The Zachary Stockill Podcast

In today’s video, I’m going to share a crucial message to set the tone for your relationship as early as possible to minimize the odds of chaos, drama, divorce, and especially irrational jealousy. So: how to avoid irrational jealousy? Zachary Stockill: If you are someone who is at all predisposed to irrationally jealous behaviors, thoughts, […] The post How to Avoid Irrational Jealousy: My #1 Tip...

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about a post by the Daily Stoic, featuring eight lessons that will help you overcome retroactive jealousy. So: what can we learn from Stoic philosophy for overcoming jealousy? Zachary Stockill: We’re going to analyze each of these points one by one and relate them specifically to retroactive jealousy. […] The post Stoic Philosophy for Overcoming Jealousy: 8 CRUC...

In today’s video, I’m responding to a viewer who is struggling with trust issues and wants some advice on how to get started working through these relationship trust issues. So, how are you going to manage trust issues in a relationship? Zachary Stockill: Trust Issues in relationships are easily one of the most common challenges […] The post Trust Issues in a Relationship: How to Work Through Them...

In today’s video, I wanted to respond to a question: “How do I resist the urge to snoop through my partner’s phone?” So: how do you stop snooping through your partner’s phone? Zachary Stockill: First off, be sure you’re addressing the source of these feelings, the source of this impulse to snoop through your partner’s […] The post “Snooping Through My Partner’s Phone:” How to Stop [VIDEO] appeared...

In today’s video, I will share a very important message for anyone who’s on the fence about getting started putting in the work toward overcoming retroactive jealousy, and approaching any kind of personal development challenge. So, how to start beating retroactive jealousy? Zachary Stockill: “The scariest moment is always right before you start. This quote […] The post Start Beating Retroactive Je...

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about a male phenomenon that I see all around me. I’m going to share a message that I think a lot of guys really need to hear. So, what is male simping (and why is it so toxic)? Zachary Stockill: If you go to any beautiful woman’s Instagram […] The post “Male Simping:” What It Is, and Why It’s So Toxic [VIDEO] appeared first on Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy .

In today’s video, I’m going to share what comes after retroactive jealousy for those of us who actually work our way through it. So: how should you approach retroactive jealousy and personal development? Zachary Stockill: So you’re struggling with retroactive jealousy. You’re struggling with unwanted intrusive thoughts about your partner’s past that don’t seem to […] The post Retroactive Jealousy...

In today’s video, I’m going to share an idea that gave me a lot of clarity, meaning, and purpose in my life where previously some of that meaning and purpose had been lacking. Here’s my #1 tip regarding how young men can find purpose. Zachary Stockill: If you are a man and you have any […] The post How Young Men Can Find Purpose: My #1 Tip [VIDEO] appeared first on Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy...

In today’s video, I’m going to share one of my all-time favorite perspectives in life that helps me stay grounded, overcome retroactive jealousy, and just overall live a more happy, peaceful life. So, what’s the right perspective for overcoming retroactive jealousy? Zachary Stockill: When you’re struggling with an issue like obsessive jealousy, retroactive jealousy, or […] The post Perspective for...

In today’s video, I’m going to share my number one tip for anyone trying to assess anyone’s character. Zachary Stockill: A lot of people who come to me are interested in assessing their partner’s character, values, and who they really are deep down. And often this is inspired by someone finding out some things that […] The post Partner’s Character In Question? Think About This [VIDEO] appeared fir...

In today’s video, I’m going to share two often overlooked recipes for healing from retroactive jealousy. So: why could your own retroactive jealousy community be valuable? Zachary Stockill: These two often overlooked aspects for healing from retroactive jealousy are community and accountability. People are often embarrassed when it comes to struggling with an issue like […] The post Retroactive Je...

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about how to handle the advanced stages of overcoming retroactive jealousy when you encounter “bumps in the road.” So, how are you going to deal with a bad day with retroactive jealousy? Zachary Stockill: If you’ve started putting in the work, made the commitment, started putting in the […] The post Bad Day With Retroactive Jealousy? Listen to This… [VIDEO] appe...

In today’s video, I’m going to explore pornography in-depth and provide some food for thought when you’re struggling with intrusive thoughts and obsessive curiosity around your partner’s past relationships. So, should guys watch porn? Zachary Stockill: Should retroactive jealousy sufferers watch pornography? My answer is “No.” If you’re struggling with unwanted and often violent graphic […] The po...

In today’s video, I’m going to share one of my favourite ways to think about retroactive jealousy. So: how to start overcoming intrusive thoughts? Zachary Stockill: For a long time, I would label retroactive jealousy as the character “fat bastard” in the Austin Powers comedies, from Mike Myers’s comedies from the 90s… This helped me […] The post Overcoming Intrusive Thoughts: One Way To “Label” Th...

In today’s video, I’m going to prove to you that if you’re struggling with retroactive or obsessive jealousy, it’s actually a blessing in disguise. So, why retroactive jealousy is actually an opportunity? Zachary Stockill: The phrase “blessing in disguise” is thrown around a lot by people when someone’s going through a tough time. And frankly, […] The post Retroactive Jealousy is an Opportunity (Y...

In today’s video, I’m going to share why it’s usually a bad idea to ask your partner endless questions about their past. So, why is it important to be strategic about asking about your partner’s past? Zachary Stockill: If you’re a retroactive jealousy sufferer, there’s the impulse to ask your partner questions about their past. […] The post “Asking About My Partner’s Past:” What’s the Right Method...

In today’s video, I’m responding to a viewer who’s struggling to let go of the urge to control her partner. I’m going to suggest some alternative ways to look at the situation instead. So: how to let go of the desire to control your partner? Zachary Stockill: Have you ever felt the urge to control […] The post “Desire to Control My Partner:” How Do You Let it Go? [VIDEO] appeared first on Overcomi...

In today’s video, I’m going to share another 80/20 rule, and if you’re struggling with retroactive or obsessive jealousy, this is going to be useful for you. So: what is the overall framework for overcoming retroactive jealousy? Zachary Stockill: In a previous video, I spoke about an 80/20 rule. Anytime you have a problem in […] The post Framework for Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy: What Works? [...

In today’s video, I’m going to share a quote by Einstein that represents one of my all-time favorite universal solutions for retroactive jealousy. So: how to deal with retroactive jealousy fear? Zachary Stockill: My name is Zachary Stockill and since 2013, I’ve been helping men and women from all over the world, overcome retroactive jealousy, […] The post Retroactive Jealousy Fear: The #1 Step in...

In today’s video, I’m going to tell you my number one tip for how to know whether you’re struggling with irrational retroactive jealousy or a genuine clash of values in your partner’s past. So: how do you assess your partner’s past values? Zachary Stockill: One of the things that sometimes people seem to get wrong […] The post Partner’s Past Values: How to Assess Them? [VIDEO] appeared first on Ov...

In today’s video, I’d like to share the number one step you should take after you break up. So, what to do after a breakup? Zachary Stockill: I’m Zachary Stockill from retroactivejealousy.com. I’m also the author of the newly released The Breakup Recovery Workbook, as well as my new comprehensive, step-by-step, Breakup Recovery Blueprint Online […] The post What To Do After a Breakup: The #1 Step...

Yesterday, I hosted my second YouTube livestream where I took all kinds of interesting subscriber questions. Although the questions were mainly concerning retroactive jealousy, I also got to a couple of questions about breakups and relationships more generally. If you joined me, thanks! And if not, you can find the full video below: Click here […] The post Your Questions Answered: YouTube Livestre...

In today’s video, I’m going to offer a bit of tough love to anyone struggling with retroactive or obsessive jealousy. And share some insight as to what it’s been like to be the “retroactive jealousy guy” for over 8 years. Zachary Stockill: When we’re struggling with any kind of highly charged emotional problem in life, […] The post What I’ve Learned as the “Retroactive Jealousy Guy” for 8+ Years [...

In today’s video, I’m going to share five tips that will help you get better in touch with your intuition and gut. So: how should you handle your irrational jealousy? Zachary Stockill: If you were struggling with an issue like retroactive jealousy, like irrational jealousy, you might be really struggling with questions like, “Is my […] The post Irrational Jealousy or Intuition? 5 Tips to Know the...

In today’s video, I’m going to respond to a retroactive jealousy sufferer, who’s confused about her boyfriend’s past in hookup culture. She’s wondering if she should dive in and pursue a similar kind of lifestyle in the hope that this will cure retroactive jealousy. How to deal with your partner’s history of casual sex and […] The post Casual Sex and Retroactive Jealousy: Will More Sex Help? [VIDE...