Unbothered

BRING BACK CHALANT MEN. RIP to the “wyd?” text at 7pm. We want plans, effort, and a little emotional devastation. This week we unpack the lost art of the courting phase, how media shaped our expectations, and why consistency is the real grand gesture. Follow Unbothered on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Chloe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠...

"Do I love them enough? What if I’m making the wrong choice? What if they don't actually love me?" Welcome to the world of Relationship OCD (ROCD). This week, Chloe is joined by therapist + Trust & Thrive podcast host Tara Montazeri to talk about ROCD and the endless loop of doubt it can create. From intrusive thoughts to compulsions, we break down what ROCD looks like, how it impacts love, an...

Hi guys, it’s Chloe. This my first solo episode ever, with just me, a mic, and an easel to keep me company (yes, I Bob Ross'd my way through this). In this ep, I'm talking about co-dependency. I’ve lost myself trying to keep relationships alive, and this is about what happens when you finally decide to hold onto yourself instead. I’m anxious and in my luteal phase, be nice to me! Check out Total E...

She almost deleted the DM that would land her on Euphoria. In this unfiltered conversation, Chloe Cherry opens up about the truth behind her viral Faye character, the misconceptions about her past, and the love story that healed her. Turns out, being unapologetically yourself can take you places you didn’t even know were on the map.

If you've ever swallowed your discomfort and ignored your boundaries just to keep the peace, pull up a chair. We talk about narcissistic men all the time. What about the friend who constantly blows up on you, yet you're the one left apologizing? The mom who never takes accountability and makes you question your sanity the second you set a boundary? The sister who made everything a competition, the...

Friends who get weird around guys, never clap when you win, or only hit you up when they need something...yeah, we’ve had them too. Making friends as an adult is weirdly vulnerable and way more complicated than anyone warns you. This week, we’re joined by the wise and wonderful Anastasia Dupee to talk about friendship red flags, low-maintenance lifers, growing out of old dynamics. Follow us on ⁠⁠⁠...

Can understanding the science of heartbreak actually help you heal? Heartbreak feels like you’re dying because your brain literally thinks you are. In this episode, we break down what’s really happening in your body post-breakup. Cortisol spikes, dopamine crashes, withdrawal symptoms, and how love literally mimics addiction in the brain. It’s not just emotional, it’s chemical, and we’re here to he...

Our frontal lobes are fully cooked, and we’ve got a list. No more situationships, gaslighting, or boyfriends who ruin birthdays. We’re done dating people who “like the idea of us,” done playing therapist for people who won’t get help, and done shrinking to make other people comfortable. This episode is a rapid-fire takedown of everything we’re leaving behind now that our prefrontal cortex finally...

We accidentally booked an extra hour in the studio...so we got drunk and played Smash or Pass. Some of our most insane takes yet in this one lol. Follow us on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Chloe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ & ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Alexa⁠⁠⁠⁠

We cried, we spiraled, we gave sisterly advice. From cheating boyfriends and toxic situationships to Paris flings and dad drama (yep), we’re unpacking the kind of heartbreak that teaches you who you are and how to finally walk away. If you want to submit your own story, fill out the form here . Follow us on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Chloe⁠⁠⁠⁠...

Why do situationships hurt more than actual relationships? Because there’s just enough hope to keep you delusional. We’re getting into why they mess with your head, how they keep you stuck, and the wildest stories from our personal archives. Like the guy who “ordered” Chloe a dress for his holiday party and photoshopped a Revolve receipt to gaslight her…or the one guy who asked Alexa if he could b...

Bowl of lore is back!!!! This time we have Brooke Schofield with us to share some truly wild stories. From allegedly stealing Justin Bieber’s fox to catfishing exes and walking in on your best friend in bed with your situationship. We also get into plastic surgery transparency, dating pathological liars, and why some men should be legally required to go to war. Buckle up. Follow Brooke on IG and T...

Actress Adelaide Kane joins us to talk about the non-negotiables we wish we had throughout our twenties. From emotional regulation to actual effort, we break down what makes someone worth dating and what makes someone a real friend. If you wouldn’t trust them with your heart or your group chat, it’s probably a no. Let's get into it. Follow Adelaide on IG and TikTok . Follow us on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠...

Everything’s falling apart? Perfect. You’re right on schedule. This week, we’re joined by Glamour Magazine columnist and astrologer Meghan Rose to decode the Saturn Return. The chaotic, karmic, character development era you didn’t ask for but definitely needed. Whether you’re about to enter yours, deep in it, or just trying to make sense of what the hell is happening, this one’s for you. For anyon...

What do ghosting your now-boss, candle rituals, and boy moms with boundary issues have in common? This episode. Actress Kelli Berglund joins the pod for a Q&A that covers ex drama, toxic friend groups, losing yourself in love, and what it really takes to come back to yourself. Follow Kelli on IG and TikTok Follow us on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Chloe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ &...

Ever convinced yourself someone hated you because they didn’t text back right away? Same. We’re continuing our attachment series with a deep dive into anxious attachment style, the one that overthinks, spirals, and still romanticizes the bare minimum. Therapist Aliza Shapiro joins us to unpack where that panic actually comes from, the protest behaviors we pass off as chill, and the difference betw...

Breakups are brutal… until they’re the best thing that ever happened to you. Chloe and Alexa are back with the one and only Sarah Pearl (@hothighpriestess) for a conversation on walking away from “good enough,” manifesting the love you actually want, trusting your gut even when it’s whispering, and using heartbreak to propel you to the next level in life. Follow Sarah on ⁠⁠ IG⁠ & ⁠⁠ TikTok⁠⁠ a...

We’re joined by Patty Pop Culture for a very real conversation about how quickly we can go from pop culture to mob culture. We unpack media literacy, cancel culture, and why parasocial relationships feel so real (because to your brain, they kind of are). From PR spins we saw with Blake Lively/Justin Baldoni to the relentless obsession with figures like Britney, Hailey, Miley, and Monica Lewinsky....

We invented a game called Should I Stay or Should I Go , where we get drunk and judge whether his weird little habits are green flags or a reason to run. From clapping when the plane lands to knowing way too much about astrology, no man is safe and some of our “stays” might shock you. PS: We’re dropping two episodes a week all May. See you on Tuesdays and Thursdays ♥️ Follow us on ⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠...

We teamed up with Violet Benson for a hilariously honest deep dive into all the ways we (accidentally) sabotage our love lives. From oversharing on first dates to falling for the man who “doesn’t deserve you,” we break down the subtle ways we can shrink, settle, or self-abandon in the name of love. We’re talking sex, self-worth, and Vasopressin (yes, the hormone). Our episode on Violet's pod,...

Kicking off our attachment style series with one of the most misunderstood (and least talked about) styles: disorganized attachment. If you've ever craved connection but sabotaged it, trusted but flinched, or clung only to push away... this one’s for you. This episode is your pep talk, your psychology cheat sheet, and your permission slip to outgrow old survival patterns, one breakthrough at a...

Three weeks ago, a cease and desist was sent to my ex-co-host, citing multiple laws that were broken. Last week, she launched a public smear campaign against me. Today, I’m sharing my full story that WASN'T told about Unhinged, and I’ve brought the receipts to match. In this episode, I break down: The TRUTH about how much money we made The behavior I tolerated behind the scenes The wild demands ma...

This week, we’re getting honest about the patterns we keep, the boundaries we don’t enforce, and the stories we tell ourselves to avoid change. We sit down with Dr. Courtney Tracy, a USC-trained psychotherapist, to unpack what it actually takes to break a cycle and what happens when we finally stop running. Check out Dr. Courtney Tracy's new incredible book " Your Unconscious Is Showing &...

An unfiltered brain dump with the one and only Danisha Carter. We're talking boundaries that actually stick, clocking jealousy from someone close to you, comparison spirals, breaking up with chaos (even when it feels fun), and men demanding princess treatment while giving jester behavior. Follow us on ⁠IG⁠ and ⁠TikTok⁠ !! Follow ⁠ Chloe⁠ & ⁠Alexa⁠ Follow ⁠⁠ Danisha and ⁠⁠ check out her pod ⁠⁠!

We wrote down some of our CRAZIEST stories, tossed them in a bowl, and pulled them at random to tell you while we simultaneously got drunk. Literally might have to delete this because you know...digital footprint.