The Zachary Stockill Podcast

In this video, I spoke with Steve, a recent graduate of my online course, “Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast.” Read on or watch below to listen to another Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast, Zachary Stockill course review: Zachary: So first off, Steve, I just wanted to thank you for doing this. I really appreciate […] The post Zachary Stockill Course Review: Steve’s Story [VIDEO] appeared first on...

In today’s video, I clarify my views on the topic of talking to your partner about their past. I also share a few insights if you’re seeking to better understand your partner and learn about their values. Read on or watch below if you’ve ever wondered “how should I talk to my partner about their […] The post “How Should I Talk To My Partner About Their Past?” Q & A [VIDEO] appeared first on Overco...

In today’s video, I talk about how to handle it when the “red flags” in your partner’s past (or present) indicate you’re not a good match moving forward, and you think breaking up is the right decision. Read on or watch the video below to hear a few thoughts before you break up because of […] The post BEFORE You Break Up Because of Retroactive Jealousy, Watch This [VIDEO] appeared first on Overcom...

In today’s video, I’m going to share three questions that I believe every retroactive jealousy sufferer should ask themselves at least once. Read on or watch below to learn about the 3 questions to ask yourself if you are struggling with retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: If I may be so bold, I think that one of […] The post Top-3 Retroactive Jealousy Questions EVERY Sufferer Should Ask [VIDE...

In today’s video, I want to share a few thoughts for people who are bothered by their partner’s past, and wondering whether their partner is being entirely honest with them. If you’ve ever thought, “What if My Girlfriend is LYING About Her Past?” you are not alone. Zachary Stockill: I got a comment on a […] The post “What if My Girlfriend is LYING About Her Past?” Q & A [VIDEO] appeared first on O...

In today’s video, I offer a bit of a warning to modern men to be wary of phony masculine role models in the world today. I want to share a few of my thoughts on positive masculinity and the pandemic of fake “alpha males” on YouTube and beyond. Read on or watch below to learn […] The post Positive Masculinity vs. “Fake Alpha Males:” My Thoughts [VIDEO] appeared first on Overcoming Retroactive Jealo...

In today’s video, I’m going to share my top “Green Flags” in dating–because looking only for “red flags” is not enough. Read on or watch below to learn all about my top “green flags” in dating. Zachary Stockill: I recorded a video recently talking about my top relationship red flags. In other words, the qualities […] The post These Are SO Important: My Top “Green Flags” in Dating [VIDEO] appeared...

In today’s video, I want to share my #1 perspective for dealing with intrusive thoughts, how to overcome them, and how to start the process of rewiring our brain’s response to intrusive thoughts about a partner’s past. Read on or watch below to learn the #1 technique for dealing with intrusive thoughts about your partner’s […] The post Intrusive Thoughts About Your Partner’s Past: My #1 Technique...

In today’s video, I want to share my (gasp!) nuanced take on the “Red Pill” online men’s movement. And share a few thoughts for men who are “flirting” with the “Red Pill.” Ideologues beware: you probably won’t like this one. Read on or watch below to hear my message to men in the Red Pill. […] The post Men in the Red Pill: My #1 Message For You [VIDEO] appeared first on Overcoming Retroactive Jeal...

Retroactive Jealousy Course Testimonial: Listen to Guy's Story The post Retroactive Jealousy Course Testimonial: Listen to Guy’s Story [VIDEO] appeared first on Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy .

In today’s video, I’m going to offer my answer to the question “What is self-acceptance?” and how this is related to overcoming retroactive jealousy. Read on or watch below to hear my response to “What is self-acceptance?” Zachary Stockill: What is self-acceptance? I have kind of a controversial video for you today; at least, I […] The post What is “Self-Acceptance?” A Politically-Incorrect Take [...

In today’s video, I want to offer some thoughts about boundaries and values in relationships. I want to share a couple of ways of thinking about boundaries and values in relationships that I don’t hear anyone else talking about. Read on or watch below to hear my take on boundaries and values in relationships. Zachary […] The post Boundaries and Values in Relationships: A Simple Explainer [VIDEO] a...

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about where you can start with my work if you’re ready to get serious about beating retroactive jealousy for good ASAP. Read on or watch below to get started overcoming retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: At the time of recording this video, I’ve been working on this issue of […] The post Get Started Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy: Here’s How [VIDEO] appear...

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about the “flipside” of taking proactive steps to beat retroactive jealousy, and how identifying what NOT to do is equally important. Read on or watch the video below to learn the truth about retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: If you’ve been watching my channel for a while, hopefully at […] The post The Truth About Retroactive Jealousy: STOP Doing This [VID...

In today’s video, I’m going to respond to a viewer’s question of what to do when we feel like other people “makes us feel” a certain way. Read on to learn more about how to stop “blaming my partner for retroactive jealousy.” Zachary Stockill: Recently, I received a comment from someone we will call C. […] The post “How Do I Stop Blaming My Partner for Retroactive Jealousy?” [VIDEO] appeared first...

In today’s video, I had an inspiring conversation with Toni, a retroactive jealousy survivor. Read or watch below to hear Toni’s retroactive jealousy testimonial, and how he finally got freedom from retroactive jealousy with the help of my online course, “Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast.” Zachary: Okay, well, once again Toni, I wanted to thank you […] The post Freedom From Retroactive Jealousy:...

In today’s video, I’m going to share my ideas about anti-fragility, how it’s different from mere resilience, and how it’s directly related to retroactive jealousy. Read on to learn more about “anti-fragility.” Zachary Stockill: A few years ago, a Lebanese author named Nassim Nicholas Taleb published a book called Anti-Fragile. The book became an enormous […] The post Retroactive Jealousy and “Anti...

In today’s video, I’m going to share my personal views about “relationship red flags;” things that I look out for when considering a long-term relationship, or marriage. Read on or watch below to hear all about my “relationship red flags.” Zachary Stockill: I received a comment recently from a viewer asking me about my own […] The post Relationship Red Flags: What I Watch Out For [VIDEO] appeared...

In today’s video, I’m going to share my own definition of retroactive jealousy, and help to clear this up a bit. Read on or watch below to learn more about my definition of retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: So here’s a strange little fact about retroactive jealousy: many retroactive jealousy sufferers aren’t actually jealous people. Many […] The post Retroactive Jealousy Definition: DON’T Ge...

In today’s video, I’m going to share an important message about retroactive jealousy that every retroactive jealousy sufferer needs to hear. Read on to hear an important message for retroactive jealousy sufferers. Zachary Stockill: I have a secret group on Facebook for students who are taking my online course, Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast. […] The post Message for Retroactive Jealousy Suffere...

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about how you can define and specify the goal of beating retroactive jealousy for good as soon as possible. Read on to learn more about how to approach retroactive jealousy goals. Zachary Stockill: One of the main mistakes people make when they set goals is not being specific […] The post Retroactive Jealousy Goals: How to Get Clarity and Motivation [VIDEO] appe...

In today’s video, I’m going to share a way to reframe the question, “Does the number of people my girlfriend had sex with matter?” Hopefully, this will help you answer this question for yourself in a way that makes sense. Read on or watch the video below if you find yourself thinking “My girlfriend’s number […] The post “My Girlfriend’s Number is Too Much To Handle:” Think About This [VIDEO] appea...

In today’s video, I’m going to share some big lessons that I learned over the past year. I’m also going to talk about how this can help you beat retroactive or obsessive jealousy as soon as possible. Read on to learn more about how to effectively stop retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: Have you’ve heard of […] The post How to Stop Retroactive Jealousy: “Begin With a Win” [VIDEO] appeared firs...

In today’s video, I’m going to share a few perspectives about struggling with retroactive jealousy if you’re living in the Western world in the 21st century. Read on to learn more about an antidote to retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: I’ve spent the majority of my adult life living outside of my native Canada, most of […] The post My Antidote to Retroactive Jealousy: Listen to This [VIDEO] a...

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about what it’s like to overcome retroactive jealousy and whether or not retroactive jealousy is still an issue for me in my personal life. Read on or watch the video below to learn more about the process of recovery from retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: I received a comment […] The post Retroactive Jealousy Recovery: What Does It Feel Like? [VIDEO] appea...