic—and it’s too much. We’re diving into how to set respectful boundaries, preserve family harmony, and gently (but firmly) let her know: this isn’t okay. Thanks to our Sponsors: Start your free online visit today at h...

A sudden breakup after four years and a boyfriend caught in a web of lies! In our first story, our writer is left reeling after her partner suddenly breaks up with her... they had just moved in together. “Blindsided” doesn’t even begin to cover it. In our second story, our writer learns that her boyfriend faces disciplinary action at work for lying — but the lies don’t stop there. She’s left quest...

We've all been there—having a crush on someone in your friend circle. It's exciting, it's scary, and you never know what's coming next. In today's episode, our writer had a chance to take things to the next level with a close friend but panicked and hit him with the “just friends” line. Now, feelings have shifted, and she wants to know: can you un-friend zone someone after you've put them there? W...

Happy Monday, everyone! On this week’s episode of UA, we’re diving into two big topics: craving male validation even while in a relationship, and how to navigate tough conversations with strict parents—especially when they don’t agree with your decision to live with a partner. We’re discussing how to approach the conversation, set boundaries, and stand firm in your choices as an adult. Follow the...

Wedding drama, stalkers, and an accidental kiss?! This episode is full of unexpected twists as one listener shares her story of breaking up with her ex three years ago—only to have him continue stalking her to this day. Even though she's now in a loving and supportive relationship, the fear hasn’t stopped. We dive into what to do if you’re in a similar situation, including how to document incident...

Happy Monday, UA Fam! Today, we thought it’d be fun to build a Lego Set while we answer your questions—and help out our writer, who feels like her boyfriend is choosing work over their relationship. Let’s talk it out, piece by piece. Follow the Podcast on Insta: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/UnsolicitedAdviceInsta⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow the Podcast on TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/UnsolicitedAdviceTikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Ashley:...

What do you do when you catch feelings for your best friend… who also happens to be your roommate? In this episode, we dive into the messiness of navigating a friendship that's starting to shift, the overthinking that comes with new feelings, and the fear of ruining a good thing. Should she confess her love or wait until the lease is up—just in case the feelings aren't mutual?  Follow the Podcast...

We went to Vegas, baby! Despite a few bumps in the road, unexpected illness, and a slight plane mix-up, we powered through and made unforgettable memories. Huge shout-out to Remi for planning and pulling off the ultimate Vegas bachelorette trip. It was a weekend to remember for sure! Thanks to our Sponsors: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at https://betterhelp.co...

Today's episode is all about love first loves, forever loves, and what happens when you're trying to make someone fall for you. If you met your first love early on, is it okay for that to be your one and only, your forever? In our other story, our girl is crushing hard on her flatmate. The problem? She can barely talk to him. We’re giving her some practical, flirty convo tips to help her break the...

Hey UA Fam! If you’ve been following the podcast for a while, then you probably guessed from the title, that today’s episode is a sweet one. We're sharing all the details of Ash’s proposal, from the weeks and days leading up to how everything came together for the big moment. Thank you for being with us through all of life’s milestones! Follow the Podcast on Insta: ⁠https://bit.ly/UnsolicitedAdvic...

How do you move on after betrayal? What do you say when you know something’s off—but they keep gaslighting you? In today’s episode, we’re diving into cheater's and emotional cheating: the signs, the gut feelings, and what to do when you’re ready to confront a partner who may be crossing lines. Whether you’re stuck in the “Is this cheating?” spiral or preparing for that conversation, we’ve got you....

The highs, the lows, and the HEAT—yep, you guessed it, it’s our Coachella recap! From epic music to sore feet, sweaty outfit regrets, and one very dramatic sandwich situation (looking at you, Taryne), we’re spilling everything. It was chaotic, magical, a little dusty—and probably the best weekend of our lives. Let’s break it all down. Thanks to our Sponsors: The juggle is real. Don’t just respond...

Today's episode is extra special because we're diving deep into some of our juiciest stories with major updates! If you'd like to catch up before we begin, we've listed the previous stories below—don’t worry, no spoilers! PREVIOUS EPISODES: I Am Definitely the Villain in the Story https://bit.ly/3RBjTNW A Girls Is Sending Inappropriate Photos to My BF! https://bit.ly/3DSXDfz My BF Called Me Ugly,...

Happy Monday, UA Fam! This week’s episode explores the emotional rollercoaster of betrayal after a breakup and the journey of learning how to trust again. In our second story, we dive into the tricky situation when your boyfriend’s best friend of 15 years tries to make a move on you. Oh, and did we mention they all live together? Navigating the tension in the house and having those tough, honest c...

Fair warning—today’s stories are heavy. In one, our writer opens up about the struggle of dealing with a parent’s addiction and the difficult question: How do you help someone who doesn’t want help? In the other, our girl is juggling a lot, but things take an unexpected turn when her husband makes a major decision without consulting her. What do you do when you feel completely left out of the conv...

Hi, I'm the Problem, It's Me... In today’s episode, we have a first: our girl admits she is the problem! Navigating a friendship with someone who's confessed their feelings can be tough—especially when you’ve led them on and then moved on to a new man. In another story, our writer has been dreaming about an ex for two years... but here’s the catch: she’s engaged. Thanks to our Sponsors: New player...

Happy Monday, UA Fam!! Today, we're going back to the basics with some juicy stories and relationship drama. In our first story, our girl is navigating a FWB situation that’s starting to spark some real feelings... but her guy isn’t on the same page. Then, we dive into setting boundaries around texting – what’s okay and what’s not, like when another girl is sending inappropriate photos to your par...

This week’s stories are a mess, and we’re here for it! In our first story, we dive into a flirty workplace romance, at least, that’s what she thought until she discovered he had a girlfriend the whole time! In our second story, our writer confesses to hooking up with her best friend's ex. But now that feelings have developed, how does she come clean without risking their friendship? If you'd like...

In today's episode, we dive into the tough reality of being in a relationship with someone who resorts to name-calling and psychological manipulation. To our sweet writer, you deserve so much more than this. With some tough love and big sis advice, we're talking about how to move forward with strength and self-love. If you'd like to support or contribute in any way, we've included some helpful res...

Ghosting, crushes, and bestie drama – we’re back and it’s messier than ever, fam! In today’s episode, we’ve got some messy stories. In one story, our girl’s bestie/roommate hooked up with her crush... so how do they move past this? How do they navigate their friendship, let alone live together? And in another story, one of our listeners’ boyfriends ghosted her during the holidays... oh, and they a...

Happy Monday, UA Fam! In today’s episode, we’re diving into the juicy details of the Bachelor breakup everyone is talking about! We’re unpacking what went down, how it played out in the public eye, and why it’s important not to let a messy breakup set unhealthy patterns in your own relationships. Cozy up, because we’re serving up some real talk on love, growth, and keeping things positive! Please...

Happy Valentine's week, cuties! This year, we decided to read your heartwarming and positive meet-cute stories. We love love and want to share that joy with all of you. Wishing you a day full of love and happiness! Please consider donating to those affected by the Los Angeles Fires: https://supportlafd.kindful.com/ https://give.pasadenahumane.org/give/654134/#!/donation/checkout Thanks to our Spon...