Truly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica Trufant

A woman writes in saying her future mother-in-law has taken over her wedding — picking venues, guest lists, and colors — while her fiancé just freezes up. On top of that, his sister doesn't like her for no reason. Marcus and Jessica break it all down: why the son is really to blame, how to set boundaries without blowing things up, and what happens when parents can't let go of their kids....

This week, Marcus and Jessica dive into a listener email from a remarried dad whose ex-wife can't stand his new wife — despite her being an incredibly loving stepmother to the kids. What started as cold looks and sarcastic comments has escalated to near-brawls at their daughter's high school graduation. They break down the jealousy, unhealed trauma, and co-parenting chaos behind it all,...

Can the wrong relationship actually hurt your body? Marcus and Jessica talk about new research showing that toxic people — partners, friends, even family — put your body under constant stress. When you never feel safe around someone, it messes with your sleep, skin, and energy. They also get into why cutting people off can make you feel better fast, how sharing too much drains you, and why your bo...

Over the last three years, Jessica has gone through what she describes as more than a spiritual awakening — a full excavation of who she is at her core. She talks candidly about the unraveling, the work she put in on herself, and the moment things finally clicked into place. The clarity she gained didn't just change how she sees the world — it changed how she moves through it. That shift has...

Marcus and Jessica break down a viral relationship advice post that's sparking heated debates online. A therapist claims women need to accept "tradeoffs" when dating—want a successful man? Expect long hours. Want ambition? Accept tunnel vision. But is this advice actually helpful, or just basic clickbait? Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

Marcus and Jessica tackle the controversial claim that Gen Z is the first generation to score lower on IQ tests than millennials. Are they really less intelligent, or are we measuring the wrong things? We break down Dr. Jared Cooney Horvath's research on cognitive decline and screen time, debate whether Gen Z is overconfident or just differently skilled, and explore how AI is reshaping the jo...

In this episode of Truly Unruly, Marcus and Jessica dive into a viral post about "what men actually want women to bring to the table" – and let's just say, we have THOUGHTS. We break down why generic relationship advice often misses the mark, discuss the dangers of social media "playbooks," and explore what a real partnership actually looks like beyond surface-level expect...

In this episode, we dive deep into what we love (and don't love) about 18 years of marriage. From vulnerability and commitment to the reality that marriage isn't always a fairytale, we keep it 100% real. We also explore a Morgan Stanley study predicting that by 2030, nearly half of US women ages 25-44 will be single and child-free. Is this progress or a challenge to tradition? We discuss...

In this episode, we dive deep into a controversial topic that sparked some heated debate between us: "Signs A Woman Couldn't Keep A Good Man If She Had One." What We Discuss: Confusing disrespect with honesty and communication styles Double standards in relationships and how we speak to our partners The difference between stability and drama in relationships Using vulnerability as a...

In this episode of Truly Unruly, Marcus and Jessica reflect on aging and celebrate Marcus's milestone birthday, turning 45. They discuss how fashion, technology, and social media shape our lives and relationships across generations. Join the conversation for honest takes, laughs, and real talk about growing older and staying true to yourself. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

In this episode of Truly Unruly, Marcus and Jessica dive into the shifting attitudes of Gen Z and Gen Alpha toward marriage, relationships, and growing up in a tech-driven world. From viral news clips to personal parenting stories, the crew unpacks why today’s teens are less interested in tying the knot, how technology and COVID have changed social lives, and what the future of love and family mig...

Ever wondered why some women find taken men more attractive? In this episode of Truly Unruly, Marcus and Jessica dive into a fascinating study on attraction psychology, exploring why women might be drawn to men who are already in relationships. They unpack the science, share personal stories, and debate the roles of stability, competition, and social proof in modern dating. From the impact of fami...

In this episode of Truly Unruly, Marcus and Jessica Truant dive into the surprising topic of whether couples should sleep in separate rooms. Inspired by a Japanese study showing lower divorce rates among couples who sleep in separate rooms. They debate Western romantic norms, the impact of sleep quality on relationships, and the cultural pressures that shape our expectations of marriage. With humo...

In this episode of Truly Unruly, Marcus and Jessica discuss a survey claiming that couples who communicate everything divorce three times faster than those who strategically keep some things to themselves. They delve into the dynamics of honesty, oversharing, and strategic communication in relationships. They examine the impact of both transparency and discretion on long-term marital success, touc...

In this episode, Marcus and Jessica discuss a viral post of a man who went on a solo vacation because his girlfriend couldn’t afford it. Was he in the wrong for leaving her behind? Check out this latest episode of TrulyUnruly. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

In this episode, Marcus and Jessica discuss the emotional journey of sending their oldest daughter off to college, reflecting on their roles as parents and the transitions that come with it. They share the challenges and joys of parenting, the evolution of their identities as their kids grow older, and the unique perspectives of millennial parents. The conversation also touches on fashion choices...

In this episode of Truly Unruly, hosts Marcus and Jessica have a lively discussion about relationships, attraction, and the complexities of human interaction. They explore the idea of 'reckless eyeballing' and its implications in romantic relationships, the dynamics of attraction, and how ego plays a role in perceptions of loyalty and commitment. The conversation also touches on the pers...

A woman goes viral for saying that she divorced her husband because she didn’t agree to stay if he went broke. Marcus and Jessica delve into this story to discuss what some refer to as the “transactional marriage.” Do you think she’s wrong for leaving him?  Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

In this episode, Marcus and Jessica discuss a viral video of a woman who is upset that her ex won't buy shoes for all her kids. She's upset that her son came home with new shoes but none for the other kids. Does she have a right to feel this way? Also, we touch on the ever-so-controversial P. Diddy trial.    Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

In this episode, Marcus and Jessica receive an email from a guy traveling outside the United States for work. He notices the stark differences between dating American women and foreign women. He claims that American women are more surface-level compared to their foreign counterparts. Do you agree? Listen now for this intriguing conversation. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

The age-old question; is age nothing but a number? This week Marcus and Jessica discuss that timeless question. Is it ok to date someone half your age? Should it be normalized? Or is someone older and wiser taking advantage of someone young and naive? Marcus and Jessica answer all those questions on this episode of Truly Unruly. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

Are diets racist, too? That’s what some say in a new viral video making its way around the Internet. Marcus and Jessica dive in on the controversial video. Plus, the couple shares their thoughts on celebrating 17 years of Marriage. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

In this episode, Marcus and Jessica discuss a topic that has gone viral! Ayesha Curry, the wife of NBA Star Steph Curry, said she puts her husband before her kids. The Trufants discuss Ayesha’s comments and give their perspective in this week's episode.  Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

In this episode, Marcus and Jessica tackle the viral topic sweeping the internet: how social media creates unrealistic relationship expectations. This is a good one you don't want to miss out on. Tune in now! Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

Can you fall in love with someone else while in a good relationship? Surprisingly enough this is a very common question! Marcus and Jessica dive deep into this topic and give their perspective. Marcus believes this is a real thing while Jess on the other hand thinks it’s nonsense. Tune in now! Follow @trulyunruly_podcast