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Today with Sam, the philosophical coach, we talk about how to meet our partners and ourselves with fresh eyes and not get bogged down with the baggage of our past. How we’re not fixed in who we are and how the same applies to our friends, partner(s) and loved ones.   Find Sam: thephilosophicalcoach.com & cpl.thephilosophicalcoach.com Podcast @thishumeanlife.com Social @ thephilosophi...

In 2017, the NY times leaked that the Pentagon’s had an official UFO program since 2008, and it brought the conversation out of the shadows and into the mainstream.  Are we the only civilization in the universe? Are we being visited by ‘aliens’ or are there other intelligent beings already among us that we can’t see, called earth aliens? What is real and what is a hoax?    UFOs...

How is compromising bad for your romantic relationship? Sounds like it goes against everything we’ve been taught but Jáchym, a relationship coach, married to the mother of his child and business partner, knows what he’s talking about when it comes to overcoming relationship challenges. You may remember him from episode #058: Love Isn’t Enough’, where he & his wife discussed their journey of ho...

What happens if you like someone at work? Did the metoo movement make that more complicated or even impossible?
 • We discuss how to go about it in a respectful way and how to protect yourself if you’re ready to make your move... • Also, have parts of the metoo movement, as necessary and about time for it to happen, made it more difficult for women to advance in the workplace….sounds weird, right?...

Today with CJ Grace, former BBC broadcaster and infidelity author of: The Adulterer's Wife, we discuss infidelity and how to overcome it whether we choose to stay or not. We discuss:  • Her husband had an affair with a woman half his age. • The 6-part plan she created to get through it.  • Being happier after the affair.  • Celibacy in marriage. • Pelvic pain contributes to sexless...

Today with Goddess Carroll, founder of Sunseed Community which practices collective healing with body-energy work, including somatic abolition. We discuss topics from sex to who we are as a human species. As serious as it gets at times, the episode is filled with giggles and laughs.
 
We cover: • Decolonising our minds and our bodies. • Ancestral vs generational trauma as in nature versus nurture....

Today with Epiphany Jordan, author of the book: Somebody Hold Me, we talk about platonic touch.

 We cover: • What got her into the world of platonic touch. • How come we miss out on tender touch, when not in a sexual relationship. • The role of touch on our health, in particular our immune & nervous systems. • Differences in how touch is perceived in different cultures and across times. • The...

Today with Sex, Love and Relationship Coach, Jerry Souter who’s back for a second time, we cover: • How to, as a cis-woman, date safely both physically and emotionally. • Recognising red flags. • Love bombing versus when a healthy man knows very early on you’re the one. • Being the muse, not the mother. • What are feminine & masculine energies and how that’s not gender specific. • We are still...

When being broke pushed her to the idea of doing a yard sale, Haley realised the only items of value (other than her phone and laptop) were gifts from her exes, that’s how the idea of her play and subsequent book ‘The Ex-Boyfriend Yard Sale’ came to be.

With the help of a mathematician, she created a formula [for the Cost of Love] that takes into account all the ways we invest or don’t, into our...

Savannah Hauk has two lives: One with a job in IT as Chuck and an other as an author, podcaster, advocate & spokesperson for Crossdressers & the Non-Binary community as Savannah, today Savannah takes us into her world of cross dressing and dual gender.

 In this episode we cover: • Masculine & Feminine Personas. • The journey of how Savannah came to full expression. • Difference betwee...

In today’s part 2 with Jenn Turnham, we dive into the world of Highly Sensitive Extroverts (HSP-Es) by learning the difference between introverts and extroverts and how that looks different for Highly Sensitive People.

 We cover: • The difference between an Introvert, Extrovert and Ambivert (how differently our brain works). • How does that fit in with the HSP model aka HSPe - HSPi - HSPa? • The...

Today with Jenn Turnham who has a background in applied psychology and is a registered BWRT practitioner and coach for HSP-Es (Highly Sensitive Extrovert Person) we demystify the misconceptions society has on HSPs and why those give us a bad name. 

Today, in Part 1, we cover: • What’s a Highly Sensitive Person based on the D.O.E.S Aron’s scale. • Discover with me live on the call why HSPs are a m...

Today with Amanda Filippelli; book coach, editor, writer and recipient of the Pittsburgh Magazine’s 40Under40 award.

 We cover: • Her work in changing the myth that artists are doomed to be broke; demystifying the industry and breaking down those limiting beliefs that we, creatives, walk around with. • Changing the perception we have of our stories so we can reframe them for introspection, healin...

Mike Iamele’s sex life unintentionally went viral but this led him to helping others figure out who they are without any of the labels, with a method he created called: Map Your Sensitivities.

 In today’s episode we cover: • Why knowing our core sensitivities, makes our life so much easier and arguments meaningful. • We go into his love story of how both him and his husband went from thinking the...

After losing her brother in 2013 to suicide whilst he was high on meth & drunk and with a sister who’s still working towards recovery, Melanie Moberg a co-dependency coach, helps the families and friends of those in recovery, her work doesn’t stop there, she also helps those in codependent relationships, that don’t involve substance abuse.  Today we cover codependent relationships with an...

Natasha Koo & Jachym Jerie are a couple and relationship coaches that have gone through the wringer together from long distance, to open, to semi open to polyamorous to closed again, today we discuss its good, bad and ugly and what it takes to make a relationship work. We cover:  - Moving from transactional relationships to being of service to your partner but from a place of synergy, so...

**Today with stand-up comic and accountant Shamiso Mushambi we talk about the juxtaposition of achieving our goals and its cost on our wellbeing if not kept in check. 

We cover: • How she got into stand-up comedy.
 • Taking control of our lives and narratives.
 • Type casting in movies/ series. How Miranda Bailey in Grey's Anatomy means different things to different viewers.
 • Imposter syndrome....

Public speaking isn’t just for TED Talks, so many of us have pivoted online and have to present what we do and sell to bigger and unknown audiences. Today with Brenden Kumarasamy from MasterTalk we cover: • How to become a good public speaker.
 • How do you know if you have something interesting to say.
 • Stop focusing on finding your Why, instead focus on doing something. That’s what will lead t...

On the cusp of the pandemic, Jordan - Founder of Listen Lucy, had just invested for her business to scale from speaking engagements into a speaking agency but 2020 decided otherwise and with events coming to a halt, her business collapsed. Today we talk about how we both sank on the 2020 boat and what helped us bounce back. Both with very different surroundings and support systems.

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*Today with the magnificent Dr Robin Hornstein we talk about how to have a conversation with someone who stands in complete opposition to your beliefs and how to lead with curiosity, not judgement. She comes out with excellent and valuable insights!

 We cover: • How we’re all justified in our mind to believe what we believe. We didn’t get there for no reason, we have history, proof or trauma that...

*Talking can be the most dangerous thing couples do. Today with the magnificent Dr Kalanit Ben-Ari, a relationship therapist, Chairperson of Imago UK, author, speaker, therapist supervisor and parental advisor, we cover: Why compatibility isn’t what we think it is. + The first year is not always a smooth sailing, problem-free honeymoon, Kalanit explains why some of us stumble in the first year whi...

Today is to introduce Season Two coming out next Monday the 15th of Feb 2021 and what happened during that break (the good, the bad and the ugly).

 I’ll also cover the workshops I’ve created and to finish off this episode there’s a recap of Season One in the form of a long trailer which starts 14 minutes in.

 *Content note: this episode discusses mental health and estranged fathers, discretion i...

Today with Dr Kathrine Bejanyan PhD we talk about the awkwardness of finances in dating and relationships.

We go over: • Money imbalance in relationships and how it can affect a relationship.
 • How to deal with money issues in a relationship & have the money talk with your partner when you’re the one earning less and how to manage it as the high earner.
 • The untold story of divorce settlem...

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Today with Author, Blogger and Writing Coach Safiya Robinson we discuss what home is and what does a sense of belonging mean. We have both uprooted several times and so are giving our take into what home has meant and how it changed over the years.
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