Too Old For This Sh*t

Are memories reliable? Memories can be implanted or misremembered and be used against you or someone else. Not always knowingly but it happens.  Today with Kevin, Director of Communications for the British False Memory Society. We go over what they are, when they occur and we can protect ourselves from others [therapists, police and other officials] to implant memories in us. We go over: // R...

Shawn, a trained therapist and now a marriage and relationship expert, specialises in couples who are in business together and whose relationships have either fallen asleep or fallen apart.  We go over: // What got her into this line of work. // Power struggles: Why we have them and how to transcend them. // Practice makes permanent.  // The 7 key Emotional Weapons and their Sub-Weapons....

While TO4TS is on a break, check out this revisit of a past favourite episode (#086 When Self-Help Goes Horribly Wrong and How To Prevent It ). I will return early 2023 with Season 4!!! What led to the death of 3 individuals seeking to better their life and looking for enlightenment at a James Arthur Ray 5-day event? Ray was made famous by the movie The Secret and being featured several times on t...

While TO4TS is on a break, check out this revisit of a past favourite episode (#058 Love Isn’t Enough). I will return early 2023 with Season 4!!! Natasha Koo & Jachym Jerie are a couple and relationship coaches that have gone through the wringer together from long distance, to open, to semi open to polyamorous to closed again, today we discuss its good, bad and ugly and what it takes to make a...

Today’s episode is about money, how to save for your pension and even retire early. Jeremy Schneider breaks it down into bitesize steps to regain control over your finances and redirect your financial trajectory.    We cover:  // Index Funds. // How to change your financial trajectory. // Investing vs speculating. // The dirty little secret of Hedge Funds. // Passive and Active mana...

Today is a laughter filled threeway on divorce with Pete & Seth on all things love, and the weird things heartbreak makes us do.   With podcast Producer Pete, married for 23 years and Divorce Lawyer Seth, engaged to be re-married; we cover: // How they met. // Oddest items fought over in past divorce settlements. // What makes for good relationships? // What is love? // When to stick...

Why do you think black holes exist and where do they lead to? I want to hear your thoughts on this :-)!! Today with Astrophysicist and poet Lindsay we take a fun look at what a black hole is, what lies behind it and where it could all lead to. This is part 2 of this two-part series. We cover: // What are black holes and how are they created? // What’s behind a black hole?  // What happens to...

With astrophysicist and poet Lyndsay, we take a deep-dive into the benefits and harms that come from the Mars exploration & her unusual journey into academia. This is part 1 of a two-part series. We cover: // Her unusual journey into academia. // How we are related to dead stars.  // The ethical issues on the mission to Mars.  // The colonial language & attitude that is continual...

From working with one of rock's most influential bands KISS to being a Florida Supreme Court Family Law Mediator, Mary a Licensed mental health counsellor, is here to wake us up from the codependent funk.  Today we cover: // What is codependency? // How Ted Bundy utilised codependency to trap his victims. // Why healing codependency is a matter of survival. // Why codependency is a form of se...

Are you a good friend or do you feel let down by your friendships? Maybe it’s a bit of both…? Today, Professor, Speaker and author Dr Marisa Franco, gives us some very good insights based on science and how our brain & attachment style interpret things subjectively when it comes to our friendships. We cover: // The one thing we get wrong about friendship. // When to walk away and when to build...

*Recorded June 2022 ⁣ - Will Wood is more than a singer - songwriter, after a great deal of criticism and attempts at cancelling him. He has come out wiser and stronger. I loved hearing his insights on mental health and how  society and culture defines what mental health & illness are.  We go over: + How to keep doing what feels right to you despite people having their own erroneous...

His curiosity, focus and open-mind rewrote our history books, but don’t be fooled, Eske is an adventurer and his life journey is nothing short of extraordinary. Eske Willerslev is the world-leading evolutionary geneticist and the rockstar of science. Today, we discuss where life comes from, conspiracy theories and if our DNA is alien technology. The biggest misunderstanding about Darwinism explain...

Trial Lawyer turned peacemaker, Doug Noll, has since 2009 been working with prisoners, some serving life sentences, who want to learn how to stop the prison–violence. Doug coaches them on how to become mediators and de-escalate conflicts which have had life-changing repercussions and I got him on to share some of his wisdom and methods with us. We cover: - How he got into this line of work. - The...

Abby went from being terrible at relationships to being great at them. She’s a psychologist who believes a leopard can change their spots and as a recovering heroin addict, she knows what she’s talking about. We cover: - We’re as happy as our relationship. - To be good at relationships takes skills you're not born with but you can learn those skills.  - We’re mostly competing for attention an...

What led to the death of 3 individuals seeking to better their life and looking for enlightenment at a James Arthur Ray 5-day event? Ray was made famous by the movie The Secret and being featured several times on the Oprah Winfrey show. Together with Kirby Brown’s mother Ginny, a licensed clinical social worker and her sister Jean, we discuss the perfect storm that led to that tragedy, their missi...

From Venezuela to Harvard Law school, Maria left a 6 figure corporate job to work in the arts. She believes there are no starving artists and shares how that myth came about.  From starting a business to being an entrepreneur as an employee, we share our thoughts and widely different experiences on following our passions. Enjoy! Find Maria: https://www.mariabrito.com/     ✨ Do...

From Cirque du Soleil to big corporate America, Jay has helped leaders and team members undo terrible behaviour and resolve toxic environments.   In this episode we dive into how-to speak up at work when a boss crosses a line & in return how bosses can better deal with conflicts.   From sharing great stories to how-to formulas, Jay gives us plenty to think about!  Jay Guilf...

How do you reduce or remove alcohol if you're known as the party girl or just used to have a drink after work as a ritual to cut off your work day? Sarah’s been there, done that and now helps others change their relationship to alcohol, without shame or guilt.  She shares her thoughts on:  + National Alcohol guidelines. + Not needing to hit rock bottom to make a change. + What on earth d...

James Preece a professional dating coach based in London shares his insights on how to lift your online profile to attract better matches not and to that end he reviews mine… We also go over: // How to avoid typical online dating traps. // A quick fiery round of yes/no answers to some more typical dating questions. // Some great conversation starters so your first date doesn’t sound like an interv...

BIG THANK YOUsssss + today, I share some more behind the scenes of producing a podcast, namely the 6 automations all podcasters need - there are more but for today, I’ll keep to 6 😉- you’d be surprised how many seasoned podcasters aren’t implementing these! You can hear it first-hand when I’m a guest on other podcasts to talk on all things production. Wishing you a Happy Holiday Season! ✨ Don’t...

Today, I share some behind the scenes of producing a podcast, namely the 4 common mistakes I see many podcasters make with their guests - there are more but today, I’ll keep it to 4 😉! And also, an update on what happened at work…. And a big thank you to YOU! ✨ Don’t be a stranger: 🎙️ Thinking about starting your own podcast? My membership at getyourpodcastdone.com will help you actually do the...

Today with Isabella Beham, Matchmaker and Love Recruiter, we talk about the difference between being bad and being wild. This conversation took me places I didn’t expect and I absolutely loved it. We cover:  + Disobedient men and women vs the bad rebellious ones. + The dark side of spirituality.  + Confusing people pleasing with sex positivity.  + And how there is no toxic masculini...

Writer, body image activist and coach Marci lived a double life for many years, which led her to being consumed by shame and guilt which almost cost her her life. Her story is about how to unshackle yourself from your mind’s chains, being free and truly exploring who you are.  Find Marci’s book: https://amzn.to/3DAqPT0 & Social @marciwarhaft  ✨ Don’t be a stranger: 🎙️ Thinking about...

Today with Leslie, a divorce lawyer, relationship coach and author, we discuss how to not let cynicism ruin your chances at Love, and the things you need to know when it comes to prenups, postnups and settlements.   We cover: + How come as a divorce lawyer, she is not cynical when it comes to love. + Personal accountability and growth being pivotal in relationships. + Self-fulfillment.&n...

You left that terrible relationship, you’ve done the work in therapy but now what? How do you recognise a healthy partner and how do you not sabotage a good thing? Tune in to hear Shannon, a Licensed Professional Counselor is back for a 4th time to tell her happy ending / new beginning story. This is about how you can put old damaging patterns to bed. We share tips on how to know on a cellular lev...