UnDoing We with Mardi Winder

How do you know when pressure is pushing you toward your best performance and when it has crossed the line into stress that is quietly affecting your health, judgment, and confidence? In this episode, Mardi Winder welcomes award-winning executive coach and international speaker Shairose Gulamani for a thoughtful conversation about the important difference between pressure and stress, and why recog...

This episode takes a thoughtful look at something a lot of people don’t think about right away when going through a divorce: what to do about the family pet. The conversation centers around Karis Nafte, a pet custody mediator, who brings both humor and compassion to a subject that can get surprisingly complicated and emotional. With years of experience in dog behavior and working with separating f...

On this episode of UnDoing We, host Mardi Winder welcomes Keri Gwynne, CEO of Starting Point by Freedom, and Ryan Finley, Founder of Freedom Financial Services Group, for a practical discussion on building the right divorce team. Drawing from both professional expertise and personal experience, Keri and Ryan share valuable insights on keeping children at the center of divorce decisions, creating e...

In this episode, Mardi Winder sits down with Keri Gwynne and Ryan Finley to talk about how divorce is about so much more than just legal paperwork; it’s a mix of emotional, practical, and financial challenges. Keri Gwynne shares about her own tough journey through an abusive marriage and a long, costly divorce. Her experience led her to start her own business, offering real support and coaching to...

Mardi Winder talks with Dr. Pamela J. Pine, an international health development professional and leading advocate on preventing and addressing child sexual abuse and other adverse childhood experiences. Together, they address the often unspoken realities of how conflict, whether high, moderate, or even low-level, within families can deeply affect children, shaping their lives long after the events...

Mardi Winder sits down with Julia Shteynberg, who brings her experience from the world of corporate finance to her work as a money coach. The conversation is friendly and easy-going, and Julia is quick to reassure listeners that you don’t have to be a celebrity or a billionaire to be considered a high earner. In fact, anyone bringing in over $100,000 is already facing many of the same emotional an...

Host Mardi Winder welcomes Kate Mayor, psychotherapist and emotional abuse recovery specialist, for an insightful discussion on healing after a toxic or narcissistic relationship. Drawing from both professional expertise and her own experience leaving an emotionally abusive marriage, Kate shares the challenges survivors often face, including fear, self-doubt, guilt, and manipulation during and aft...

On this episode of UnDoing We, host Mardi Winder welcomes Donna S. Cates, founder of Money Matters Wealth Solutions, Financial Strategist, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® (CDFA®). Together, they explore the financial decisions during divorce that can have long-term consequences. Donna shares practical insights on dividing retirement accounts, understanding tax implications, handling QDROs...

Host Mardi Winder welcomes transformation coach Pritha Dindayal, who shares her powerful journey through divorce, personal loss, and major life transitions. Together, they explore why many people feel stuck between endings and new beginnings, and how old fears and patterns can quietly hold us back. Pritha offers practical insights on recognizing limiting beliefs, building supportive connections, a...

In this engaging and thought-provoking episode, Mardi Winder sits down with Olya Piccirillo, an accomplished wellness practitioner whose personal journey through illness, loss, and profound transformation has shaped her holistic approach to healing. Their conversation explores the deep, sometimes overlooked connection between unresolved trauma and physical health, drawing on both Western and Easte...

On this episode, we shine a spotlight on a critical, but often overlooked, part of the divorce process: mortgages and refinancing. Host Mardi Winder is joined by Stacey Ellison, a certified divorce lending professional and experienced divorce mortgage planner. Together, they demystify the financial hurdles divorcing homeowners face, including talking about assumptions, equity buyouts, and why what...

Can You Mediate High-Conflict Divorces – Part 2 Financial empowerment and emotional preparedness are at the center of this meaningful conversation with Victoria Kirilloff, a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, as she joins Mardi Winder for the second part of their discussion about navigating divorce with high-conflict personalities.  Victoria recounts her own journey through a decade-long relatio...

Today, Mardi Winder talks with Victoria Kirilloff, a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst who brings both personal experience and a highly analytical lens to a high-conflict and toxic divorce process. The conversation explores how Victoria’s journey led her to create divorce analytics and develop the global settlement proposal, a powerful tool that gives individuals a complete and realistic view of...

On this episode, Mardi Winder talks with Karen Omand, a divorce and grief specialist who understands the deep emotional loss that can accompany the end of a marriage. Drawing from her own experiences with grief and a difficult relationship, Karen shares why divorce grief is often misunderstood and how it can affect everything from emotional health to identity and daily life. Together they discuss...

💰 Budgeting and Money Matters in Divorce — Join Guest Micah Roberts, Chief Empowerment Officer of Empowering Financial Coaching, LLC, together with Host Mardi Adams on UnDoing We. In this practical and empowering episode, they discuss how budgeting, financial awareness, and smart planning can help individuals regain control of their finances during and after divorce. Learn how to create a realist...

Host Mardi Winder sits down with Nisha Goyal, self-love expert and life coach, for a heartfelt conversation about caring for yourself during challenging life transitions like divorce. Nisha shares her journey from burnout and people-pleasing to learning how to prioritize her own needs and embrace self-worth without the pressure of society’s expectations. They discuss why many women give so much of...

Mardi Winder talks with mediator and divorce coach Karen McNenny, host of The Good Divorce Show Podcast, about a healthier approach to divorce that doesn’t have to become a battle. Drawing from both professional experience and her own story, Karen explains how communication, mediation, and intentional planning can reduce conflict—especially when children are involved. They discuss managing emotion...

In this engaging episode, Mardi Winder sits down with Kim Costa, a seasoned Realtor® with Sotheby's International Realty and creator of the Wheel House Method, to explore how life transitions—especially divorce—impact our relationship with home, finances, and personal wellbeing. Drawing from her own experience of divorce and remarriage, Kim offers thoughtful perspectives on the challenges of movin...

In this episode, host Mardi Winder welcomes Cece Shatz, the visionary behind NewStreamingNetwork.com and the Going Solo Network—a global media platform dedicated to supporting those navigating divorce, single life, and relationship transitions. Cece shares her own journey through divorce and the realization that community and authentic support are essential during tough personal shifts. Drawing fr...

Addiction adds an additional level of complexity to separation and divorce. On today's episode of UnDoing We, Mardi Winder talks with Amber Hollingsworth, a master addiction counselor and founder of Hope for Families Recovery Center. Together, they explore how addiction affects marriages, co-parenting dynamics, and personal well-being after divorce, particularly when one partner is struggling with...

Today on UnDoing We, host Mardi Winder chats with Gina Phillips, a certified divorce financial analyst (CDFA®), to talk honestly about what happens with your finances once your divorce papers are signed. Many people expect relief after the decree is final, but as Mardi and Gina point out, there’s a whole new set of important tasks to tackle, and ignoring them can cause major headaches down the roa...

Today on UnDoing We, host Mardi Winder sits down with Estefana Johnson, a seasoned mental health clinician with over 20 years of experience working in trauma and mental health care. In this conversation, Estefana Johnson shares her journey from an unexpected start in behavioral health to becoming the Director of Clinical Training at Arise Alliance Institute, where she explores innovative and holis...

Welcome to another episode of UnDoing We. Today, host Mardi Winder sits down with Maria Natapov, a step parenting expert and trusted adviser to those struggling with blending families in relationships post-divorce. In this conversation, Mardi and Maria dive deep into the complexities and real-life challenges of blending families after divorce, a topic that touches every parent, child, and steppare...

In today’s conversation, host Mardi Winder sits down with seasoned real estate expert Kat Timpson to tackle one of the most complex and emotional aspects of divorce: what happens to the family home. As the real estate market evolves, think fewer homes, fiercer competition, and offers well over asking price, Kat Timpson shares timely insights on navigating these shifts, especially when coupled with...

This is an important episode of UnDoing We for women and men who are going through a “grey divorce”. Mardi Winder sits down with retirement expert Marcia Mantel, founder of Mantel Retirement Consulting, for an illuminating and practical conversation about one of the most critical, and often confusing, topics for people facing divorce: getting your financial affairs in order, with a special focus o...