Unfiltered : Single Christians Tips on Life

Ah, dating in your 20s—a time of self-discovery, exploration, and apparently, for some Christian singles, a time of becoming a hermit with a Bible in one hand and a “Do Not Disturb” sign in the other. The topic of why Christian singles in their 20s avoid dating is a fascinating one, combining elements of faith, fear, and, yes, a bit of comedy. So, why are so many Christian 20-somethings and Gen Z...

How to become a better listener? In the world of Christian dating, where values and beliefs play a pivotal role, the ability to listen effectively is more than a skill – it’s an expression of respect and understanding. Good listening can deepen connections, build trust, and foster a meaningful bond that aligns with Christian principles. This article explores the nuances of being a good listener in...

Are you one of those 40-something Christian singles thinking about how life is passing you by? Navigating the world of 40-something Christian singles can be a unique and challenging journey. This phase often brings a mix of experiences – from the joy of independence to the complexities of loneliness and societal pressures. Many Christian singles in their forties find themselves grappling with ques...

Sexual purity is a difficult topic for Christian singles. It doesn’t matter if you are a single woman or man, or whether you believe in courtship or traditional dating. Yes, remaining sexually pure as a single Christian is a real battle, a tug-o-war between our raging hormones and desires, and our Lord’s plan for our lives in this area: “It is God’s will that you should be sanctified, that you sho...

There are a number of advantages of being single as a Christian single. For those of us living alone, we can sometimes forget. Also,  the constant barrage in the media communicates to single gals and single guys that they are somehow “missing out” because they are not hitched. In today’s society, where relationships are often seen as a marker of success, the Christian community, in particular, has...

So, you’ve realized you have an “addictive personality.” First off, welcome to the club—members are growing daily, and while we don’t have snacks (we’d eat them too quickly), we do have grace and a game plan. Whether it’s binge-watching 17 episodes of your favorite Christian drama in one sitting, obsessively scrolling dating apps to find “The One,” or inhaling that gallon of double-churned ice cre...

Falling in love is often described as a magical experience. Falling out of love is pure hell.   If you find yourself falling out of love with your Christian boyfriend or girlfriend, it can be a confusing and painful process. As a Christian single, navigating this situation requires wisdom, compassion, and a deep understanding of biblical principles. Understanding Why We Fall Out of Love Relationsh...

Do you know the signs of an unfaithful Christian girlfriend?  As a Christian single, understanding the foundation of a faithful and loving relationship is crucial. However, in a world where values and commitments can be complex, it’s essential to be aware of the signs that may indicate a partner’s infidelity. This article seeks to explore those signs, not from a place of judgment or paranoia, but...

Need long-distance Christian single dating tips for a long-distance relationship?  These long-distance relationships have always been with us. However, in recent years, global online dating services and increased ease of travel helped make long-distance relationships much more prevalent. In fact, according to dating experts on the topic, there are an estimated 1 to 2 million couples presently in l...

If you’ve been out there in the dating world, especially as a Christian single, you know things can get a little tricky. You’re trying to stay pure, uphold biblical values, and—let’s face it—figure out whether that charming person sitting across from you at church is already someone else’s “one flesh” (Genesis 2:24). So, how do you tell if someone is married? Here are the top 10 ways, with a littl...

Dealing with regret as a Christian single can be a deeply transformative experience, providing both spiritual growth and personal enlightenment. This article explores effective strategies rooted in Christian beliefs to navigate and overcome feelings of regret, turning them into stepping stones for a more fulfilling and purpose-driven life. Understanding Regret from a Christian Perspective Regret c...

Why is honesty in a relationship so important? In the journey of finding and nurturing a meaningful relationship, honesty stands as a foundational pillar, especially for Christian singles who are seeking a partnership grounded in faith and trust. Honesty is not just a moral choice but a spiritual commitment that reflects the teachings of Christ and the principles of Christian living. This article...

Learning how to forgive someone who hurt you emotionally is difficult. Have you ever felt the need to forgive your boyfriend or girlfriend? Learning how to forgive in a Christian dating relationship is essential because as Christian singles, God calls us to practice forgiveness if we ourselves wish to be forgiven. forgive the homo. In the world of Christian dating, emotional injuries can sometimes...

Are you a Single Christian wondering how to stop worrying about money?  We don’t need an economic meltdown on Wall Street to start worrying about money and finances. In fact, according to our extensive surveys, singles worry just as much about money and careers as they do relationship and dating issues. Did you know that?  So how do we counsel singles (single-never married, single parents, divorce...

Do you have difficulty embracing singleness as a Christian single guy or woman Many singles I know are depressed and discouraged because they can’t seem to find contentment in their present state of singleness. Their pursuit of the perfect Christian dating relationship leading toward marriage is so all-consuming that they lose the joy of living day to day as a single person. Let’s be clear here. A...

As Christian singles, it’s sometimes easy to suffer discouragement or fear over new sets of circumstances or future uncertainties. Undoing depression that often accompanies discouragement is a difficult thing to do. Because we’re human, discouragement, depression, and stress can crop up at any time, for a variety of reasons. Why Singles Suffer Discouragement and Depression The following are some t...

Thinking about dating a friend? Should I confess to my crush?  A Christian single guy wrote us asking if it’s a good idea if best friends date one another.  So what do you think? Should friends date each other? I know the cynical among us may agree with that line from When Harry Met Sally, “a man and a woman can’t really be just friends.” But that’s the topic of another article. Let’s get back to...

Many singles write us asking for Christian dating principles or Christian dating rules to guide their dating lives. Well, listen. I don’t claim to be a Christian dating expert, but I do know that the Scriptures have some wonderful stuff from which we can cobble some general Christian dating principles. The pursuit of love is universal, yet for Christian singles, this journey is not merely about fi...

How does one get over unrequited love as a Christian Single? In my personal experience, unrequited love is like death, only worse. Unrequited love occurs when the person you absolutely are “head over heels” in love with does not reciprocate the same desire and feelings. Can you think of anything more emotionally and spiritually painful than unrequited love, or being ghosted by the one you love? At...

Sometimes learning how to let go of a toxic Christian dating relationship can be harder than finding a girlfriend or boyfriend. Even when we know letting go of a particular relationship is in our best interest, like in the case of an abusive dating relationship, or dating a married person, or dating an unbeliever, it is not always an easy decision. Many times a Christian single may struggle over f...