Jake Ernst & Simon Paluck

This Isn’t Therapy

Health EN ↓ 241 episodes

This Isn’t Therapy... it's a podcast about it! Therapy themes are everywhere you look— they’re in your relationships, in the culture, and yes, inside of you, Mary! Each week, Jake Ernst and Simon Paluck peel back the therapy curtain to discuss the very things people are talking to their therapists about. No topic is off limits! New episodes drop every Thursday.⁣The hosts:Jake: https://www.instagram.com/mswjakeSimon: https://www.instagram.com/directedbysimonThe pod: https://www.instagram.com/thisisnttherapypod

Author

Jake Ernst & Simon Paluck

Category

Health

Latest episode

Jun 25, 2026

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Episodes

Co-Regulation & Passive Aggressive Texts 25.06.2026

This Isn't Therapy... it's the final episode of the season where we cover co-regulation and passive aggressive texts. Through a deep dive into the concept of co-regulation and a submission from a lovely listener about passive aggressive texts, Jake and Simon do their best to weave these two therapy themes together. Asking for a Friend: https://forms.gle/LofZNaNzGe22W7XG7 Follow us! Instagram &...

Friendship Crushes & Social Milestones 18.06.2026

This Isn't Therapy... it's a convo about friendship crushes and the social milestones. Simon discusses a reddit post about a friendship crush and Jake teaches the lovely listeners about the social milestones: latch, leap, and launch! Asking for a Friend: https://forms.gle/LofZNaNzGe22W7XG7 Follow us! Instagram & TikTok | @thisisnttherapypod Jake | @mswjake Simon | @directedbysimon Listen to Th...

Nostalgia Core & Corporate Speak 04.06.2026

This Isn't Therapy... it's a sneaky convo about what happens when we use (and overuse!) corporate jargon in the workplace and real life AND a deeper dive into why we feel nostalgic when we watch media from years yonder.  Asking for a Friend: https://forms.gle/LofZNaNzGe22W7XG7 Follow us! Instagram & TikTok | @thisisnttherapypod Jake | @mswjake Simon | @directedbysimon Listen to This Isn’t Ther...

Projection & Aspect Ratios 28.05.2026

This Isn't Therapy... it's a convo about projection (the psychological defense that makes us transfer our stuff onto others) and aspect ratios (and the hidden reasons why filmmakers choose certain widths and heights in movies and tv). Asking for a Friend: https://forms.gle/LofZNaNzGe22W7XG7 Follow us! Instagram & TikTok | @thisisnttherapypod Jake | @mswjake Simon | @directedbysimon Listen to T...

Company Retreat & Texting Your Ex 21.05.2026

This Isn't Therapy... it's a fun, flirty, fab convo about the Amazon Prime show "Company Retreat" and a reddit user's query about whether or not they should text their ex. Juicy!  Asking for a Friend: https://forms.gle/LofZNaNzGe22W7XG7 Follow us! Instagram & TikTok | @thisisnttherapypod Jake | @mswjake Simon | @directedbysimon Listen to This Isn’t Therapy: Spotify: ⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://open.spotify.c...

Sycophantic AI & Why We Love Documentaries 14.05.2026

This Isn't Therapy... it's a fun, flirty, fab convo about sycophantic AI and the psychology behind why we love documentaries.  Asking for a Friend: https://forms.gle/LofZNaNzGe22W7XG7 Follow us! Instagram & TikTok | @thisisnttherapypod Jake | @mswjake Simon | @directedbysimon Listen to This Isn’t Therapy: Spotify: ⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://open.spotify.com/show/0gvAhpRsaI8lDip7B1Jpi9?si=HIWUpJYbRiuxpuMABa4...

Compilation: Family Dynamics 07.05.2026

This Isn't Therapy...it's a flirty, fun, fab *compilation* episode of our greatest hits - featuring convos about family dynamics!  Asking for a Friend: https://forms.gle/LofZNaNzGe22W7XG7 Follow us! Instagram & TikTok | @thisisnttherapypod Jake | @mswjake Simon | @directedbysimon Listen to This Isn’t Therapy: Spotify: ⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://open.spotify.com/show/0gvAhpRsaI8lDip7B1Jpi9?si=HIWUpJYbRiuxpuM...

"What Should I Do?" & Cognitive Bias 30.04.2026

This Isn't Therapy... it's a cheeky convo about solving problems and dealing with change and the mental biases that hold us back. Asking for a Friend: https://forms.gle/LofZNaNzGe22W7XG7 Follow us! Instagram & TikTok | @thisisnttherapypod Jake | @mswjake Simon | @directedbysimon Listen to This Isn’t Therapy: Spotify: ⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://open.spotify.com/show/0gvAhpRsaI8lDip7B1Jpi9?si=HIWUpJYbRiuxpuMA...

✨ Astrology ✨ & Coaching vs. Therapy 23.04.2026

This Isn't Therapy... it's the episode about astrology and the coaching vs. therapy debate. In this episode, Jake and Simon tackle the relationship between astrology and mental health and the long-time-coming debate about therapy vs. coaching. Asking for a Friend: https://forms.gle/LofZNaNzGe22W7XG7 Follow us! Instagram & TikTok | @thisisnttherapypod Jake | @mswjake Simon | @directedbysimon Li...

Digital Isolation & Main Character Energy 16.04.2026

This Isn't Therapy... its a fun flirty fab conversation about a lovely listener's experience with loneliness, despite having online friends and the impact of main character energy. Asking for a Friend: https://forms.gle/LofZNaNzGe22W7XG7 Sources: Main Character Syndrome" is Making Gen-Z the Loneliest Generation by Coco Mocoe Follow us! Instagram & TikTok | @thisisnttherapypod Jake | @mswjake S...

The Business of Calm & How to Make a Major Life Decision 09.04.2026

This Isn't Therapy... its a fun flirty fab conversation about the (ironic) mental health struggles occurring at Calm and a reddit user's question about learning how to trust your gut.  Asking for a Friend: https://forms.gle/LofZNaNzGe22W7XG7 Sources: “Calm’s CEO on the mental health struggle at the top of big companies” by Andrew Edgecliffe-Johnson Follow us! Instagram & TikTok | @thisisntther...

Hilary Duff & Sports Betting 02.04.2026

This Isn't Therapy... its a fun flirty fab conversation about sibling relationships, inspired by Hilary Duff's "We Don't Talk" (off her latest album),  and the growing risk of sports betting. Asking for a Friend: https://forms.gle/LofZNaNzGe22W7XG7 Follow us! Instagram & TikTok | @thisisnttherapypod Jake | @mswjake Simon | @directedbysimon Listen to This Isn’t Therapy: Spotify: ⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://op...

Sexistential (Robyn) & Trad Wives 26.03.2026

This Isn't Therapy... its a fun flirty fab conversation about Robyn's latest album "Sexistential" (out now!) and the growing "soft-girl" & Trad Wife trend. Asking for a Friend: https://forms.gle/LofZNaNzGe22W7XG7 Articles: The Falsehood of Soft Girls and Trad Wives , Time Magazine Follow us! Instagram & TikTok | @thisisnttherapypod Jake | @mswjake Simon | @directedbysimon Listen to This Is...

Gift-Giving Pressure & Goodness Anxiety 19.03.2026

This Isn't Therapy... its a conversation about that feeling you get when you give and receive gifts and the pressure we put on ourselves to be a good person. Asking for a Friend: https://forms.gle/LofZNaNzGe22W7XG7 Follow us! Instagram & TikTok | @thisisnttherapypod Jake | @mswjake Simon | @directedbysimon Listen to This Isn’t Therapy: Spotify: ⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://open.spotify.com/show/0gvAhpRsaI8lDi...

Oversharing Online & Gen Z Going Sober 12.03.2026

This Isn't Therapy... it's the episode about all things Gen Z: from oversharing online to going sober and drinking less. Asking for a Friend: https://forms.gle/LofZNaNzGe22W7XG7 Follow us! Instagram & TikTok | @thisisnttherapypod Jake | @mswjake Simon | @directedbysimon Listen to This Isn’t Therapy: Spotify: ⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://open.spotify.com/show/0gvAhpRsaI8lDip7B1Jpi9?si=HIWUpJYbRiuxpuMABa4I_A ⁠⁠...

Irrational Anger & Productivity Guilt 05.03.2026

This Isn't Therapy... its an episode about anger in all its forms and the pressure we put on ourselves to be productive (sometimes to the point of guilt!) Asking for a Friend: https://forms.gle/LofZNaNzGe22W7XG7 Follow us! Instagram & TikTok | @thisisnttherapypod Jake | @mswjake Simon | @directedbysimon Listen to This Isn’t Therapy: Spotify: ⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://open.spotify.com/show/0gvAhpRsaI8lDip7B...

Being High Maintenance & Being Low Maintenance 26.02.2026

This Isn't Therapy... it's a convo about the tricky and delicate balance between being high maintenance and being low maintenance. Asking for a Friend: https://forms.gle/LofZNaNzGe22W7XG7 Follow us! Instagram & TikTok | @thisisnttherapypod Jake | @mswjake Simon | @directedbysimon Listen to This Isn’t Therapy: Spotify: ⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://open.spotify.com/show/0gvAhpRsaI8lDip7B1Jpi9?si=HIWUpJYbRiuxpuM...

Survivor & Hot Girl Walks 19.02.2026

This Isn't Therapy... it's the long-time-coming episode about the social ins-and-outs of Survivor and the TikTok trend "Hot Girl Walks." Asking for a Friend: https://forms.gle/LofZNaNzGe22W7XG7 Follow us! Instagram & TikTok | @thisisnttherapypod Jake | @mswjake Simon | @directedbysimon Listen to This Isn’t Therapy: Spotify: ⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://open.spotify.com/show/0gvAhpRsaI8lDip7B1Jpi9?si=HIWUpJYbR...

The Chore of Self-Care & The Mindset Quiz 12.02.2026

This Isn’t Therapy… it’s an episode about how self-care is now being seen as equivalent to chores for certain groups of people. Next, Jake and Simon take the lovely listeners through The Mindset Quiz to help you reflect on your general mindset on certain topics; from love and belonging to managing change and control. The Mindset Quiz Asking for a Friend: https://forms.gle/LofZNaNzGe22W7XG7 Follow...

Finding Love & Sexy AI Companions 05.02.2026

This Isn't Therapy... it's the episode about finding love and the phenomenon of Sexy AI companions. In this episode, Jake and Simon tackle a question from a lovely listener and dive into the emerging world of AI-generated romantic relationships. Asking for a Friend: https://forms.gle/LofZNaNzGe22W7XG7 Follow us! Instagram & TikTok | @thisisnttherapypod Jake | @mswjake Simon | @directedbysimon...

The Default Mode Network & Feeling “Muted” 29.01.2026

This Isn’t Therapy… it’s the episode about The Default Mode Network, responsible for helping us be bored, self reflect, and go into real rest. From there, Simon and Jake talk about what it might mean if you’re feeling muted emotions or blunted emotional reactions all too often. Asking for a Friend: https://forms.gle/LofZNaNzGe22W7XG7 Follow us! Instagram & TikTok | @thisisnttherapypod Jake | @...

Extinction of Experience & Friendship Breakups 22.01.2026

This Isn't Therapy... it's an episode about the extinction of essential human experiences and what to do when you and your friends are on shaky ground. Asking for a Friend: https://forms.gle/LofZNaNzGe22W7XG7 Follow us! Instagram & TikTok | @thisisnttherapypod Jake | @mswjake Simon | @directedbysimon Listen to This Isn’t Therapy: Spotify: ⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://open.spotify.com/show/0gvAhpRsaI8lDip7B1Jp...

Decision Fatigue & Being Attracted To Your Therapist 15.01.2026

This Isn't Therapy... it's an episode about decision overwhelm and being attracted to your therapist. Asking for a Friend: https://forms.gle/LofZNaNzGe22W7XG7 Follow us! Instagram & TikTok | @thisisnttherapypod Jake | @mswjake Simon | @directedbysimon Listen to This Isn’t Therapy: Spotify: ⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://open.spotify.com/show/0gvAhpRsaI8lDip7B1Jpi9?si=HIWUpJYbRiuxpuMABa4I_A ⁠⁠Apple Podcasts: ⁠⁠⁠...

The Drama Triangle & Bedrotting 09.01.2026

This Isn't Therapy... it's an episode about The Drama Triangle by Stephen Karpman and chronically online terminology, from brainrot to bedrot. Asking for a Friend: https://forms.gle/LofZNaNzGe22W7XG7 Follow us! Instagram & TikTok | @thisisnttherapypod Jake | @mswjake Simon | @directedbysimon Listen to This Isn’t Therapy: Spotify: ⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://open.spotify.com/show/0gvAhpRsaI8lDip7B1Jpi9?si=HIW...

Setting Good Goals & Disaster Capitalism 01.01.2026

This Isn't Therapy... it's an episode about goal setting and the careless need to create carnage in the name of profit. Asking for a Friend: https://forms.gle/LofZNaNzGe22W7XG7 Follow us! Instagram & TikTok | @thisisnttherapypod Jake | @mswjake Simon | @directedbysimon Listen to This Isn’t Therapy: Spotify: ⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://open.spotify.com/show/0gvAhpRsaI8lDip7B1Jpi9?si=HIWUpJYbRiuxpuMABa4I_A ⁠⁠A...

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