Ujima Spirit

Piem: is there any hope

Poem: I know you because I feel you

We discussed the gender role of a male; gender stereotypes of men; hypermasculinity traits; gender role stress or discrepancy; gender role conflicts and gender role obligations.

We discussed why some individuals practice sadism & masochism; what is sadistic personality disorder and common sadistic behaviors in society.

We discussed practicing social wellness in order to maintain a healthy social environment; taking personal responsibility and holding others accountable for their negativity.

We discussed the characteristics of a cult; why people join cults; what pre-existing conditions that makes people more vulnerable to joining cults and negative effects of cults.

Poem: You got me walking on eggshells

We discussed why people do good deeds for the wrong reasons: bad/negative intentions or motive: secure benefits, privileges, rewards, or compensation at others expense without their awareness or consent.

We discussed why attending college is overrated: college loan & financial debt; college graduates can't secure good employment; decadent college culture & unhealthy lifestyle; college graduates sense of entitlement & superiority; college doesn't teach emotional intelligence, morality, integrity or other life skills. We reviewed alternatives to obtaining good education, skills, and financial stabil...

Poem: when will it end

Poem: You told me not to worry

We continued our discussion on what's the facts about abortion: patriarchal influence on abortion; fathers roles in abortion; post abortion grief syndrome; racist history of abortion industry and negative effects of abortion.

We discussed the facts about abortion: definition of abortion; reasons for abortion and methods of abortion; different types of abortion and when a fetus becomes a human being.

We discussed some factors that may cause postpartum depression; who is at risk for developing postpartum depression; effects of postpartum depression; what prevents women from seeking treatment and options available for postpartum depression treatment.

We discussed the maternal care & postpartum care; different types of postpartum mood disorders: postpartum blues; postpartum depression and postpartum anxiety disorder and postpartum psychosis.

We continued the discussion of the different factors that caused conflicts between mother and daughter: traumatic experiences; learned behaviors; insecurities; fears and competition.

We discussed the causes of the conflicts between mother and daughter: patriarchy/sexism; low self-esteem; inferiority complex; toxic parenting styles and dysfunctional behaviors.

We discussed the concept of reincarnation; different perspective of reincarnation; good and bad karma; the afterlife experience; soul family, soul tribes, & soul contracts; different paranormal experience as evidences of reincarnation and signs of being reincarnated.

We discussed the imposter syndrome; causes of this irrational thought; symptoms of it; different types of imposter syndromes; negative effects and solutions.

We discussed becoming a positive role model for our youths; identifying different types of role models; positive characteristics for our youths to emulate and different negative role models to avoid.

Poem : Let me know when you're ready

We discussed who is really to blame for the failed relationship between males & females.

We discussed identifying & dealing with sexual problems: sexual incompatibility; lack of energy for sex; lack of sexual interest; lack of time; lack of foreplay; boredom in the bedroom; not physically attracted to partner anymore; sexual pain & physical problems.

We discussed sexual harassment in the work place; laws dealing with sexual harassment; different behaviors that constitute sexual harassment; how victim response to sexual harassment; negative effects of sexual harassment; how to deal with sexual harassment and what's the cause of it.

We continued our discussion on the causes of female oppression; reviewed examples of female inequality, gender based violence and human rights violation. We offer some solutions to eradicating this problem.