Ujima Spirit

Poem: I'm not going to let you rob me of my peace

We discussed how to find peace; characteristics of peace; different types of peace; how to cultivate peace; negative effects of not having peace and how sustain a peace of mind

Poem: your love spell is broken

We discussed taking the initiative to admit to ourselves when we're messing up or doing wrong in order to get better.

We discussed the idea of people believing that their love will save their loved ones who are going through a crisis or difficulty. However, these care givers don't realize some of their loved ones don't want to be saved. They are not doing the work to improve themselves. We discussed how to identify the signs that indicate loved ones are not trying to change; the negative impact of loving these pe...

We discussed some of the reasons many women are becoming more domineering, aggressive, & masculine: childhood traumatic experiences; learned behavior from mother & society; absent or dysfunctional father; exposure to domestic violence & sexual assault; defense mechanism; fear of abandonment & rejection; feeling unsafe, unprotected, & Insecure; fear of being abused, deprived, & destituted.

We discussed imposition & how people are imposing on each other; signs of imposition; ways imposition can be used and how to address imposition.

We discussed the definition of revenge: when revenge is appropriate & acceptable; what makes revenge negative & destructive; different types of revenge; reasons for revengeful behavior and why some people avoid revenge.

We discussed the meaning of toxic positivity; signs of toxic positivity; the negative effects of toxic positivity; how to deal with toxic positivity & statements made by people using toxic positivity. We also compared the difference between toxic positivity & authentic positivity.

We discussed why we should choose marriage; characteristics of a healthy marriage and benefits of a healthy marriage: mental; emotional; social; financial; medical and career.

We discussed the differences between positive loyalty and blind loyalty; characteristics of positive & blind loyalty; negative consequences of blind loyalty and ways to avoid blind loyalty.

We continued the discussion of the importance of gender roles; we explained the degenderification process: gender blindness; gender neutral & gender correct language. We spoke about how degenderification negatively effects biological females and how homosexual males are abusing male privileges to impose gender destabilization on biological females.

We discussed the importance of gender roles; why each culture has different gender roles; what factors influence gender roles and what children learn from having gender roles.

We continued the discussion about exposing the truth about homosexuality; patricarchy, misogyny, & sexism connection to homosexuality; sexual objectification & sexual Commodification connection to homosexuality and childhood sexual abuse & trauma connection to homosexuality.

We discussed the cultural origin of homosexuality; rejection of homosexuality in indigenous cultures and acceptance of homosexuality in western cultures; homosexuality imposed on males in war, slavery, military, & prison; negative factors of homosexuality and medical & health problems in gay community.

We discussed accepting the reality and making positive changes; why some people are delusional or in denial; ways to become more aware of negative situations and taking initiative to improve.

We discussed what is pedophilia and how it is promoted in society: school, church, social media, and other organizations.

We discussed what makes biological males men and biological females women; differences between biological males & females and why some people have gender identity disorder.

We discussed the symptoms of resentment; reasons why we experience resentment and negative & positive aspects of resentment.

We discussed different types of suffering: consequential suffering; personal suffering; grief suffering; righteous suffering; victim suffering; empathetic suffering; preventive suffering; disciplinary/growing pain suffering and human (general) suffering.

We discussed the importance of not wasting time; different ways that we waste time and benefits of utilizing time wisely.

We discussed how young adults are being misled & misguided; the consequences of making poor choices during young adulthood and how to take responsibility for yourself during the ages of 18 to 25.

We discussed why nice people finish last; why they're abused, exploited, and taken for granted; what's the cause of this maltreatment and solutions to this problem.

We discussed the myths that are lies about relationships and common myths that are believed to be truth.

Poem: It really doesn't matter