Unsolicited Advice with Ashley and Taryne

Money is a huge part of any relationship, and this week we’re unpacking a dilemma: what happens when you’re making significantly more money than your boyfriend? Our writer’s boyfriend is loving, supportive, and patient, but she can’t stop wondering whether their financial gap is simply a temporary imbalance or a sign of a deeper lack of motivation. We’re talking through the stress and uncertainty...

This week, our writer is reconnecting with her dad after 12 years apart. She’s worried he won’t want to see her, or that the reunion won’t go the way she’s dreamed about for years. We’re diving into fear of rejection, complicated parent relationships, protecting your peace, and how to manage expectations while still leaving room for hope. Thanks to our Sponsors: Right now you can get $28 off your...

Happy Monday, UA Fam! Today’s episode is full of relationship drama. In our first story, our girl hooked up with her friend’s brother… unfortunately, there may be no salvaging both relationships. In another, our writer was hoping to be couple friends with her bestie’s boyfriend, but the boys aren’t vibing. Is there anything more she can do to help the friendship?? Thanks to our Sponsors: This epis...

On today’s episode, we’re diving into sibling relationships. Our writer is worried her boyfriend has a closer, more in-tune bond with his sister than he does with her. She’s feeling left out and unsure how to bring it up… or is she just overthinking everything? Thanks to our Sponsors: Download Hily Dating App from the App Store or Google Play, or visit ⁠⁠https://hily.go.link/yDhNz⁠⁠ Follow the Pod...

This week, we’re unpacking the messy question of how you know you’re actually ready to start dating again. From confusing emotions to slipping into old patterns, we get real about the difference between healing and just not wanting to be alone—and why “being ready” isn’t always as clear-cut as it sounds. We’re bringing the raw, honest, messy truth about dating. Thanks to our Sponsors: Right now yo...

Therapy, crushes, and a mistaken phone call, it wouldn’t be Monday without a little drama. This week, we’re talking about what happens when a gym crush starts feeling a little too real. In our story today, our writer is catching serious feelings for her trainer, and it might not be one-sided, so we’re breaking down whether shooting your shot is worth it, how to read the signs, and the balance betw...

Happy Monday, everyone! Today’s episode is all about breakups, moving on, and learning to love yourself again. In our story, our writer is grappling with a painful breakup. After her cheating boyfriend gets with her friend, how is she supposed to move on? Healing is hard, but we’re here to guide you through it. Jay Shetty Episode: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5PyGTQpM88cFuuHVgzyP1H?si=4ecdfedb...

On today’s episode, we’re joined by special guest Drea Okeke (@drea_knowsbest)! She went from engineer to Forbes Top Creator and 30 Under 30. Internet funny woman and all-around creative force, she’s here to dish out some juicy advice and share her story! For Drea @drea_knowsbest Sabi Slangs Card Game: https://sabislangs.com/ Thanks to our Sponsors: Visit www.functionhealth.com/ADVICE and use gift...

Wedding planning, friendship drama, and workplace respect. Today, our writer is thrilled to be a bridesmaid in her best friend’s wedding…until she finds out her boyfriend didn’t make the guest list. Is she right to feel hurt, or is this just part of the reality that weddings are expensive and personal? Plus, we dive into a workplace dilemma: how do you gain respect from employees who don’t take yo...

Today on Unsolicited Advice, we’re diving straight into some mama drama. Our writer is newly engaged and excitedly planning a 2027 wedding; however, her mother-in-law-to-be has some highly critical (and downright rude) commentary about her choices. How do you have a respectful conversation with your fiancé and future mother-in-law so everyone can move forward productively? Thanks to our Sponsors:...

Hi everyone! On today’s episode, we’re talking about proposals… and secrets. What do you do when your bestie’sboyfriend tells you exactly how and when he’s going to propose and now she won’t stop interrogating you for details? How do you set a healthy boundary without hurting her feelings… or ruining the surprise?  Plus, we have an UPDATE about our writer’s much older, very handsome boss. And let’...

Happy Monday!! On today’s episode of Unsolicited Advice, we’re diving into body positivity and what it really means to build healthy habits that feel good and sustainable. We’re unpacking how to start unlearning diet culture, shifting your mindset around wellness, and having honest conversations about growth. Plus, how do you know when it’s time to let go of a friendship? Thanks to our Sponsors: S...

Heartbreak, DMs, and cheating… today’s episode is packed with drama and distrust. One “hey girlie” message blows up a relationship, and in another story, a boyfriend gets caught texting another girl, but is it really innocent? We’re diving into boundaries, trust, and what to do when your heart is breaking. Thanks to our Sponsors: Feel like your best self again, Visit https://forhers.com/ADVICE Get...

Happy Monday, UA Fam!! On today’s episode, we’re unpacking how to set boundaries with family, including navigating a toxic sister and figuring out how to move forward when she’s not willing to change or put in the effort. Plus, we dive into an almost decade-long secret. Should our writer finally confess, or are some things better left unsaid? Thanks to our Sponsors: Unlock your 80% off at https://...

Happy Monday, everyone! Today we’re breaking down a bride’s toxic relationship with her mom, and her mom’s very strong opinions about her daughter’s wedding day… yikes. We’re talking about setting boundaries gently but firmly during wedding planning. In our other story, a writer shares how she’s found comfort and safety at work with her boss, leading to an unexpected attachment. We’re navigating h...

Overthinking, anxiety, and the question of where you fit in: our writer today is feeling all the feels. On this episode of UA, we’re talking about fitting in, doing more, doing less, and the pressure to have it all figured out. Take a breath and remember everyone is figuring it out, just like you. We’re bringing big sister energy, and reassurance that it will all work out, don’t worry, you’ve got...

Mama drama, emotional boundaries, and hard conversations. Today’s episode gets a little heavy as we talk about how to deal with your mom’s emotional baggage and how to have honest, productive conversations without losing your mind (or your peace). If you’ve ever felt like the emotional parent in the relationship, this one’s for you. Thanks to our Sponsors: Shop SKIMS Fits Everybody collection at h...

Today’s episode is juicy.  In our first story, a listener loves her best friend but can’t stand her fiancé, so how does she bring up her concerns without damaging the friendship? Then, wedding bliss takes a turn when another writer finds out she and her ex-best friend are bridesmaids in the same wedding. From pre-wedding events to the big day itself, how does she keep the peace and protect her san...

Happy Monday, everyone! On today’s episode, our writer is facing a big question: should she move in with her bestie? Living with a friend is never a decision to make lightly and lucky for her, she asked two girls who’ve been there, done that, and are still friends to this day. We’re sharing what worked, what didn’t, and everything you should consider before signing that lease. Thanks to our Sponso...

On today’s episode, we’re talking about Ash's wedding details, the dress, makeup, and photography! In our writer's story, we’re unpacking the complicated relationship between sisters, especially when big life changes are involved. From resentment over moving away to jealousy that quietly turns into tension, we talk through why sibling relationships can feel so intense and how to speak up and set h...

Happy New Year, everyone! We can’t believe 2026 is almost here! It’s a new year with new goals. We’re recapping what actually happened this year: the wins we’re proud of, the moments that surprised us, and the lessons we didn’t see coming. For 2026, we’re setting realistic goals that actually stick and talking about how to approach the new year with clarity instead of chaos. Thanks to our Sponsors...

Happy almost holidays, UA! We are so grateful for each and every one of you 🤍. On today’s episode, we’re talking about what to do when a friendship starts to feel emotionally draining. You love her, you support her—but at what point do you need to protect your own energy? We unpack how to set healthy boundaries without guilt, resentment, or hurting someone you care about. Mel Robbins Podacast: ht...

Today's episode is a juicy one! What do you do if you meet someone new and exciting, but suddenly you might be the other girl… or you’re just not sure? We’re helping our girl sort the red flags, break down the signs and confusion, and get real about what happens when instincts and words don’t match. Thanks to our Sponsors: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at ⁠⁠htt...

Happy Monday, UA Fam! We’ve got a very sticky situation this week. Our girl is falling for her best friend. Does she risk the friendship for a shot at love… or keep her feelings under wraps and hope for the best? Follow the Podcast on Insta: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/UnsolicitedAdviceInsta⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow the Podcast on TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/UnsolicitedAdviceTikTok⁠...

The holidays tend to bring out the best and the most challenging parts of family dynamics. In today's episode, we're talking about how to stop people pleasing during the holidays, especially when you're splitting time between families, navigating tough conversations, and dealing with relatives who forget their filters. Follow the Podcast on Insta: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/UnsolicitedAdviceIn...