The Worst Girl Gang Ever

What emotional toll does secondary infertility take on a mother already caring for a young child? The transcript reveals the immense challenges Leah faces, from the physical complications of a previous C-section to the devastating cycle of miscarriages. Juggling the demands of motherhood while grieving the loss of unborn children has clearly taken a significant mental and emotional toll. Leah&apos...

In this insightful episode of The Worst Girl Gang Ever, Dr Sami from Plan Your Baby joins Bex Gunn and Laura Buckingham to discuss the sensitive and often overlooked topics of miscarriage, infertility, and baby loss. Dr Sami shares his extensive experience in reproductive medicine, offering a behind-the-scenes look at the challenges faced by patients and clinicians alike. This episode dives into t...

In this candid and heartfelt episode of The Worst Girl Gang Ever, Bex and Laura speak with Caitlin and Ollie, a couple who bravely share their experiences with pregnancy loss and the impact it had on their relationship. Caitlin and Ollie recount the unique challenges they faced as a couple, highlighting how miscarriage affected both partners emotionally. Their story sheds light on the complexities...

In this moving episode of The Worst Girl Gang Ever, co-hosts Bex and Laura Buckingham welcome Lucy, founder of Ellie’s Gift, to discuss her journey following the devastating loss of her daughter, Ella. Lucy shares how her grief led her to create Ellie’s Gift, an app providing support for parents navigating the heartbreak of baby loss. With her background as a mental health nurse, Lucy developed th...

In this powerful episode, Sejal bravely shares her personal journey through multiple miscarriages, ectopic pregnancies, and the emotional rollercoaster of IVF. She candidly discusses the physical and emotional challenges of fertility treatment, the cultural expectations within her Indian community, and how she found ways to cope with the repeated setbacks. Sejal's story is one of resilience,...

In this deeply moving episode of The Worst Girl Gang Ever, hosts Laura and Bex are joined by Beth from Cheshire, who courageously shares her journey through infertility, IVF, and the heartbreaking loss of her daughter. Beth discusses the emotional and physical challenges of navigating fertility treatments, the significant gaps in medical care, and the isolating experience of feeling disconnected f...

In this episode of The Worst Girl Gang Ever, hosts Bex Gunn & Laura Buckingham talk to actress Jessica Fox, best known for starring in Hollyoaks as Nancy. They discuss Jessica Fox's personal struggles with miscarriage, highlighting the immense physical and psychological toll it can take, particularly when navigating it in the public eye. The complex emotions such as grief, jealousy, and t...

In this special live recording, Bex & Laura openly share their personal journeys with a live audience!. They talk about the complexities of this time, as they want to raise awareness around Baby Loss Awareness Week while also acknowledging the exhaustion that can come with it. They emphasise the importance of self-care, setting boundaries, and finding solace in a supportive community. This liv...

How can we feel better when we're going through a hard time with our mental health? Award winning author & Psychotherapist Anna Mathur gives us some good ideas. She says it's important to accept our feelings, even the ones that seem bad. We shouldn't judge ourselves for how we feel. Instead, we should be kind to ourselves and get support from people we trust. Anna explains that...

What tangible ways can one find comfort and support after experiencing the devastating loss of a child or loved one? The "Worst Girl Gang Ever" support box aims to provide just that!https://www.babylosssupportbox.co.uk/Created by one of our community members - Hayley and packed with thoughtful items like a journal, candle, and wildflower seeds, the box offers a physical representation of...

SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT ALERT! We are now a charity! What that means is that we can now help even more women who have experienced miscarriage and baby loss. For the past four years, The Worst Girl Gang Ever has supported these women through this podcast by sharing personal stories of grief and we’ve built an international community. However, to expand our impact we needed charitable status. Achieving...

This episode features an in-depth discussion with community member Eleanor, who bravely shares her heartbreaking journey with recurrent pregnancy loss. She opens up about her first relatively straightforward pregnancy in 2019, followed by a series of devastating miscarriages over the next few years. She describes the emotional toll of each loss, the frustration with the medical system, and her det...

In this episode, hosts Bex and Laura are joined by community member Sarah to discuss her experience with miscarriage. Sarah shares her journey, from the excitement of unexpectedly falling pregnant to the devastating news at her 12-week scan that there was no heartbeat. She recounts the confusion and uncertainty she faced during the hospital appointments, highlighting the lack of consistency in com...

In this episode, hosts Bex and Laura are joined by Selina Casey, a counsellor from Northern Ireland who has experienced pregnancy loss. Selina shares her personal story, describing the devastating experience of being told her baby had passed away during a routine scan appointment. She emphasises the importance of validation and empathy from healthcare professionals, recounting instances where inse...

Today on The Worst Girl Gang Ever, Bex and Laura speak to community member Laura Harding about her experience with recurrent loss. Laura bravely shares her deeply personal journey of multiple miscarriages, navigating the complex emotions and medical challenges she faced over several years. The discussion delves into the immense grief and guilt Laura experienced after recurrent miscarriages, as wel...

Today Bex and Laura welcome Suzy Reading, an Author and Chartered Psychologist, for an open and honest discussion about navigating grief, loss, and the "ugly feelings" that can arise in the aftermath of miscarriage and baby loss. Suzy emphasises the importance of self-compassion, validating the full range of feelings that can surface, and creating space to truly feel and work through the...

Point of clarification: Catherine developed Chorioamnionitis again with Oliver, and it caused her to suddenly go into early labour, causing him to be born early. Oliver did not have any signs of infection and thankfully it didn't pass to him like it did Amelia. In this week's episode of The Worst Girl Gang Ever, Bex and Laura speak with Stephen, who shares his heartbreaking experience of...

In this week's episode of The Worst Girl Gang Ever, Bex and Laura chat with community member April. She shares her heartbreaking journey through three consecutive miscarriages before finally conceiving through IVF and giving birth to a baby boy. She discusses the emotional toll of the losses, the importance of seeking support, and the challenges of parenting after such a difficult path to mot...

In this week's episode of The Worst Girl Gang Ever, Bex and Laura chat with community member Amy about her personal story of miscarriage after an unexpected pregnancy early in her relationship. She describes the difficult decision to have a medical abortion, the grief and pain she experienced, and the challenges of navigating this in a new relationship. Following a subsequent missed miscarria...

This episode features a powerful conversation with Tom de Freston, a published author who has written about the devastating experience of miscarriage and baby loss. Tom shares his and his wife Kiran’s personal journey, including the loss of twins and a subsequent ectopic pregnancy. He describes the lack of adequate information and support they received, as well as the emotional toll the experience...

Trigger Warning:This episode contains explicit discussions and graphic details about female genital mutilation (FGM) and child abuse. In this week's episode of The Worst Girl Gang Ever, we're taking a different approach. We recently had the opportunity to speak at a Midwifery Conference where we met the inspiring Hibo Wardere. Hibo, a Somali-born advocate against female genital mutilatio...

In this week’s episode of The Worst Girl Gang Ever we have two incredible guests who are making a real difference in the world of male fertility, Ian Stones and Toby Trice, the founders of ‘testhim’.At testhim, Ian and Toby understand the rollercoaster ride that is trying to start a family, and provide support and guidance through the challenges and isolation in struggling to start a family. They...

In this heartfelt episode of The Worst Girl Gang Ever, Bex and Laura warmly welcome community member Lindsey. She shares her deeply personal journey of being part of The Gang for 12 years, including the profound loss of her first daughter, who was stillborn. She explains the process of processing her grief and the difficulty this caused when trying again. As a therapist herself, Lindsey champions...

In this episode of The Worst Girl Gang Ever, Bex and Laura sit down with community member Anita. She shares her story of trying to start a family, navigating the challenges of IVF, experiencing the joy of pregnancy, and then facing the difficult news of a severe brain condition in her unborn baby, ultimately leading to a heart-wrenching decision. Listen in to hear about:Anita’s experience with ber...

In this episode of The Worst Girl Gang Ever, Bex and Laura sit down with community member Ashleigh who shares her journey of repeated losses before the complicated birth of her son. Ashleigh explains how she had repeated communication difficulties with NHS staff, difficulty getting answers and referrals, and the overly-clinical care she sometimes endured. She poignantly discusses the emotions behi...