Turned On With Sue And John

1... 2... 3... How many sex partners have you had? Don't answer that. Because, the reality is, it doesn't matter. Your sexual history isn't a report card, or a scoreboard. Today Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie and John discuss "The Body Count." Sue's Sassy Sex Secret this week: The "Pulse and Pause" Edging Hack For swingers, a conversation with Bob from Naughty N'awlins plus... Hollywood Gets the Lif...

There is so much bad sex advice out there. And, sadly, a lot of people hear it, try it and things end up worse than they were. Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie has been a leading expert on this since the early 90s and on today's episode of Turned On With Sue And John, she addresses a lot of the bad advice, and sets the record straight on what DOES work! Including new sex ideas to hear things up and th...

Have you ever just been in the presence of someone, even just in passing, and get an undeniable, overwhelming feeling of desire for them? Instantly? Today's conversation is all about lust. Merrium-Webster defines it as: usually intense or unbridled sexual desire : lasciviousness an intense longing : craving to have an intense desire or need : crave specifically : to have a sexual urge We'll also r...

The flowing hair, the six pack abs, the tall dark and handsome figure who looks like he belongs on the cover of a romance novel... He is not what women really want. We'll even take a huge dick and fat wallet out of the equation. Today, Sex With Sue's Sue McGarvie reveals the things that women REALLY want from a man. We'll dive into "Looksmaxing" and even "dickmaxing" on this episode. Also today, t...

Today’s oral presentation is all about… Oral!
We’ll introduce you to Jasmine, who partnered with Sue last weekend for an entire workshop devoted to oral sex!  As a working professional, she’ll let you in on all kinds of tips (pardon the pun) and tricks! Sue also discusses some of the biggest oral sex myths on this episode as well as her “sassy sex secret” of the week; the frozen grape tr...

Perhaps you see more of it because of the algorithm... Especially if you're in the lifestyle already and tend to search a lot of content on ethical non monogamy. But, swinging does seem to be much more common online and in the public discourse than ever. Has it become TOO mainstream? We dive into that today. Also this week, listeners ask if their love of seeing sweaty women at the gym is unusual,...

What makes you feel desired? A touch? A text? Holding hands? Today we talk about how to open up to your partner about what YOU need from them in order to feel desired... And sexy! On this episode we offer up some examples of questions you can ask them, or even ask yourself in order to start getting more of what you need in order to feel connected. Sue will also give you 10 Desire Builders; things...

Ballmaxing. It was the subject of an article published a few days ago that caught our attention and it's something Sue gets a lot of questions about. For a variety of reasons, people love to experiment with their privates! From injecting saline into the balls, to inserting sounding instruments into the urethra, to weights, to rings, to pills and countless other things that many find make things fe...

It's a hot topic on Reddit right now... How awkward and weird humans are about our sexual desires, kinks, and behaviors around sex. On this episode we get into WHY we're so weird. From how we eroticize, literally, everything from spread sheets to bed sheets, to aliens. We discuss what it is that attracts so many of us to people who many would refer to as "the crazy ones" and our weird sex quirks....

Today, in a nutshell, we're going to address why most sex feels... Fine... But not amazing. You're going to get amazing tips on how to slow things down, how to connect better, and by the end of this episode you'll have incredible tools to put to use to better understand why your body responds the way it does before, during and after sex, and Sue will even set you up with 14 things you can do to up...

It's National Superhero Day today and your Superhero Of Sex - Sue McGarvie is here to talk about the sex that feels like a drug. The kind that can turn into a problem. Sue and John discuss what people mean when they say "sex addict" plus compulsive masturbation and the "addictive partner phenomenon." What is is about that person who you can't stop thinking about? Also how early porn use can predic...

Bigger, Better… or Just Louder? What actually creates enlarged parts - and what is complete BS! This episode of Turned On With Sue And John is all about size! Including - Can you actually change your body, or just how it performs? The difference between growing and enhancing - including breast size (we'll speak with Demora Avarice - whose chest is so big, there isn't a bra size big enough - and di...

Your sex drive. It can be a crazy ride. From highs to lows and often, you can be completely distracted. Let's get you back in your lane! In this conversation, Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie gives you 5 Ways to Turn Up the Heat (Without Trying Harder) AND you'll also hear TEN things you can do if your libido has gone MIA. In our So You're A Swinger segment this week - a question who feels that w...

Orgasms. What do you do when you just can't get there? It happens! Today's conversation with Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie, and John, is all about the BIG O. And Sue will even share with you her 10 Fixes for Orgasm Roadblocks! We'll also discuss the refractory period and how to come back faster and without any weird supplements. A new segment this week... Sue's Sassy Sex Secret: Do the "3-3-3" if y...

Welcome to another sex ed lesson that nobody gave you in high school. Sex ed for grown ups with Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie and co-host John. Today we talk sperm. And testosterone. And why your body is, frankly, weird. Plus we introduce you to an incredible new app called Moanr™ with its creators, Kevin & Tracy Daly! Moanr™ is the first privacy-first relationship app designed for your total w...

Men... We are about to change your life on today's podcast. You're welcome! Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie and John share the best tips you'll find anywhere on what you need to do in order to generate the response from her that you've been hoping for. It comes down to being engaged, invested and interesting. If she's interested, she'll give you all kinds of signs. And we reveal what to watch and lis...

It's the St. Patrick's Day edition of Turned On With Sue And John... Today is all about getting lucky! Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie offers some of her best tips on what works to get you laid... Beginning with understanding the three little brain hormones that can make that happen! Plus sex, scent and subtle power - chemistry hacks that no one has taught you, until now! We also do a deep dive on Ho...

Sue is just back from two weeks in Thailand, where the attitude about sex work is incredibly different from the norm. Today we discuss Fantasy, Money, and the World’s Oldest Transaction! First up - the thing nobody wants to admit about sex work, and why so many are attracted to it. The money conversation is part of today's episode... Including our belief that with world events and changes in emplo...

It's what people are desperate to talk about, but are too shy to talk about. Sex. And we talk about it here, on Turned On With Sue And John! Today, at the request of one of our listeners, we devote over an hour talking about the prostate. And we're joined by Caitlin V, host of HBO's GOOD SEX, and author of Harder, Better, Longer, Stronger: Science, Skills, and Secrets for the Best Sex of Your Life...

You are about to get an incredible lesson on seduction! Today, Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie and John discuss seduction techniques that nobody has ever pulled you aside to teach you. Until right now! On this episode you'll hear seduction truths, and what swingers know about seduction... Often their seduction strategies work, but not always. We'll get into the rejection factor as well. Sue also intr...

It's actually why we chose to call our podcast TURNED ON. We knew we'd be having important and intimate conversations about everything that turns us on. In other words; arousal. Today, Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie and John do a deep dive on the topic. Including why low libido is usually just lousy sex, and why good people end up having boring sex. Find out why you can't negotiate the things that e...

It's the Domme (or Dom) show - where we do a deep dive in the dark and mysterious world of BDSM. Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie and John do a deep dive into everything from misconceptions about what goes on in the dungeon to defining the euphoria known as "sub space." More often than not, the sexiest thing a Dominant does has nothing to do with a whip. You'll discover why giving women the power mean...

Oooh this is an especially spicy conversation today! Sex With Sue's Sue McGarvie and John talk about Taboos, and the sex you really want when no one is watching. What do we mean by that? The kinks we're too nervous to admit to anyone that we have. The things we secretly watch on porn sites. Seeking time with professional dominants and sex workers. Also this week, we are overloaded with kinky confe...

We absolutely love when YOU, our listener, determines what is discussed on this podcast!  Last week’s episode on the penis was inspired by a request from our audience, and this week, in response to many who wrote to us to ask if we’d talk about her parts as well, we are! This is the “Vag Show” from Turned On With Sue And John. Today Sue will cover everything from setting the record strai...

It’s another, in a long list of things, that people really want to talk about, but are too shy to talk about.
Penis size. On this episode of Turned On With Sue And John, we’re talking about it! Including, what things actually work to increase length and girth.  There are some crazy things on the market and we’ll help you steer clear of some of them. Men deal with a lot of anxiety over th...