Unfiltered : Single Christians Tips on Life

Everywhere I go I meet lonely Christian singles in local church. Of course, there are singles who do have contentment with living a single life. But I just feel it’s a shame that local Christian churches, for the most part, have forgotten singles and their specific needs. Loneliness is a universal human experience that knows no bounds, affecting people from all walks of life, including those who a...

What exactly is wife material? In a world dominated by ever-evolving definitions of relationships and partnerships, many single Christian women find themselves pondering: What does it mean to be “good wife material”? The term, often casually thrown around in conversations, can evoke feelings of confusion, pressure, and even insecurity. However, when looked at through the lens of Christian teaching...

In the journey of faith, being single offers a unique opportunity for spiritual growth and self-discovery. As Christian singles, the pursuit of a deeper, more fulfilling relationship with God can lead to a life of purpose, joy, and contentment. This article delves into practical and effective ways to grow spiritually, embracing the singleness season as a time of divine preparation and personal tra...

As a single Christian mom, the journey of selecting the best career path is not just about financial stability, but also about finding work that resonates with your values, offers flexibility, and provides the opportunity to lead a fulfilling life while raising children. Balancing motherhood with career aspirations can be challenging, yet it’s a journey that can lead to immense personal growth and...

Are you many of the Christian single dads dealing with loss? Grief is a universally human experience, a testament to the depths of our love and connection. For Christian single dads, this journey is often marked with unique challenges. Balancing personal heartache with the responsibilities of parenthood, they might feel doubly burdened. However, Christian teachings and faith can provide a wellspri...

Most Christian single men I know frequently whine about their need for a nice Christian wife. Who can blame men who feel this way? After all, in Proverbs 31:10, our Bible Verse of the Day, Solomon wrote: “A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies.” Christian single men, whether they are college teens or single parents, would benefit by checking out this chapter of S...

  Dating someone who has a mental illness, comes with unique challenges and considerations. As Christian singles, we are called to approach every relationship with love, compassion, and understanding. Here are some tips to help you navigate dating a person with mental illness while staying grounded in your faith. Understanding and Education The first step in dating someone with a mental illness is...

Wondering how to get a Christian guy to ask you out? In the realm of Christian dating, the journey to a meaningful relationship is often paved with shared faith and values. For many Christian women, understanding how to encourage a Christian guy to ask them out is not just about romantic interest, but also about fostering a bond that resonates with their spiritual principles. This guide delves int...

As a Christian single, it can be challenging to navigate the world of dating, especially when societal norms and peer pressures emphasize the importance of finding a romantic partner. However, it’s essential to remember that your worth and identity are rooted in Christ, not in your relationship status. This article explores strategies for Christian singles to shift their focus from dating and cult...

There is an amazing connection between forgiveness and healing in the Bible. Forgiveness has amazing benefits. Forgiveness can heal broken relationships, broken hearts and even bring health to one’s body. Only recently have secular psychologists and doctors begun speaking of the healing power of forgiveness in one’s life. That is exactly why it is  important to learn how to forgive someone who hur...

Are you looking for an article on signs you will never get married? Marriage is often seen as a cornerstone of life, especially in Christian communities where it is seen as a divine covenant. But not everyone may walk down the aisle or utter those significant vows. For some single Christians, the path may seem unclear, and they might wonder, “Am I destined to remain lonely and single forever?” Her...

There are many reasons to be thankful being single. Thanksgiving Day is a time of thankfulness and being thankful for all our blessings. However, for many singles it’s simply another holiday to survive, and a reminder of how lonely and frustrating life can be without the emotional and physical intimacy of a mate. That’s why showing thankfulness is difficult for many of my Christian single solo fri...

For many middle-aged Christians, the dating rules have changed dramatically since their younger years. Whether they’re venturing back into the world of romance after a long relationship or simply choosing to find love later in life, the fusion of faith and modern dating can be daunting. This article delves into essential dating skills and rules tailored specifically for middle-aged Christians, ens...

It’s amazing how many people find our site searching for short cute love quotes. Ironically, many singles who look for short cute love quotes also fear love at the same time. They go through life yearning for a dating relationship leading toward marriage but shy away from love at the same time. How sad and frustrating! The realm of Christian dating is filled with the exhilarating highs of newfound...

Bad dates. Nearly everyone has had a bad date or two. In fact, several singles have written for advice on how to end a bad Christian date. Navigating the dating world as a Christian single can be a journey filled with hope and anticipation. However, not every date turns out as expected. What defines a ‘bad date’ in a Christian context? It could be a lack of shared values, disrespectful behavior, o...

Is it a sin to have sex before marriage? Is sex before marriage still a sin if you love each other? These two questions are some of the most asked questions I get at Oasis Singles. Sex sin is a huge issue for Christian singles. Why? The simple answer is that most singles struggle with some form of sex sin, or at least are tempted in this particular area. Let’s lay aside masturbation for a moment....

Being a Military Christian single man or woman is one of the most difficult things I can imagine. While many single Christians are just worrying about how to find their next online Christian date, some military singles are simply praying to stay alive. Military singles who also happen to be Christians also have to deal more intensely with that fuzzy intersection of “giving unto Caesar what is Caes...

This is a fact: Alcohol Use Disorder is much more prevalent among single people (across all age groups) than among those who are married. While single men are by far the largest demographic that uses and abuses alcohol, recent studies in the US and UK find alarming rises in alcohol use and abuse among single women. Alcohol abuse is a significant societal problem affecting multiple demographic grou...

As Generation Z Christian singles can tell you, the vast majority of other 20-something singles  and college singles do not attend church. Paradoxically, Generations Z Singles as they are called today, are also one of the most receptive age groups to evangelize. How can both of these statements about Gen singles be true? The answer is that many Christian churches are simply missing huge opportunit...

Are you one of the Christian singles ghosting someone? Navigating the world of modern dating can be a challenge, particularly when digital communication complicates traditional relationship etiquette. One phenomenon that has emerged from this digital revolution is “ghosting.” For Christian singles aiming to live according to Biblical principles, the question arises: Is it Biblical to ghost someone...

That’s right we are going to talk about sexual purity in the Bible, the topic that everybody likes to avoid.  Sexual impurity ranges from lustful thoughts to actual acts of perverted behavior.  In today’s modern world, everywhere you look, there’s sex and very rarely is it between two married people.  If you turn on the TV, you see scantily clad women on MTV and HBO.  You can go to the supermarket...

Hey friend, let’s have a heart-to-heart about something that can be a little tricky when it comes to love: losing yourself. As a Christian single woman, I know how easy it can be to put someone else’s needs and wants before your own when you’re excited about a relationship. But what happens when you wake up one day and realize you’re not sure who you are anymore? If you’ve ever found yourself bend...

When God doesn’t make sense to you because all your Christian single friends have met someone, but you have not, does your faith waver?  As Christian singles, maybe it’s a Christian dating relationship that’s gone awry, or some other event in your life that’s got you thinking about “the why” of it all.  Why did God allow this? What’s God’s plan? Where do I go from here? Navigating the treacherous...

Do you know the signs of lust in a man?  All Christian single men battle the lust of the flesh from time to time. In fact, let’s just make that ALL guys, whether they be single men or married men, Christian or non-Christian. One single man pal of mine said if his girlfriend ever knew his thoughts, she would never stop slapping him! Listen, men struggle with lust and masturbation, and any single ma...

Christian Singleness is often viewed as a waiting room—a period of life where we twiddle our thumbs, waiting for that special someone to sweep us off our feet. But what if I told you that this season of singleness is actually a golden opportunity for spiritual growth? Yep, you heard me right! Your solo status isn’t a cosmic joke, but a divine gift wrapped in the glittering paper of self-discovery,...