To 50 and Beyond | Midlife and Alcohol-Free Lifestyle

Episode 312  I got behind the mic this week to reflect openly on alcohol to encourage you to leave it in 2024 if you're tired of what alcohol brings into your life.  As we wrap up 2024, I want you to know that if you're living alcohol-free, I'm celebrating with you. If you're working on freeing yourself from alcohol, I'm inspired by your perseverance.  And if you're at that crossroads wondering wh...

When you are ready to take a drink break, you should explore different tools to see what works for you. I appreciate innovative approaches to lifestyle changes, which is why I invited Silvia Subirana, today's guest, to share her expertise. As a clinical psychologist and Head of Content Development at MyDry30, Silvia brings a unique perspective to transforming our relationship with alcohol. During...

Episode 310  What Are You Waiting For? A question and episode that comes with a compassionate approach and encouragement to help you get a clear understanding of what is holding you back from going alcohol-free. Asking this question isn't about the urgency to hurry things up and stop drinking. It's about being honest with yourself and easing your mind if you're worried about your drinking and pres...

Episode 309 Is living alcohol-free for you? My guest in episode 309 is Lindsay Sutherland Boal, a trailblazer in the sobriety community who shares insights into the meaning of an alcohol-free lifestyle and what it takes and doesn't take to create a lifestyle that alcohol can't touch. You will love this episode if you are on the fence about going alcohol-free.  Lindsay Sutherland Boal is the vision...

In this episode, I share a heartfelt message on staying alcohol-free during the holidays.  I know it's not an easy thing to do, which makes you a bada** in my eyes.  From my personal experience of quitting drinking in 2013, I discuss how to handle holiday triggers, create new associations, and honor your choice to stay alcohol-free. Whether this is your first sober holiday or you're beyond that, y...

Episode 307 As a lifelong people pleaser who frequently works with many women—many of whom also tend to please others and drink as a way to cope with their feelings—I reached out to Karen after discovering her insightful book,  When Making Others Happy Is Making You Miserable: How to Break the Pattern of People Pleasing and Confidently Live Your Life . Karen Ehman is a New York Times bestselling a...

Episode 306 Hello there. I'm happy you're here.  I'm cheering for you always.  In this episode, I help you navigate the often dreaded question: Why aren't you drinking? Here are some key points to help you handle this situation with confidence: Recognize and validate your fear or discomfort about being asked this question. Stay focused on your reasons for not drinking. Your why-power is stronger t...

Episode 305  Hello friend!  I'm so happy you're here. Thank you for listening to To 50 and Beyond.  Do you remember the Calgon commercial from the 1970s? In it, the gal was stressed at the end of her day and said, "Calgon, take me away!"   This episode is about our desire to escape from daily life stressors. It's a natural human experience. If we don't practice escaping, we let our stressors feste...

Episode 304 Hello! I'm glad you're here.  Today, we're diving into a topic that's been on my mind for a while - the realizations women have after they stop drinking. This isn't just about the good stuff, though. We're going to talk about the hard parts too. I want to give you a peek inside what it's really like to go alcohol-free later in life. It's not always easy, and it's not always fun. But it...

Episode 303 Hello there!  Are you halfway through a 30-day break from alcohol and feeling like you need a reset? You're not alone!  In this episode, I'll share encouragement and practical tips to help you refocus and make the most of the remaining 15 days. We'll explore the importance of self-compassion, reconnecting with your 'why', and strategies to overcome common challenges. Plus, I'll guide y...

https://www.lorimassicot.com/to-50-and-beyond-podcast/302Episode 302  The purpose of this short and sweet episode is to remind you to be patient and celebrate your progress in your journey towards alcohol freedom. Your "process" is unique, and it's not just about consecutive alcohol-free days. It's about what you learn and discover along the way. I'll give you ideas to help you celebrate your grow...

Episode 301  If you're feeling like something is off and you're not sure what it is, it could be that you're outgrowing a past version of yourself. A version that may not be aligned to who you want to be today and tomorrow, and is not giving you positive vibes. 😅 This episode was inspired by the idea of outgrowing alcohol, and a quote that hit me right in the ol' thinking cap.  We shrink ourselve...

Episode #300 Hello! I'm glad you're here. If you're a midlife woman who is tired of turning to alcohol as a source of comfort and want to turn to yourself instead, this episode is for you! Alcohol is often perceived as a source of comfort, especially for women in midlife facing next-level challenges and stressors. Chardonnay was my friend and it wrapped me in comfort like a warm cozy blanket for y...

Hello there! I'm glad you're here!  My guest in episode 299 is Jen Hirst, Sober Coach, and founder of Lighthouse Sobriety, who is here to help you create more structure in your day by adding habits that will help you maintain sobriety. One of the things I appreciate about Jen is her practical approach to getting and staying sober. And, her support that she shares on Instagram! I reached out to Jen...

Episode 297 Are you planning a vacation and want to stay alcohol-free but feeling unsure if you can manage it? I've been there too. When I stopped drinking, I struggled with the idea that a vacation could be enjoyable without alcohol. For me, alcohol and vacation were intertwined in my belief of what made a trip fun. It took one sober trip to realize that vacations could be just as enjoyable witho...

Episode 295 In this episode, I share my personal journey and experiences with sobriety, addressing the common question: When does sobriety stop being hard? I've shared my story since the beginning of this podcast. I had a tough time in the first and second years. I went it on my own. In 2013, I didn't know about podcasts or books about sobriety. Change and transition are tough, even if you appreci...

Episode 294 In this episode, I'm answering a question from a To 50 and Beyond listener, Maggie. Maggie sent me an email and said: I've heard you talk about your social anxiety when you were 14 and started drinking as you got older. Did having anxiety hold you back from quitting drinking? And how did you manage it once you stopped drinking?   Anxiety has been one of the most difficult things I've h...

Episode 293  Day One. There is so much possibility there. I love day one! I don't love how "starting over" can make you feel when you are working so hard at staying sober in midlife. In this episode, I discuss the feeling of starting over and how you can feel and reframe it. I also share my experience of starting over on Day One for the last time. If you are in a program where resetting your clock...

Episode 292  I enjoyed drinking alone, and I know that being alone can be a challenge when you stop drinking.  Whether you live alone or find drinking alone an enjoyable "reward," but you don't want to continue drinking, this episode is for you. Today, I'm answering a question from a To 50 and Beyond listener, Kim, as part of my six-week Q&A series.  Kim sent me an email saying:   I go about 30 da...

Episode 291 Today, I'm answering the question: What if my drinking isn't "bad enough" to quit?  I've heard this question from midlife women for years and asked myself this question for two years. f you are on the verge of going alcohol-free but aren't 100% certain that your drinking is at a place where you "need" to remove alcohol completely, this is the episode for you. Even though my drinking wa...

If you have a question you would like answered on the podcast, send me an email! Episode 290 If you are a gal in midlife who is questioning her drinking and having a hard time getting sober, I'm with you. In this episode, I answer a client's question: What was the hardest part of getting sober for you? After she asked me this question, I didn't hesitate. The hardest part for me was deciding to sto...

Episode 289  Hey there, friend!  This episode comes straight from my heart and is for the moms and grandmas of the world who feel regretful about their drinking.  I share what becoming a mom was like, how I started drinking the day I came home from the hospital, and why I quit drinking for myself, not my son, but stay sober for him today.  I also talk about how I'm living with the regret of my dri...

Bonus episode  Hello friend! I'm popping in today to share with you a new free resource I created, The Daily Sobriety Toolkit.  I'm so excited to share this toolkit with you!  The Daily Sobriety Toolkit is your trusted companion to help you plan your day and stay connected to the reason why you are choosing yourself over alcohol today. Not forever. You can grab your toolkit here.  Thank you for li...

Episode 288  I first came across Dr. Dawn's Instagram account and was immediately drawn to her passion for helping others and the way she teaches and shares her wisdom - which is why I reached out to invite her back to the podcast to help us understand more about what hormones are the hormones that are the key players during menopause and how alcohol affects our hormones during this time. Dr. Dawn...

Episode 286  I invited Sarah Rusbatch to the podcast to talk about Alcohol Use Disorder and share how alcohol impacts women as we get older. Sarah is a Gray Area Drinking and Menopause coach, as well as the author of the book Beyond Booze: How to Create a Life You Love Alcohol-free. Sarah and I discuss the importance of addressing alcohol use disorder for women in midlife, exploring coping mechani...