Truly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica Trufant

Relationships are full of emotions and even the best relationships can feel exhausting at times. The good news is that you can make it through those challenges. But, how do you know if you're in an emotionally draining relationship? What do you do if you feel drained in your relationship? Or, maybe you feel that you ARE the one emotionally draining your partner. We tapped into advice from cli...

Marcus and Jessica have learned that communication is the foundation to a happy marriage. In this episode, they ask each other 10 questions that all married couples should ask each other on a regular basis... just to check in, reconnect and open-up more to each other.  Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

We’ve had a lot of sex in our 16 years together and sex has definitely changed over the years. Intimacy is about a lot more than sex and it’s natural for the frequency of sex to ebb and flow. In this episode, we dive deep into our sex life, how we make sex a priority even with 5 kids, and our best advice to keep it sexy in long-term relationships.    Here are some questions you’ll hear us talk abo...

Jess never thought that her breast implants were the cause of her mysterious pain. She had been suffering from chronic pain and other symptoms for a long time and after 10 years with the same implants, Jess was worried that she might have breast implant illness. Once she saw a doctor she had some major decisions to make about the future of her breast implants - she considered full removal, fat tra...

From homeschooling to mental health struggles, Marcus and Jessica open up about how the lock downs and pandemic are affecting their family a year into it. Later, we answer some spicy questions from our listeners.  Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

Our listeners want all the tea! In this episode, Marcus and Jessica answer some of the most frequently asked questions from their listeners. Whose idea was it to do the podcast? Is it hard opening up on a public forum like a podcast? What has it been like around Jessica's mom since the sex episode? Later on, we try drinks from San Juan Seltzer and Elysian Brewing. Special thanks to Black Coff...

The Trufants oldest daughter just turned 15, and as she gets older, Jessica is starting to get nervous. In this episode, they get real about how they're preparing for the day that she will leave the nest. Or, maybe she won't (if Jessica has her way). Later, the Trufant's gave it to the Peloton craze - is it worth it? Does it live up to the hype? Find out in episode 14.  Follow @trul...

Relationships are not always "rainbows and puppies." They are hard work. And, sometimes it can feel like you come from different planets. Probably why here's a lot of hype around the book, "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus." People have literally said it saved their marriage. In this episode, the Trufants, are joined by Jessica's best friend Rimah to discuss so...

The Trufant family swapped the Seattle rain for sunshine in Hawaii for the holidays. Turns out, even paradise is weird in the middle of a pandemic - add 5 kids and 44 people on top of that and they were in for quite the experience. From meeting all the requirements to travel, getting the kids COVID tested and even the hassle of eating at a resort, this was not your typical vacation. Later on, the...

Marcus turned the big 4-0 and Jessica threw him a surprise birthday party! We revisit the sex talk - from favorite positions to PDA to birthday nookie. Things get a little awkward with Jessica's mom in the live audience of their closest friends and family (who have all been COVID-tested.) Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

The Trufants talk about S-E-X. Jessica (a self-proclaimed reformed Catholic) breaks out of her comfort zone and Marcus goes all-in about sex after 12 years of marriage (and 5 kids later.) Jess shares advice about talking to kids about sex. And, the couple answers some really personal questions about their sex life.  Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

Jessica and Marcus get real about the struggles they've faced and how they have persevered for over 16 years. From dealing with jealousy and haters to breakups, to how they feel about prenuptial agreements and how having 5 kids changed things. They really open up about it all while dropping some truth bombs and heartfelt advice for making relationships last - struggles and all.  Follow @truly...

The Trufants spill the tea about their big wedding day. Talk about drama - Marcus was hammered, Jessica was pregnant (and maybe a little bit of a bridezilla) and their wedding was bat shit crazy in the most off-the-hook way! Jessica reveals her biggest wedding planning regrets. The DREAM Trufant wedding might have turned into pure comedy gold but, in the end, "it's all love and light,&qu...

Marcus reveals how he proposed to Jessica 12 years ago. Speaking to the fellas, Marcus talks about the time leading up to the proposal, how he knew what ring to pick out and her ring size. Jessica shares her hilarious viewpoint on the proposal and her feelings about the ring. Can you guess who said "I love you first," you'll have to listen to find out! And, we played a game of &quot...

Marcus and Jessica keep it one-hundred about the ways COVID has changed their family dynamic and how they've adapted to the "new normal." From homeschooling 5 kids who are involved in lots of extracurricular activities, to finding time for intimacy with a house full of other people, to the news of a new COVID vaccine and if they would give it to their kids. Get ready to laugh when M...

The Trufants open up about their normal life as a not-so-normal NFL family. They talk about how they are treated different when people realize that Marcus is an NFL player. Jessica shares about real friends vs fake friends. And, how their kids handle being the children of an NFL player.  Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

The Trufants get real about the early years of their relationship. Together, they discuss their circumstance of having a baby early in their relationship, but not getting married until several years later. Marcus talks about when he knew it was the right time to propose. Jessica shares advice for single women who are dealing with “thirsty” guys while looking for the “perfect” man. As with most new...

Jessica took a detox from social media and the reason why might surprise you. Social media can be a powerful tool for business and networking but, it also has it's toxic side - in this episode Marcus and Jessica talk about the their own experiences with social media from blogging to business to parenting.  Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

In this episode, the Trufants reveal some harsh truths and share hilarious (and real) advice for new parents. They talk about the early days of their relationship from pregnancy to having a new baby all while juggling Marcus’ new NFL career. Spoiler alert: 5 kids were not in “the plan.”  Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

In episode 1, Marcus and Jessica reveal how they met when Marcus was still a Rookie in the NFL. They also discuss some of the challenges they overcame in the beginning of their relationship. And, they speak about some of the trials that come along with being young parents while sharing uplifting advice for new relationships, new parents and newlyweds.  Follow @trulyunruly_podcast