Tim & Pauline Wheeler

The W Podcast

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Our goal is to provide you with perspective to help you build a healthy & godly relationship. New episode of "The W Podcast" drops every Tuesday! We are Tim & Pauline Wheeler. Before we met we were both in ungodly relationships that left us empty and hurt. This led us on individual journeys to learn God's way of dating. When we met we decided to have a relationship that honored God but was still fun and exciting! We eventually started helping other couples through small groups to learn to date God's way. We have been married since 2018 and have a beautiful son.

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Tim & Pauline Wheeler

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Latest episode

Feb 18, 2026

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5 Years Of The W Podcast...It's Time For A Refresh! 18.02.2026

Hey fam! We’ve been doing this podcast for almost 5 years now…and we believe it’s time for something new. So we’re going to be taking a short break — but not because we’re slowing down… because we’re leveling up. We’re coming back stronger than ever with a refreshed version of the podcast as we step into a new era. We want to elevate the show, reach more people, and help even more of you learn how...

What Christians Get Wrong As Newlyweds (Sex, Gender Roles, Money Triggers, & More) 03.02.2026

If you want a practical next step to bring clarity to your dating life and relationships, start here: https://py.pl/3PRNtGKdI5h If your first year of marriage feels confusing, heavier than you expected, or you’ve quietly wondered, “Did we make a mistake?” — this episode is for you. Because real talk… the church talks a LOT about waiting for marriage…but not enough about what happens after the wedd...

Best Christian Dating Advice (No Filter) 27.01.2026

If you want a practical next step to bring clarity to your dating life and relationships, start here: https://py.pl/3PRNtGKdI5hIf you’re in a Christian relationship (or a talking stage) and you both love Jesus… but you’re quietly wondering, “Are we dating God’s way… or are we just winging it?” — this one’s for you. In this episode, you’re gonna hear what we would tell a brand new Christian couple...

What Christian’s Get Wrong About Attraction (and Why It Matters) 20.01.2026

If you want a practical next step to bring clarity to your dating life and relationships, start here: https://py.pl/3PRNtGKdI5h“He checks every box… but I’m not sure I’m attracted.”“She’s everything I prayed for… so why do I still feel unclear?”If you’ve ever DM’d that (or thought it), this video is for you. We’re breaking down what Christians get wrong about attraction, how to tell the difference...

Are You Unknowingly Dating the World’s Way? (How to Date God’s Way) 13.01.2026

If you want a practical next step to bring clarity to your dating life and relationships, start here: https://py.pl/3PRNtGKdI5hDating in 2026 feels exhausting, confusing, and emotionally heavy for a lot of Christian singles — and it’s not because dating God’s way doesn’t work. It’s because most people are still dating the world’s way with Christian language on top. In this episode, you're gett...

The Critical Dating Boundaries Christians Need in 2026 (That Aren’t About Sex) 06.01.2026

If you want a practical next step to bring clarity to your dating life and relationships, start here: https://py.pl/3PRNtGKdI5h Most Christians think “good boundaries” in dating just means not having sex… but you can avoid sex and still end up emotionally exhausted, spiritually confused, and attached to someone who was never serious. In this episode, we’re talking about the critical Christian dati...

If We Were Single Christians, These Are The Top Lessons We Would've Learned from Dating in 2025 30.12.2025

If you want a practical next step to bring clarity to your dating life and relationships, start here: https://py.pl/3PRNtGKdI5hIf dating feels confusing, emotionally exhausting, or spiritually unclear, this episode will help you reset with biblical clarity. Culture taught us to chase chemistry, butterflies, and “the spark.” But chemistry alone doesn’t build a marriage— clarity does. In this episod...

The TOXIC Dating Mindsets You Need To Leave In 2025 (As A Christian) 23.12.2025

If you want a practical next step to bring clarity to your dating life and relationships, start here: https://py.pl/3PRNtGKdI5h If you’re a Christian who loves God but feels confused, tired, or stuck in your dating life, this episode is for you. In this best-of compilation, you’re going to gain clarity on the beliefs, habits, and spiritual shortcuts that quietly keep Christian singles frustrated—a...

How To Actually Enjoy Christian Dating (Without Losing Your Peace or Purpose) 17.12.2025

If you want a practical next step to bring clarity to your dating life and relationships, start here : https://py.pl/3PRNtGKdI5h Dating as a Christian shouldn’t feel like pressure, confusion, or punishment. If your dating life feels stressful instead — this conversation will help you date with peace, purpose, and clarity while still keeping it fun & holy. In this video, we talk about the minds...

The Questions That Reveal If They’re Really Marriage-Ready 09.12.2025

Date smarter in 2026

7 Things A GODLY Woman DOES NOT DO In Dating 02.12.2025

If you keep ending up in Christian situationships with men who “love God,” but can’t love you well… this episode is going to hit home. We’re breaking down the 7 things a godly woman does not do in dating — the exact mindsets, boundaries, and standards that protect you from confusion, heartbreak, and wasting years on the wrong man. And we’re not talking at you. We lived this. Before we found each o...

7 Things A Godly Man Does NOT Do In Dating 25.11.2025

Most people think they can easily spot the difference between a “good Christian guy” and a godly man.“He doesn’t cheat… he’s respectful… he goes to church… so he must be godly, right?”Not necessarily. In this episode, you’re going to get the clarity you need to finally see the difference between a man who looks godly…and a man who actually lives it. You’re going to learn the 7 subtle, underrated b...

How To Restore A Dating Relationship AFTER Sexual Sin (Is It Worth Trying?) 18.11.2025

Let’s be real: if you’ve had sex before marriage, the odds of staying holy while dating are slim—unless you’re willing to do the hard stuff. Boundaries. Mentors. Accountability. And honestly? Sometimes God and your godly circle already told you to break up… and you’re just ignoring it. But if He’s still giving you peace and you’ve got wise community backing you up, then maybe—just maybe—you’re the...

7 Things Godly People Actually Do in Dating (That Change Everything) 11.11.2025

Tired of dating that feels confusing, inconsistent, or halfway holy? Here’s what godly people actually do differently — so you can finally date with clarity, confidence, and peace. We’ve been married for 7 years now, but we didn’t start out doing it right. We dated the world’s way first — and it left us broken. God had to reteach us how to build love His way. In this episode, we’re breaking down 7...

Unspoken Dating Rules We Broke As Christians (And You Should Too) 04.11.2025

In one year, we went from lusting after each other to hosting God’s presence in our dating relationship. Not by accident—by breaking the unspoken dating rules most Christians accept and building on God’s Word. If you’re tired of “just vibes,” fuzzy boundaries, and lukewarm patterns, this episode shows you exactly how we moved from compromise to clarity and how you can, too. What you’ll learn- Why...

How to Know If God Actually Approves of Your Dating Relationship 28.10.2025

Are you asking, “Is this relationship really from God?”Here’s how to actually tell. In this episode, we’re walking you through 7 signs God approves (or does NOT approve) of your relationship — using real examples from our dating story and the Bible. We’ll talk about spiritual fruit, self-control, conviction, peace, purpose, how other people see your relationship, and what it really looks like to k...

The Dating Questions Christian Singles Are Asking In 2025 (Married Couple Reacts) 21.10.2025

Feeling a little crazy in today’s Christian dating world? You’re not alone. In this rapid-fire Q&A, we're tackling your most-requested questions—friend zone confusion, age gaps, dating in your 30s when options feel scarce, jealousy while “just talking,” and whether marriage in college is wise. Expect Biblical wisdom, practical boundaries, and hopeful encouragement rooted in God’s timing....

Stop Trying To Act Married...You're A FIANCÉ Not A Spouse Yet (They're Not The Same) 14.10.2025

Engagement isn’t just planning a wedding—it’s preparing for a godly marriage. In this honest episode, we unpack why engagement feels like building and defending at the same time, how to spot spiritual warfare vs. normal conflict, and the premarital conversations every Christian couple must have (money, roles, sex & purity, spiritual life, vision). If you’re Christian, dating or engaged, and wa...

Don’t Marry Someone You’ve Never Seen Under Pressure 07.10.2025

You’re not just marrying someone at their strongest—you’re marrying their weaknesses too. If you’ve ever wondered, “How do I know if they can handle hard times?” this episode is for you. We’re showing Christian singles and dating couples how to look beyond chemistry, comfort, and church talk to see if the person you’re dating can stay faithful, steady, and emotionally safe when life gets heavy. Yo...

You Fell in Love Too Fast—Now What? 30.09.2025

You’re dating… but you don’t feel known. Why? Because attraction ≠ foundation. In this episode we tell the truth about why so many Christian couples rush commitment, feel lonely inside relationships, and what to do instead: build friendship first—the kind that carries you through grief, job loss, postpartum, and pressure. What you’ll learn:- How to tell infatuation from real emotional connection-...

Stop Overlooking These Qualities in Dating (It’s Why You’re Still Single) 23.09.2025

Stop letting surface-level assumptions blind you to lasting love. In this episode of The W Podcast, Tim & Pauline unpack the 7 green flags you’re ignoring in dating as a Christian. These are the overlooked qualities that don’t always feel “exciting” at first—like friendship, loyalty, or peace—but actually hold marriages together for the long run. If you’ve ever said things like:“We’re just too...

We Took a Road Trip to a Wedding…And Learned THIS About Love 16.09.2025

We took a road trip to Chicago for our friend’s wedding 💍 — but somewhere between the playlists, deep dish pizza, The Bean, and traffic, we ended up learning a lot about love, marriage, and what dating really prepares you for. Back when we were dating, we only ever did day trips as a Christian couple. No overnight vacations, no big getaways. At the time it felt small, but now that we’re married,...

10 Hard Truths About Christian Dating We’d Tell You If We Weren’t Afraid To Offend You 09.09.2025

Some of you want a godly relationship more than you want to be godly. This is the 10% your friends won’t say out loud. In today’s episode, we share 10 hard truths about Christian dating—the stuff that actually breaks cycles: real boundaries, real wisdom, real community, and real holiness. If you’re tired of vague “vibes” and churchy clichés, this will give you clarity and a plan. What you’ll learn...

Don't Date Anyone Until You Ask THESE Questions 02.09.2025

Are you in the talking stage and wondering what questions you should ask (and when to ask them)? 👀Too many Christians either avoid the real conversations out of fear—or go too deep too soon and kill the vibe. In this episode, Tim & Pauline break down how to ask intentional questions in dating without coming across as interrogating. You’ll learn:✅ Why asking the right questions in the talking...

BEFORE You Get Engaged Ask These 9 Non-Negotiable Questions 💍✅ 26.08.2025

Are you ready to say yes to forever—or are you stepping into engagement without clarity? 💍Cold feet don’t start on the wedding day. They start when we avoid the hard questions in the engagement stage. In this episode, we’re sharing 9 essential questions every couple needs to ask before getting engaged. These are the questions that protect you from heartbreak, build confidence at the altar, and he...

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