Unsolicited Advice with Ashley and Taryne

We're diving into a messy friendship dilemma. Our writer says her best friend's boyfriend has been flirting with her and making unwanted advances, leaving her caught between protecting her friendship and telling the truth. Should she tell her best friend what's happening, or stay quiet to avoid causing even more drama? Thanks to our Sponsors: This episode is sponsored by Better Help, Visit https:/...

The wedding recap you've all been waiting for is HERE!! 💍✨ Ash is officially married, and we're spilling everything with special guest Alisha! From the welcome party and getting ready to the ceremony and reception, we're sharing all the unforgettable moments, the highs, the hiccups, the happy tears, the surprises, and so much love and joy. Thank you for all the love and support you've shown us o...

Happy Monday everyone! Today's episode is all about boundaries, communication, and navigating difficult conversations before saying "I do." In our first story, our writer is struggling with a wedding guest dilemma after her fiancé expressed interest in inviting a longtime friend—the same person who bullied her throughout high school. The problem? She doesn't think she's ever fully told her fiancé...

Today's episode is all about friendships, heartbreak, and knowing when it's time to let go. In one story, a listener is struggling with the painful realization that she and her best friend may have outgrown each other and she's wondering if it's time to end the friendship for good. In another, a listener develops feelings for her longtime guy friend just as he enters a new relationship. Now she's...

The breakdown you’ve all been waiting for is finally here! We're recapping every detail from Ash's bachelorette weekend. From the murder mystery and Pilates class to the amazing food, unforgettable moments, funny stories, and all the behind-the-scenes chaos in between. Grab a drink, get comfy, and join us for all the tea! Thanks to our Sponsors: Download Hily Dating App from the App Store or Googl...

Happy Monday, everyone we missed you! Today’s episode is all about boundaries, letting go, and learning how to move forward in healthy ways. In our first story, our listener struggles to set boundaries with her mother-in-law surrounding the birth of her new baby and the pressure of unwanted visitors. In our second story, our girl opens up about pouring years into a relationship that left her feeli...

This week on UA, we’re getting into a pretty heavy topic: is being drunk actually an excuse for cheating? Our writer is navigating how to forgive, move forward, and deal with the damage that’s already been done by her boyfriend. We share our honest opinions and unpack the complicated line between accountability, regret, and betrayal. Thanks to our Sponsors: Get 10% off your first order, sitewide,...

Money is a huge part of any relationship, and this week we’re unpacking a dilemma: what happens when you’re making significantly more money than your boyfriend? Our writer’s boyfriend is loving, supportive, and patient, but she can’t stop wondering whether their financial gap is simply a temporary imbalance or a sign of a deeper lack of motivation. We’re talking through the stress and uncertainty...

This week, our writer is reconnecting with her dad after 12 years apart. She’s worried he won’t want to see her, or that the reunion won’t go the way she’s dreamed about for years. We’re diving into fear of rejection, complicated parent relationships, protecting your peace, and how to manage expectations while still leaving room for hope. Thanks to our Sponsors: Right now you can get $28 off your...

Happy Monday, UA Fam! Today’s episode is full of relationship drama. In our first story, our girl hooked up with her friend’s brother… unfortunately, there may be no salvaging both relationships. In another, our writer was hoping to be couple friends with her bestie’s boyfriend, but the boys aren’t vibing. Is there anything more she can do to help the friendship?? Thanks to our Sponsors: This epis...

On today’s episode, we’re diving into sibling relationships. Our writer is worried her boyfriend has a closer, more in-tune bond with his sister than he does with her. She’s feeling left out and unsure how to bring it up… or is she just overthinking everything? Thanks to our Sponsors: Download Hily Dating App from the App Store or Google Play, or visit ⁠⁠https://hily.go.link/yDhNz⁠⁠ Follow the Pod...

This week, we’re unpacking the messy question of how you know you’re actually ready to start dating again. From confusing emotions to slipping into old patterns, we get real about the difference between healing and just not wanting to be alone—and why “being ready” isn’t always as clear-cut as it sounds. We’re bringing the raw, honest, messy truth about dating. Thanks to our Sponsors: Right now yo...

Therapy, crushes, and a mistaken phone call, it wouldn’t be Monday without a little drama. This week, we’re talking about what happens when a gym crush starts feeling a little too real. In our story today, our writer is catching serious feelings for her trainer, and it might not be one-sided, so we’re breaking down whether shooting your shot is worth it, how to read the signs, and the balance betw...

Happy Monday, everyone! Today’s episode is all about breakups, moving on, and learning to love yourself again. In our story, our writer is grappling with a painful breakup. After her cheating boyfriend gets with her friend, how is she supposed to move on? Healing is hard, but we’re here to guide you through it. Jay Shetty Episode: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5PyGTQpM88cFuuHVgzyP1H?si=4ecdfedb...

On today’s episode, we’re joined by special guest Drea Okeke (@drea_knowsbest)! She went from engineer to Forbes Top Creator and 30 Under 30. Internet funny woman and all-around creative force, she’s here to dish out some juicy advice and share her story! For Drea @drea_knowsbest Sabi Slangs Card Game: https://sabislangs.com/ Thanks to our Sponsors: Visit www.functionhealth.com/ADVICE and use gift...

Wedding planning, friendship drama, and workplace respect. Today, our writer is thrilled to be a bridesmaid in her best friend’s wedding…until she finds out her boyfriend didn’t make the guest list. Is she right to feel hurt, or is this just part of the reality that weddings are expensive and personal? Plus, we dive into a workplace dilemma: how do you gain respect from employees who don’t take yo...

Today on Unsolicited Advice, we’re diving straight into some mama drama. Our writer is newly engaged and excitedly planning a 2027 wedding; however, her mother-in-law-to-be has some highly critical (and downright rude) commentary about her choices. How do you have a respectful conversation with your fiancé and future mother-in-law so everyone can move forward productively? Thanks to our Sponsors:...

Hi everyone! On today’s episode, we’re talking about proposals… and secrets. What do you do when your bestie’sboyfriend tells you exactly how and when he’s going to propose and now she won’t stop interrogating you for details? How do you set a healthy boundary without hurting her feelings… or ruining the surprise?  Plus, we have an UPDATE about our writer’s much older, very handsome boss. And let’...

Happy Monday!! On today’s episode of Unsolicited Advice, we’re diving into body positivity and what it really means to build healthy habits that feel good and sustainable. We’re unpacking how to start unlearning diet culture, shifting your mindset around wellness, and having honest conversations about growth. Plus, how do you know when it’s time to let go of a friendship? Thanks to our Sponsors: S...

Heartbreak, DMs, and cheating… today’s episode is packed with drama and distrust. One “hey girlie” message blows up a relationship, and in another story, a boyfriend gets caught texting another girl, but is it really innocent? We’re diving into boundaries, trust, and what to do when your heart is breaking. Thanks to our Sponsors: Feel like your best self again, Visit https://forhers.com/ADVICE Get...

Happy Monday, UA Fam!! On today’s episode, we’re unpacking how to set boundaries with family, including navigating a toxic sister and figuring out how to move forward when she’s not willing to change or put in the effort. Plus, we dive into an almost decade-long secret. Should our writer finally confess, or are some things better left unsaid? Thanks to our Sponsors: Unlock your 80% off at https://...

Happy Monday, everyone! Today we’re breaking down a bride’s toxic relationship with her mom, and her mom’s very strong opinions about her daughter’s wedding day… yikes. We’re talking about setting boundaries gently but firmly during wedding planning. In our other story, a writer shares how she’s found comfort and safety at work with her boss, leading to an unexpected attachment. We’re navigating h...

Overthinking, anxiety, and the question of where you fit in: our writer today is feeling all the feels. On this episode of UA, we’re talking about fitting in, doing more, doing less, and the pressure to have it all figured out. Take a breath and remember everyone is figuring it out, just like you. We’re bringing big sister energy, and reassurance that it will all work out, don’t worry, you’ve got...

Mama drama, emotional boundaries, and hard conversations. Today’s episode gets a little heavy as we talk about how to deal with your mom’s emotional baggage and how to have honest, productive conversations without losing your mind (or your peace). If you’ve ever felt like the emotional parent in the relationship, this one’s for you. Thanks to our Sponsors: Shop SKIMS Fits Everybody collection at h...

Today’s episode is juicy.  In our first story, a listener loves her best friend but can’t stand her fiancé, so how does she bring up her concerns without damaging the friendship? Then, wedding bliss takes a turn when another writer finds out she and her ex-best friend are bridesmaids in the same wedding. From pre-wedding events to the big day itself, how does she keep the peace and protect her san...