The Zachary Stockill Podcast

In today’s video, I’m going to share my top-5 lessons from the past year for retroactive jealousy survivors. Watch the video below, or read below to learn more about how to reach your goals as retroactive jealousy survivors. Zachary Stockill: If you’ve been watching my channel for a while, I absolutely love having conversations with […] The post Retroactive Jealousy Survivors: 5 Key Lessons from L...

In today’s video, I’m going to share three practical, simple tips that you can use to start dealing with retroactive jealousy triggers. Watch or read below for three tips for retroactive jealousy triggers: Zachary Stockill: On this channel, I sometimes shy away from offering practical tips and tricks. The reason I’m more drawn to talk […] The post Tips for Retroactive Jealousy Triggers: These Real...

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about a social trend, a unique challenge among male retroactive jealousy sufferers, which is only getting worse. So: what is this problem among male retroactive jealousy sufferers? Zachary Stockill: I often get asked about the differences between male retroactive jealousy sufferers and female retroactive jealousy sufferers. What are […] The post Male Retroactive...

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about how remembering that I’m “crazy” helps me stay sane. Watch the video below for a counterintuitive approach for overcoming intrusive jealous thoughts. Zachary Stockill: Today, I want to talk about a practice that I’ve been cultivating and practicing for many years for overcoming intrusive jealous thoughts, one […] The post Overcoming Intrusive Jealous Thoug...

In today’s video, I’m going to share a bizarre but effective technique for getting through things like obsessive and retroactive jealousy. So: what’s a better method for dealing with jealous thoughts? Zachary Stockill: When was the last time you accomplished something small? And when you accomplished it, did you celebrate that mini-victory? I talk a […] The post Dealing with Jealous Thoughts: A St...

In today’s video, I’m going to share the number one lie that most retroactive jealousy sufferers tell themselves at least once a day. So: what is the #1 retroactive jealousy lie? Zachary Stockill: If you’re struggling with retroactive jealousy, chances are good that you’re lying to yourself on at least one, but probably several levels. […] The post The #1 Retroactive Jealousy Lie: You CANNOT Belie...

In today’s video, I’m going to share a painful lesson that at least one retroactive jealousy sufferer is currently learning. How does it feel if your husband has retroactive jealousy? Zachary Stockill: A big part of my motivation is trying to help people, people like you to avoid my mistakes, and to not mess up […] The post “My Husband Has Retroactive Jealousy… And It Destroyed Us” [VIDEO] appeare...

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about the virtues and benefits of meditation. I’m also going to dispel some of the myths around meditation. So: why is meditation for beating jealousy so helpful? Zachary Stockill: So I posted a poll recently on my YouTube channel, asking about how often my audience meditates and the […] The post Meditation for Beating Jealousy: DON’T Believe These Myths [VIDEO]...

In today’s video, I had a revealing and inspiring conversation with Simon, a retroactive jealousy survivor. Read or watch below to hear Simon’s retroactive jealousy testimonial, and how’s he handling his retroactive jealousy with the help of my online course, “Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast.” Zachary Stockill: Okay, Simon, first off, could you just […] The post Retroactive Jealousy Testimonial:...

In today’s video, I’m going to recommend five books which I believe every male retroactive jealousy sufferer should read. So: what are my top-5 recommended retroactive jealousy books for men? Zachary Stockill: The first book I’d like to recommend is by Dr. Robert Glover. It’s called No More Mr. Nice Guy. If you’re familiar with […] The post Retroactive Jealousy Books for Men: My Top-5 List [VIDEO]...

In today’s video, I’m going to respond to a viewer who’s struggling with how much he should tell his partner about his retroactive jealousy, and how to ask his partner to keep certain details away from him. So, can you tell your girlfriend about your retroactive jealousy? Zachary Stockill: Is it okay to tell your […] The post “Tell My Girlfriend About Retroactive Jealousy?” My Response [VIDEO] app...

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about my yearly review process. I’m going to show you exactly how to do one for yourself and how this can help you achieve your goals in overcoming retroactive and obsessive jealousy this new year. Read on to learn more about the tips for making a yearly review […] The post Yearly Review Practice: How To Conduct One For Yourself [VIDEO] appeared first on Overcom...

In today’s video, we’re going to hear from Nolan, who struggled with intense retroactive jealousy, and how my course, Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast liberated him. Click below to listen to another Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast testimonial: Zachary: Well, first off, Nolan, can you just tell me a little bit, a testimonial, […] The post Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast Testimonial: Nolan’s St...

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about the number one mistake people make when they fall in love, particularly younger people. And that is: spending way too much time together. Read on to learn more about one of the counterintuitive causes of retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: I made this mistake when I was younger. […] The post Causes of Retroactive Jealousy: Ever Think About This One? [V...

In today’s video, I’m going to the questions: “What happens if you’re out there in the dating world, and you’ve found out that the world is not living up to your standards?” “Is it ever a good idea to change or compromise on your standards when you’re in the dating market? Should I lower my […] The post “Should I Lower My Dating Standards?” My Opinion [VIDEO] appeared first on Overcoming Retroacti...

In today’s video, I’m going to share a crucial message to set the tone for your relationship as early as possible to minimize the odds of chaos, drama, divorce, and especially irrational jealousy. So: how to avoid irrational jealousy? Zachary Stockill: If you are someone who is at all predisposed to irrationally jealous behaviors, thoughts, […] The post How to Avoid Irrational Jealousy: My #1 Tip...

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about a post by the Daily Stoic, featuring eight lessons that will help you overcome retroactive jealousy. So: what can we learn from Stoic philosophy for overcoming jealousy? Zachary Stockill: We’re going to analyze each of these points one by one and relate them specifically to retroactive jealousy. […] The post Stoic Philosophy for Overcoming Jealousy: 8 CRUC...

In today’s video, I’m responding to a viewer who is struggling with trust issues and wants some advice on how to get started working through these relationship trust issues. So, how are you going to manage trust issues in a relationship? Zachary Stockill: Trust Issues in relationships are easily one of the most common challenges […] The post Trust Issues in a Relationship: How to Work Through Them...

In today’s video, I wanted to respond to a question: “How do I resist the urge to snoop through my partner’s phone?” So: how do you stop snooping through your partner’s phone? Zachary Stockill: First off, be sure you’re addressing the source of these feelings, the source of this impulse to snoop through your partner’s […] The post “Snooping Through My Partner’s Phone:” How to Stop [VIDEO] appeared...

In today’s video, I will share a very important message for anyone who’s on the fence about getting started putting in the work toward overcoming retroactive jealousy, and approaching any kind of personal development challenge. So, how to start beating retroactive jealousy? Zachary Stockill: “The scariest moment is always right before you start. This quote […] The post Start Beating Retroactive Je...

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about a male phenomenon that I see all around me. I’m going to share a message that I think a lot of guys really need to hear. So, what is male simping (and why is it so toxic)? Zachary Stockill: If you go to any beautiful woman’s Instagram […] The post “Male Simping:” What It Is, and Why It’s So Toxic [VIDEO] appeared first on Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy .

In today’s video, I’m going to share what comes after retroactive jealousy for those of us who actually work our way through it. So: how should you approach retroactive jealousy and personal development? Zachary Stockill: So you’re struggling with retroactive jealousy. You’re struggling with unwanted intrusive thoughts about your partner’s past that don’t seem to […] The post Retroactive Jealousy...

In today’s video, I’m going to share an idea that gave me a lot of clarity, meaning, and purpose in my life where previously some of that meaning and purpose had been lacking. Here’s my #1 tip regarding how young men can find purpose. Zachary Stockill: If you are a man and you have any […] The post How Young Men Can Find Purpose: My #1 Tip [VIDEO] appeared first on Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy...

In today’s video, I’m going to share one of my all-time favorite perspectives in life that helps me stay grounded, overcome retroactive jealousy, and just overall live a more happy, peaceful life. So, what’s the right perspective for overcoming retroactive jealousy? Zachary Stockill: When you’re struggling with an issue like obsessive jealousy, retroactive jealousy, or […] The post Perspective for...

In today’s video, I’m going to share my number one tip for anyone trying to assess anyone’s character. Zachary Stockill: A lot of people who come to me are interested in assessing their partner’s character, values, and who they really are deep down. And often this is inspired by someone finding out some things that […] The post Partner’s Character In Question? Think About This [VIDEO] appeared fir...