Unbecoming with TeSeeyah

Some people are meant to walk with you… just not all the way. In this episode, I explore what happens when growth begins to challenge the relationships, spaces, and identities that once felt familiar. The quiet realization that not everyone can come with you—and that trying to bring them often comes at the cost of your own peace. This is a conversation about outgrowing old roles, releasing unconsc...

Who do you become when being yourself doesn’t feel safe? In this episode, I explore the version of me that learned how to perform, adapt, and shape-shift in order to be accepted. The girl behind the mask—the one who understood early on that belonging had to be earned, not given. This is about the unconscious patterns we develop to stay connected, the roles we play to maintain acceptance, and the q...

I did everything right. And I still didn’t belong. In this episode, I explore the unconscious pattern of believing love, acceptance, belonging, and safety must be earned through performance, achievement, adaptation, or self-sacrifice. Through personal reflection and lived experience, I unpack the cost of trying to secure connection by becoming who other people need you to be—and what happens when...

Why does everything suddenly feel so intense? If you’ve been feeling more reactive, restless, emotional, impatient, or like you’re one inconvenience away from completely reinventing your life, this episode is for you. Using the current astrological weather as a lens, I explore what happens when buried emotions, unconscious patterns, and unresolved tensions begin rising to the surface. Because what...

What are you leaving behind? This episode begins with a seemingly insignificant observation in a public washroom—but quickly expands into a deeper conversation about awareness, responsibility, and the unconscious patterns that shape how we move through the world. Because our actions are never isolated. The way we treat shared spaces, strangers, relationships, and ourselves often reveals far more t...

This is where it begins. In this first episode of  Unbecoming , I share what this space is really about—and why transformation isn’t about becoming more, but releasing everything that was never truly you. This is a return. Not a reinvention. But I also want to speak directly to you — the woman who found this podcast. Maybe you’ve done the therapy. The coaching programs. The journaling, the meditat...