UnDoing We with Mardi Winder

💖 Dating After Divorce — Join Guest Rosalind Sedacca, CDC, Divorce, Dating & Empowered Living Show Host, Divorce & Co-Parenting Coach, and Author, together with Host Mardi Adams, Divorce Coach, on UnDoing We. This insightful conversation explores how to re-enter the dating world with confidence, clarity, and emotional readiness after divorce. Learn how to heal, set healthy boundaries, and...

In this episode, Mardi Winder sits down with Dr. Becky Whetstone for an honest and down-to-earth chat about what really happens when a marriage is on the rocks. Dr. Becky Whetstone, who’s open about her own history of four marriages, shares her personal story, full of ups, downs, and real-life lessons. She explains how her own tough experiences pushed her to become a therapist dedicated to helping...

Today, Mardi Winder welcomes forensic accountant Tracy Coenen, who has spent more than 25 years investigating financial fraud and uncovering the secrets hidden in divorce finances. Tracy brings her wealth of experience to the table, sharing why what you don’t know about the money in your marriage can absolutely hurt you during divorce, and how you can take proactive steps to protect yourself. If y...

Welcome to another episode of UnDoing We. Today, we're diving into the world of highly sensitive people, and what it really means, why it isn't a diagnosis, and how it shapes the experience of divorce and relationships of all kinds. Joining host Mardi Winder is special guest Sue Bruckner, who specializes in supporting highly sensitive individuals through life’s most challenging transitions. In thi...

In this episode, host Mardi Winder sits down with acclaimed clinical psychologist and coach, Dr. Robin Buckley, to unravel the complexities of divorce through a different lens; one that’s strategic, goal-driven, and future-focused. Dr. Robin Buckley shares how her journey from clinical therapy to coaching opened up new possibilities for helping people proactively address challenges in their relati...

🎙️ Mardi Winder sits down with Maria Riegger to explore the unique challenges high-achieving parents face in today’s fast-paced, competitive world. Together, they discuss how to balance career demands with family life while fostering healthy, meaningful relationships at home. Maria shares practical strategies for reducing parenting stress, managing social media pressures, and supporting teens in d...

In this conversation, Mardi Winder sits down with Jenny Eleanora to explore how creativity and play can change the experience of going through divorce and support healing and joy beyond it. Jenny shares her own journey, describing how the early part of her life was marked by depression and anxiety, and how her divorce became a turning point. With the encouragement of a “creative champion,” Jenny b...

In this episode, Mardi Winder has an important conversation with Dr. Alana Sharps, who brings both personal experience and professional expertise to the complex world of high-conflict divorce and child custody. Dr. Sharps shares her own story of navigating a challenging custody battle after escaping a long-term abusive relationship, highlighting the loneliness and confusion that often accompanies...

In this episode, host Mardi Winder-Adams is joined by family law expert Sandra Fava for a helpful chat about two important issues in divorce. Their conversation covers important information on picking the right divorce attorney and cutting through all the confusion about alimony. Ever scrolled through endless attorney bios on a big law firm’s site and wondered if bigger really is better? Sandra ta...

In this episode, Mardi Winder-Adam chats with Wendy Vaughan about what it feels like to tackle a big career shift while dealing with divorce. Wendy, who has been through divorce herself, shares what it's like when life suddenly feels uncertain and you start doubting if you're really cut out for taking your side hustle full-time or making a big leap in your work life. Wendy's advice is refreshingly...

Today, Mardi Winder talks with her friend and guest expert Michele Benyo about the layered experience of grief, especially for families who have lost a child. Michele, a Certified Grief Recovery Specialist® and founder of Good Grief Parenting, shares how her personal journey after the loss of her young son shaped her dedication to supporting bereaved siblings and their parents. Through her story,...

The teen parent relationship can be difficult, and divorce and other family changes can make it even more complicated. In this episode, host Mardi Winder is joined by family strategist and youth mentor Nellie Harden for a compelling conversation that dives deep into the nuanced world of parenting through transition, whether that’s the normal challenges of adolescence or the difficult experience of...

Getting back into the dating world after divorce can be a scary process, but it doesn’t have to be. Today, Mardi Winder sits down with Ry Duong to explore Ry’s remarkable story of resilience, healing, and empowerment after leaving an unhealthy marriage and coping with profound personal loss. Ry shares her unique background, tracing her journey from a Thai refugee camp after her family fled the Cam...

n this solo episode, Mardi Winder takes a heartfelt and honest look at what really happens to our friendships and family connections during divorce, which is a topic that often gets swept under the rug. Drawing on both her own experience and what she’s seen with her divorce coaching clients, Mardi talks about the complicated emotions and surprising realities that come with shifting from “we” to “m...

Mardi Winder-Adams talks with Kaki Perdue, a financial planner dedicated to helping clients navigate the complexities of post-divorce finances with clarity and intention. Kaki explains what it means to work with a fiduciary and highlights the importance of understanding how various advisors are compensated. They stress that a fiduciary is legally bound to put a client’s best interests ahead of the...

In this conversation, Mardi Winder-Adams is joined by Laura Phillips, Licensed Reverse Mortgage Specialist, for an informative discussion about reverse mortgages and the many misconceptions that surround them. Laura, with her extensive experience guiding seniors through financial options, begins by clarifying what a reverse mortgage is and its origins as a government-backed product designed to sup...

This episode is all about developing a mindset of transformation during divorce. Mardi Winder-Adams connects with Kirstin Carey, who shares her deeply personal story of transformation sparked by her experiences with chronic illness, career shifts, and ultimately, divorce. Kirstin recounts how her life, once filled with frequent travel and public speaking, was interrupted by health challenges like...

Mardi Winder-Adams sits down with integrative health practitioner Melissa Deally to explore a more comprehensive approach to healing, especially relevant for individuals experiencing divorce and major life changes. Melissa shares how her work has evolved from focusing on physical symptoms to recognizing the powerful impact of the mind, emotions, and spirit on overall wellbeing. She explains her re...

This week on UnDoing We, host Mardi Winder-Adams sits down with Mara Palermo to unpack the world of attachment styles and the significant influence they have on our relationships as adults. Mara begins by explaining the four main attachment styles, anxious, dismissive avoidant, fearful avoidant (or disorganized), and secure, and shares how these patterns stem from early childhood experiences with...

Mardi Winder-Adams sits down with Stacey Sanderson to explore the often misunderstood world of narcissism, especially as it relates to divorce and recovery. Stacey, drawing from her expertise in psychology, sets the record straight on what truly defines narcissistic personality disorder, distinguishing it from other types of difficult behavior, and highlights the complexity surrounding its diagnos...

Divorce Decision-Making: How to Move Past Indecision and Find Clarity - Guest Jackie Pilossoph In this week on UnDoing We, Mardi Winder-Adams sits down with Jackie Pilossoph, founder of Divorced Girl Smiling, to explore some of the central misconceptions and opportunities surrounding divorce. Jackie discusses the concept of building a “divorce team,” highlighting that while hiring multiple profess...

The Importance Of Financial Knowledge During Divorce — Don’t navigate divorce blindfolded! Join Victoria Kirilloff, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA®), as she shares crucial insights into managing money matters during divorce. From protecting your financial future to avoiding costly mistakes, Victoria breaks it all down. She’s joined by Host Mardi Winder-Adams, CDC® Divorce Coach and high...

In this episode, Mardi Winder-Adams sits down with Lisa Johnson, co-founder of Been There, Got Out, to discuss the complex and often hidden world of legal abuse in high-conflict divorces. Lisa shares her personal journey of navigating post-divorce legal battles, not over custody, but over financial issues, and highlights the crucial role her attorney and an airtight parenting plan played in protec...

This episode of Undoing We explores the often-overlooked world of divorce decision making, focusing on why reaching clarity in this life-changing process is so difficult yet so important. Host Mardi Winder-Adams is joined by Mike Fink, who brings warmth and expertise to a discussion about the emotional and psychological hurdles that slow the decision to stay or leave a marriage. Mike explains that...

Many people experience anger on a daily basis, but few of us are educated on how to not just manage the emotion, but to actually eliminate it from our lives. Unfortunately, as my guest Dr. Mort Orman highlights, anger and stress can create short and long term health issues. The episodes focuses on the importance of getting rid of longstanding anger issues to improve our mental and physical health....